I am pulling full time MOH duty now for my sister marrying May 14. I have run errands, thrown a massive shower, and will be helping set up the venue. I am ready to be DONE.
Anyhow, you can enlist others to help you with the shower. I got help from the other BM and an aunt. Just delegate the tasks that you feel comfortable with. You can print your own shower invites and have as little or much food as you like.
I actually chose the dress. As luck would have it, mootsies tootsies makes nice satin shoes in many colors for around $20. So that was easy. She should let you have a dress you feel comfortable in.
let me know if you need anything more specific as I am doing this right now.
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