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Originally Posted by irishgrl
uh oh.....  dont trash me too badly, Im just pro-MOM and pro-CHILD here! |
I just posted my response before reading this!
I don't think I trashed you, and I didn't mean that in a bad way. Wasn't trying to say "Amber and Mary, I'll deal with you two later!" I just meant that I wanted to try and answer some of your questions and give a little more information to show that things aren't quite as black and white as they seem. Unfortunately, I'm not always good at explaining things, especially when it comes to my own reasoning and feelings, so I hope my responses don't end up just confusing you!
As I said, I do appreciate the advice. The reasons I posted this in the first place were to 1) vent a little, and 2) vent to people who aren't emotionally involved, and could give me some non-biased advice. So I do appreciate any advice I can get. In the end, I may not act on all of it, because I will do what I think is best for me. But it's nice to receive objective, non-emotional takes on the situation.
