[GateandGarden]

Originally Posted by sparky

I have 2 friends who I think are primarily asexual. One identifies himself as straight. He is 35 and has gone on exactly one date in the 9 years I have known him. The other identifies herself as lesbian, and has sex on a Spock like schedule.
Neither shows much interest in sex at all. Both comment on attractive people, but do little to nothing about it. One seems very happy, the other is a terminal grouch. Whatever. They both funnel a lot of energy into other activities. There is something to be said for it. If I hadn't spent so much time and energy in my life looking for sex or a mate...I would have gotten a lot of other things done !

So you're friends aren't really interested in realtionships, either? Does the lesbian date often but she's not that interested in the sexual aspects of it? I'm sorry if I'm asking too much about them.

Hillary