first of all what is a SAHM?
next, I just have to say that I am reminded yet AGAIN why I am so much better off being SINGLE! Its just not freakin worth it! I am teaching my little one (he's 5) to take his empty dishes to the sink and rinse them. bless his heart he has to stand on something to even reach the faucet, but he does it!
and when he's older, he's going to learn how to vacuum and dust and mop and do his laundry! my brother did it, my dad could do it and my Grandpa did the cooking as well as the housework AND worked...REAL MEN pull their weight. period. without whining either
btw: I have no problem doing the majority of the housework etc, but sometimes its nice to have someone else do something once in awhile.