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Originally Posted by markolas
Part of the problem was I just don't want a husband. I'm someone who *needs* a lot of alone time, and he couldn't deal with that. I think what I'm looking for is someone who's a great friend that I get along with, am attracted to, and can have great, fun, lighthearted sex with. And not have him complain if I need a little personal space every few days. 
A happy medium in between a trick and an LTR.  |
THAT is extremely hard to find.
Then again, it
always seems like the one thing we're most looking for, is the one thing we have the most difficult time finding. Meanwhile, other people seem to fall right into those kinds of relationships!
I always seemed to find guys who either wanted to be married YESTERDAY, or who only wanted to get their rocks off. When what I wanted, was something in between.
And me, being the stubborn Italian/Englishman that I am, refused to settle for one extreme or the other.