It sounds as if your mother is forgetting you're her child...I'm not completely aware of how your relationship operates BEFORE this whole divorce...but it sounds like she's taking out her frustrations on you. I would seek some counseling in the very least for yourself...especially with someone who has dealt with divorce. At least it will help you understand what is happening, and to have patience knowing that in time things will work out. It doesn't even have to be a counselor...could be a pastor...a best friends parent, someone you trust. A manager at work, someone you can confide in.
My parents divorced in Nov/Dec 1998...it was June/July of 1999 before we could all be CALM, and sit in the same room together. On a much more somber note, it was nearly 8 years after that before we could all finally LET GO of the whole situation. And, there are still some scars that remain. I believe there are some things that time cannot mend. I pray for you and your sanity during this period. If you can remember ONE THING, just remember their divorce is NOT your fault.
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