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Originally Posted by Musicman408
There aren't too many girls my age in my neighborhood.
Every time I've like a girl, I've tried pursuing them... They just don't seem to notice!  |
The
trick is to NOT pursue them. Then wait until they pursue you. You gotta be a member of a group and make yourself "stand out" somehow. One very easy way to do that is to dress nice, which is absolutely mandatory. Dressing nice doesn't have to involve spending a lot of money. But there's more to "standing out" than that. Stevie said it best, i.m.o. - - "It's ALL in the way you say very little."
And you gotta look like somebody who's "headed somewhere" - - Women like guys with a little bit of ambition - but don't make it obvious that you're trying to sell yourself that way - "hints" are more interesting anyway.
Mostly, you gotta make yourself seem unavailable; 'cause scarcity has value.
Or the exact opposite of that or somewhere in-between.
BUT . . . You won't listen to that. Hell, *I* didn't! I'm not convinced ANY guy ever does until it's too late.
And seriously, for the love of God, check out the X-Files - - - Especially the pilot episode:
"Are you familiar with a man named Fox Mulder?
Scully: "Yes."
"How so?"
Scully: "By Reputation."
Ignore that at your own risk!!!!!