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Originally Posted by GateandGarden
I'm really sorry that happened. I understand your frustration because I had a guy do something quite similar to me a few years ago and I did nothing. I was in too much shock to say anything, and I was also hesitant to be mean about it. So, I just waited for the guy to take his hands off of me. Then, later I was mad that I didn't say something like, "Excuse me, I don't even know you!" I think he thought he was at liberty to do that because we lived in the same dormitory at the time, despite the fact that we had never spoken and didn't know each other.  Well, you can look back at it and say that you did say something to the person. Since you've seen this guy before and you have a description, maybe it would be a good idea to let the police know. I figure it couldn't hurt. Again, I'm sorry that happened to you. 
Hillary
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Thanks for your thoughts
The shock itself was a shock,if you can understand that.. If he had hit me or accosted me violently I would have dealt with the blows then immobilised him myself until the police arrived. I don't tend to go into shock, I just usually react to a situation accordingly.. But with it being sexual in nature I really was shocked... Like I got hit by Lennox Lewis or something.. it didn't register as it should.. I can now understand how people that suffer abuse and rape must feel when they just freeze.. it wasn't pleasnat, having said that, it's programmed in my head now so if it ever happens again I will be prepared for it.