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Originally Posted by eclipse
Keep in mind that distance and memories always make things look better than they really are or were.
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That is so true.
If you can handle telling her and yourself that this is just a friendly thing because you wanted to see her, then by all means, go for it. If that is what you want, then I think you should. But consider how painful it may be because not a lot of time has passed since the breakup, comparatively. Maybe if you waited to see her at a later date, you may gain more perspective and see things more clearly. And you may realize why it's not something you want at all, like Heather said. Or maybe in your situation this is enough time for you to get some perspective. Maybe you have spent enough time apart that you can stand to spend a bit of time together without it being too dramatic. Only you know the best thing for you, but I understand how you feel because I've asked myself that question, too.
You can see what a great decision-maker I am, huh?
Best of luck with it, whatever you decide to do.
