I think a lot of people use kids as pawns in relationships.
Several years ago my nephew was in a high-end private pre-school. The women my sister met through there..SCARY and sad.
They all married into mega money and had at the minimum three children. Why? Well a couple of them told my sister that once there are three or more children the husband won't leave because the alimony/child support would break him - so it's cheaper for him to stay. Basically these women felt they had to do this in order to keep their wealthy husbands. Sick and sad.
As a result most (not all but most) of the kids were a mess and were mean and just not pleasant at all (much like their parents!)
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