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Originally Posted by sparky
I have seen VAST stupidly quite recently that relates to this subject.
Warning - GRAPHIC
A female friend of mine had a booty call 2 weeks ago with a guy she had dated once. She raved about how they did it 6 times.
So, I am telling her about a bad sexual experience I had a few months ago. Concerning a guy who wanted me to "swallow". So sad, too bad. Never happening. The last guy who did that - unexpectedly "got there" without letting me know, got knocked to the floor by my fist. Bastard. I told him I wasn't into that. Anyway...
She then tells me that she didn't mind when this guy did that to her. She was just hoping she wasn't pregnant. I hollered at her " How the hell would THAT happen? You didn't use any birth control ?"
The answer "I had vaginal dryness."
I told her that was the stupidest thing I'd ever heard in my life, and that her actions were idiotic, dangerous, and irresponsible.
The response, "People make mistakes. **** happens."
She was pissed at me because I called her on her ****. I told her that as my friend, I would expect her to hit me in the head with big chunk of lumber if I told her I was letting random guys dump semen in me. She is still mad at me.
So, here we have a 40 year old, college educated woman with a great job, and all that stuff. Making a stupid choice when she knows better. She already had one kid with a jerk at 18. Evidently didn't learn. Ready to risk her life, pregnancy, and all the rest for an orgasm with a guy she has met once.
Happens all the time. I have to posit that she bears the brunt with this one. It is no secret what the risks are. She has the friggin uterus. She is the guardian, so to speak. It's her ass if she slips up, and she is well aware what the price can be. She can read.
I saw all kinds of stupid, thoughtless breeding as kid, and the consequences. Poverty, violence, alcoholism - doesn't take a PhD to figure it out. Not even for a 5 year old. Before I was even sexually active, I knew about AIDS, and that unsafe sex could very likely kill me. So I haven't had it. Pretty simple.
Semen in my body = very likely a slow lingering death. So guess what ? No semen in my body. Pretty damned basic. Don't know why people don't get that. Semen in body = pregnancy. What's the problem here ? Are people that stupid ?
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I agree w/you, your friend was irresponsible. I find it amazing that that sort of casual attitude exists at ALL amongst supposedly mature, intelligent people.
one thing tho...regarding this:
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Semen in my body = very likely a slow lingering death
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I had always been told that AIDS (assuming you are referring to AIDS when you say slow lingering death) didnt survive stomach acids....is this wrong?
I think part of the problem could be incomplete information or downright MIS-information....what do you think???