Dude, so sorry to hear this. I had a bender a few weeks ago, and I was acting like a complete ASS! Thank God, I was at home, but I put my husband thru the ringer...eventually passing out between the bathroom and closet. No joke. Took a good 4 days to clear that crap out of my system. But I am 34, and TOO OLD FOR THAT CRAP! If I had been out in public, OMG, I fear to think what kind of STOOPID stuff I could have/WOULD have done!
The fact that hubby didn't drop me off on a deserted road says a lot about him, but I was only drinking, and well, I just got stoopid. Someone that repeatedly effs up your trust factor HAS GOT TO GO! I agree it's easier said than done, but that person needs to realize THEY need to pick up their own slack, not someone else for them!
Not only is it dangerous for them, but could get your butt in a load of trouble..if he's being promiscuous, (which I pray is NOT the case, but how do you know?) you need to think about that, and plain and simple, anyone that keeps going back to it, WHEN THEY ARE IN A GOOD THING (i.e you...but not LITERALLY...bwahahah...i just kept making that worse) isn't worth your time. If they haven't woken up and smelled reality/future, they aren't gonna. Take some time, cry a lot if need be. Beat an innocent pillow merciless, whatever you have to do, but man, get out while you can!
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