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Originally Posted by carrie721
it's almost 5 here, i've been up since 7. coherence is pretty much my enemy right now, but i'm going to try.
i tried, i got nothing. except that to say that anything i've said is "premeditated" is ridiculous, unless you count my sitting here and staring at the keys premeditation.
and since we're discussing passive aggressiveness, were your comments that sparky doesn't like you enough to call you a second time and that he has a high voice intended passive aggressive? if not, then that just illustrates how easily things can be misinterpreted on les internetz.
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Meh, maybe. He does have a high voice. Which isn't a flaw, so...I don't see the problem. It's like if someone said they noticed my feet are big. And it really is all I remembered from our convo. I also remember that Strand's and Tower's voices were higher than I expected.
And I didn't ever really care that he didn't call me again, I was friends with him for about 2 years after that, we talked and everything, lots. it was a joke. I wouldn't have thought he didn't like me enough, cause we talked extensively after. Like, for years.
And I didn't say anything you said was premeditated. i said that
I was not capable of premeditation. Wait, actually I don't rememember, I don't want to be called out if I said "Carrie, you say premeditated things" I just remember my intent now, which was to say that someone said I had an agenda, and that I am nearly incapable of premeditated agendas.
The only thing that caused me to say anything were subsequent comments. And like I says before, if you have problems, say so. Preferably PM. And I only says so, because it seems like someone does have some problems. If not, then, fine. Then I will expect no more sideswipes. I think I get the gist of the energy, now, though, and it's base. Which is good cause now I know, and that's all I wanted. Like I says before, I don't want to be thinking that someone feels some way about me, when really, they feel a whole different way. I don't like people to pretend, or be nice to me and talk to me when they don't really like me. Cause I wouldn't talk to or pretend to be nice to someone I didn't like.