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Old 10-03-2005, 03:24 AM
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Originally Posted by amber
Creep Out/Lame. I'm glad you said something. You know what I hate? Like in Suze's story, when after you say something, the guy acts like you're a bitch for saying it, and makes stupid sarcastic comments, as if it was not actually their problem. God, that makes me mad!

Anyway....I think you're totally right, and I can't believe anyone was "not supportive".
Good job, Mari!!
Yeah well.. I tried to talk about it with a colleague before I actually said something to the creep himself. And her reaction was just 'never had problems with him myself'. I thought that sucked, I was just looking for some support but that kind of remark makes you feel alone with it, you know?
But I'm the one who should draw the line, she was right on that.

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Originally Posted by trackaghost
Ugh! That "I'm like that with everyone" is no excuse at all. His behaviour was completely inappropiate. I love the way he tried to deflect it back onto you with "have you had problems like this before" line.

I think you did the right thing Mari. He needed to be told, the creep
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That's what that kind of creep will always do, act like YOU are the problem, and HE's the victim. I'm still so mad about those remarks. Contemplating about talking to my superiors about this. If he'll try anything again, even gossiping behind my back, I most certainly will.

Thanks you two as well for the support I wasn't looking forward at all to going back to work this morning, but just reading stuff like this does make me feel stronger about it
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