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Originally Posted by mylittledemon
I think you all have valid points. The last girl I was seriously involved with was from 1998 to 2001. The last time I saw her was January 2002. So from 1/02 to this point, we've just NOW gotten to where we can email each other and neither of us are resentful. She likes to know how my family is, and where I am, and what I'm doing. But it took a few years to get to that point.
I suppose the same is true here. Going back to the original topic........Well, I followed my heart (again) and I returned her call. She did not answer but I left her a voicemail and said it was ok if she wanted to go have a drink. No return call yet...
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back to your first post: you said she called to ask if you could have lunch together or a cup of coffee. Isnt that something friends do? If that is what you want now, it also sounds like that is what SHE wants. She is probably just as conflicted as you are but she probably recognizes that she values you on some level just as you apparently do with her (especially if you think about her EVERY DAY!) If you are clear that friendship is as far as it goes, I think you have the potential to be great friends. after all, you both know each other very well. I wish you luck.....