1) Do you believe in love at first sight? Not really, maybe lust at first sight.
2) If given the choice of 1 year in love with the man or woman you’ve always wanted, after which time you would be alone for the remainder of your life (or) 50 years in a good relationship, but with little passion, which would you choose? One year of passion.
3) Describe your ideal mate. Have you ever come close to finding this person? Funny, honest, intelligent- my husband is all of these things, fortunately.
4) Do you believe in “it is better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all” or do you prefer to “play it safe”? Loved and lost, absolutely. Playing it safe means you never take chances.
5) On a scale of 1 to 10 (with 10 being the highest), rate how important sex is to you in a relationship? Frequency, quality or both? 6, I guess. Quality, not frequency.
6) Have you ever written a poem or a song for someone you loved? Nope.
7) Destiny has paid you a visit and introduced you to the man or woman you could see yourself loving for the rest of your life. The hitch is, he or she is in a relationship or married already. Do you go for it or move on? Married, no way. In a relationship, maybe. But I'm not the kind to "go for it" in situations like that, so I'd probably lose out.
8) Destiny has paid you another visit and introduced you to the man or woman you could see yourself loving for the rest of your life. However, you find out that this person has 6 months to live. Do you go for it or avoid the ultimate pain this relationship will cause you? Hm. I'd probably go for it and try to give him the best 6 months I could.
9) Put the following four relationship characteristics in your order of preference (1 being the highest, 4 the lowest): Communication. Sex. Trust. Wealth. 1. Trust 2. Communication 3. Sex 4. Wealth
10) Would you ever marry for money? Not marry, no. But looking back, maybe I would have dated some guys with money just to see what it felt like.
11) Would you die for the person you love? I don't know that I'd die for my husband, but I would for my step-son.
12) Do you see yourself as a faithful lover or one who might be prone to stray? 100% faithful.
13) How many times have you been in love? Two times.
14) How many times do you feel a person can love in a lifetime (with different partners)? I have no idea, but I believe it can be several. Some people are much more capable of feeling love than others.
15) Do you believe it is possible and even probable, to be in love with two people at the same time? Yes.
16) What is the one thing you must have in a relationship and cannot compromise on or give up? Honesty and trust.
17) What is the one thing you will not tolerate in a relationship? Lying (see a theme here?.
18) Do you believe that saying or hearing the words “I love you” on a daily basis is necessary in a relationship? I don't know that it's necessary, but I do think it's imporant to let the other person know how you feel, frequently. It's nice to feel loved.
19) Do you believe in destiny and soul mates or do you feel it is all the luck of the draw or random? I used to believe in soul mates, now I'm not so sure. I think that there is a major "plan" and that we are destined to have certain people in our lives for different reasons.
20) How many soul mates does one person have in a lifetime? Have you found yours? If not, do you feel sure you will? I don't really believe in soulmates, so I can't answer this one.
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