It was on the first leg of the 'Say You Will Tour', near the end of the concert, and Lindsey went to rest his head on Stevie's back, and she mouthed 'I don't think so' to the audience about 3 times so we'd know
for sure what she was saying, and stepped aside. I'm pretty sure it was the 2nd night of 2 that they played in Worcester, Mass. Her expression was world-weary and bemused, but she also seemed to mean it: "I don't
think so. Don't you dare try to do that resting your head on my back bit"
She seemed noticeably happier at the later Bridgeport, CT and Hartford CT shows, especially the Hartford show. But on the first leg of the tour, the 2 shows I saw, she did seem really miserable. Maybe she was never comfortable performing the new songs from SYW, and Lindsey
was comfortable, and even added 'Red Rover' when Ledgies requested he do so. Much as some of us begged for 'Thrown Down' or 'EFO', they never got added! Just 'DR' and RTTG' got thrown out!
Many have pointed out that they have the opinion Lindsey sometimes is jealous of SN's popularity with concert-goers, but I wonder now if maybe SN is jealous of LB as well, for his ability to adapt to new material with comfort. I bet, maybe, that was part of the trouble between them. He's flexible, and she maybe felt a bit inadequate that she was unable to muster the courage to perform 'TD', 'EFO' or any of the more demanding songs she had on the SYW release. Lindsey sure didn't choose the 'easy' songs to perform from the album. I have a feeling he would have been willing to play any or all of the new material.