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Old 11-01-2005, 01:19 AM
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Originally Posted by Johnny Stew
I certainly know gay guys who are total assholes... being gay doesn't absolve one of serious personality flaws.
But obviously coming out wasn't an easy thing for Brandon, and I just don't see why he has to be railroaded into explaining himself more than he already had.

And, no, he doesn't HAVE to answer any of these questions, but when you have someone (Hi Bobo ) repeatedly asking, "why haven't you answered my question?," in the midst of other people also asking for explanations, a person is bound to feel cornered or put on the spot.

I'll hand it to Brandon though... he seems to be a pretty good sport.

-- Johnny "Pollyanna" Stew
Yeah, he is. Being a good sport.
Railroaded?!?! He's the one that's been talking about it for *at least* two days. I've barely read a post by him that doesn't talk about his crush on Ken, or some other gay thing. That being true, I hardly think he's being railroaded, or cornered. If he didn't want to talk about it, he shouldn't. And actually, Bobo's question was the most innocuous of all the posts. He basically asked "when did you out yourself as gay?" When. On the ledge. Hardly hostile, IMO.
If he's going to bring it up in the way, and quantity, that he has, he (and you) should not be suprised by all the Ledgies being their usual selves regarding this information.
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