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Originally Posted by LikeAWillow
I'm not big on labels either. I've done relationships with men and women, and I tend to say I'm whatever label best fits with the relationship I'm in at the time.
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cool. fwiw, i have been with guys and girls and consider myself lez.
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Originally Posted by LikeAWillow
Nature vs. Nuture is such a tough thing for me to grapple with. Studies have shown (I'll try to track down the one in particular I'm thinking of if anyone is interested) that most women have some degree of physical attraction to other women, even if that attraction isn't emotional. So in that case, does nature decide the physical dimension and nurture determines whether or not you're willing to act on that attraction, or, is that attraction based on the fact that women are sexualized in almost every aspect of our society?
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i know the studies you're talking about. i have no idea what to make of them, though.
i think it was NYT that ran a big piece about it some years back.
i don't think it's about women being sexualized in society, though. i think everyone is sexualized - it's all part of being an animal. women are just more circumspect about sexualizing men.