I have 2 friends who I think are primarily asexual. One identifies himself as straight. He is 35 and has gone on exactly one date in the 9 years I have known him. The other identifies herself as lesbian, and has sex on a Spock like schedule.
Neither shows much interest in sex at all. Both comment on attractive people, but do little to nothing about it. One seems very happy, the other is a terminal grouch. Whatever. They both funnel a lot of energy into other activities. There is something to be said for it. If I hadn't spent so much time and energy in my life looking for sex or a mate...I would have gotten a lot of other things done !
