You need Tusk and lots of it (the album..)
And of course its ok to be friends with this lady. When a person is very ill, they need all the friends they can get. And you have to also make sure she is aware how much you care. But if the occassion ever rears its head that you pick her over yer family in some kind of siutation, take a step back and access the situation.
You also need Fireflies.
