I'm not totally "masculine" and I'm not totally "effeminate"... I'm just Brian, I guess.
Some people can figure out that I'm gay pretty quickly, while other folks never pick up on it.
My first boyfriend was fairly effeminate. I still remember my neighbor asking me who the girl was that he saw leaving my house early in the morning!
(For the record, I told him, "
his name is Michael," and he dropped the subject right there.)
I've always preferred guys who, like myself, aren't too much of one or the other, and Joshua's just right on the masculine/effeminate scale.
