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Originally Posted by carrie721
you did not just accuse someone else of being passive aggressive!  |
Why not? You got something to say?
Just cause I do it sometimes, don't mean no one else does it. I'm just confused about the energy going on, and would prefer to have it direct. Cause it seems like something is going on that I don't know about. But that is affecting me. Really PM's would be preferable, ie, if you got some problem, PM me about it.
If someone is going to swipe, I'd prefer to take it up directly, and address anyone's problem with me. Especially people who, until this moment, I adored and thought were my friends, ie you and Spark. Hey, maybe I'm crazy that way. I just don't deal well with subversiveness. Even when I am passive aggressive, I tell the truth about it within about four seconds. Which you know is true. I don't deal under the radar, I rarely have emotions, thoughts, or opinions that I don't say. Even if I change my mind real fast, I tell people that I changed my mind. Even if I passive aggressive someone, I tell them that I did so very much sooner rather than later. And more often than not, I apologize profusely for my misdeeds. Which I think you know. Likely within the hour, if not the half hour, if not in 10 minutes.
But if you two, who I previously adored, and thought were my friend, have some problem, then I'd rather have you say so, and go on from there, like I would, than this BS. Because I don't want to like someone who doesn't like me, and I don't want someone to tippy toe around something they want to say to me, if there is a problem, I would rather address it outright. If you don't want to talk to me, or don't like me, or whatever your deal is, I would rather know now than endure sideswipes for reasons I know not, because I can't fight something I don't know about. Or ignore it. Or whatever I want to do. Either way, honesty is preferred by me. None of this pussy non confronting subversive bully stuff. Nuh uh.
okay? Clear enough?