Our whole relationship is a big fight. But it's never gone that far. He has never tried to make me afraid of him. Thing is-he KNOWS I can't swim, and am terrified of water. So he said that basically like.."you're not leaving...or hit the road...or water. I think that's pretty ****ty to tell someone to jump in the river and swim back if they want to leave. I don't think I'll get over that. There were a lot of other things said-I was in tears. His birthday was yesterday. We'll see how it goes. I sent a long email apologizing for my part, but he took it way too far and I want to end the friendship, but hopefully we could do it amicably. Sorry you're having a bad time as well. It sucks, doesn't it.
