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Originally Posted by michelle2677
^^ that IS disrespectful because they told you it would be done.
I know it's hard thinking of him being there alone, but it's not him. The best part of him is what you have now-which is memories 
And I doubt they have him just lying around. I'm sure he is being taken care of.
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Well, he's home now. The first thing the crematory lady did was apologize for yesterday, so I didn't have to kill her with a rusty knife. Although she did tell me that they didn't freeze him, so I'm trying not to think about how he was "stored". His ashes are in a tin, a little bigger than a yogurt container(I figured there'd be more). The weird thing- they gave me back the "comforter thing" that the vet gave him to pass away on. It makes me sad holding it, but I think I'm going to keep it(I had planned on returning it to the vet). I can't explain why.....it just makes me feel closer to him.
I'm doing much better today, though. I sure do miss him, but I'm glad that any suffering is over.