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Originally Posted by GateandGarden
I guess I don't get it. Deanna's mom and mine were being selfish in wanting to have us? I can't say that about my Mom because she made a conscious decision to have me and give up a lot of things in her life that made her happy, for me. She knew, going into it, that her life was going to change dramatically and she was willing to sacrifice for me. How is that desire selfish? I just don't get it. 
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When a theoretical discussion turns personal, it's hard to continue it. I'm sure we could, if we were well informed, have a psychological deconstruction of anyone's parents here. There are so many stories and exceptions. That's kind of beside the point.