I wouldn't listen to your hubby. Don't ignore her.
First of all, she's been your friend for thirty years, that has to count for something. Write her a letter asking her what's wrong. Did you do something wrong? Can you fix it? Remind her about why you became friends in the first place. You both invested years into your friendship, you both need to communicate to each other how each one is feeling and then decide if you can move on or if you have to part ways. Don't throw away a thirty year old friendship over material things.
Try not to think about what she may have done to you to make you mad, swallow your pride and tell her you want to be friends again!
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