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Originally Posted by fleetwoodtrick
First off... I though I'd get some things straight with this, so you all don't think I'm THAT much of an inconsiderate loser. LOL, anyways... It's not the fact that they're going out that hurts so much... it's that she didn't tell me. For a month. And that she lied to me. I'd ask her like every day if they were dating. And she'd either completely ignore me, or tell me no. They can't control their like for each other, so I'm not like trying to force them to stop. I'm just really pissed and upset over this all.
Tango ~ Thanks.  Hehe, that game is addicting!
iamnotafraid ~ Yes, yes he did know. I told him about three months ago, at a dance. :/ He kept shooting me "I'm so sorry" looks in school today.
Chris and carrie721 ~ Hmmmm, that could be arranged... Because "Whole Lotta Trouble" is like my theme song. You don't anger Rhiya! I mean... I would never actually hurt anyone, but... my eyes are kind of scary. They're this really light blue, and it often looks like I'm glaring at you when I'm not. I was staring at the girl today with no expression on my face, but she was totally freaked out. One look, and she went to go grab the hall pass. 
Chris~ .... :P Okay, so boys didn't really like girls then... but girls like guys. Either things are different now, or you're just a guy. 
~Rhiya  |
awh honey, I'm sorry that whole thing happened to you.
I'm 16, [I beleive a year older than you?] and I've had my fair share of fairweather friends. They come and go, and they take your trust for granted. It really does hurt, so I can definetely sympathyze. [That is sooo not spelt right.]
Trust me hon, you're problem is not stupid. Your friend should have been completely upfront and honest with you especially if she knew you liked him.
May I ask how he reacted after you were upfront with him about your feelings?
The last time a guy heard I liked him, he never did anything about it either way. That bugs me more than the fact that he didn't like me.
To be truthful, my best friend is a guy right now. I know guys aren't as catty, and honestly, every girl needs her best guy friend. I know if they have a problem with you, they're so much more upfront, and guys are more honest (as friends) than girls really. Girls lieeee!!
And trust me Rhiya, those death looks are completely helpful. Those will relieve stress, trust me. I liked the same guy for 2 years since the day I met him basically, and he did somewhat flirt with me, and he made really cute comments in my yearbook, implying 'he hopes to see me next year.' well both years he never made the first attempt to talk to me, and this year I found out hes a 'playa' who I 'should never get in a car with.' Since that day, he's been getting some really mean looks from me, so he stays away.
The sad part is, hes the VP of our NHS at school o.o
Anyways, I hope what you can get out of this ridiculously long post, is that teenage girls are evil, and teenage boys need to communicate more if they have any feelings for you [or not] whatsoever.
If you ever do want to talk sometime, please drop me a PM