[nicepace]

I think it's important to remember that songs are fiction. Although actual feelings and incidents contribute to a songwriter's ideas, the final product (the song) doesn't necessarily relate to any actual person, place, or thing.

I think it is a classic mistake, made often by pop music fans, to assume that a song is about something (or someone) specific and that you can "figure it out" if you have enough information. A song is about whatever the listener thinks it's about.