[DrummerDeanna]

Originally Posted by The Tower

I think the "bi gets so much ****" thing has a little history in being non-committal to being gay. There are many who don't believe that bi-sexuality can truly exist. However, I know many people who really are bi-sexual. They can be attracted to, and fall in love with, either sex.

In the male gay world, there are many men who claims themselves "bi" because they are afraid to admit that they are gay. I know a ton of lesbians, but I'm not deep enough into their culture to know why there might be "dyke/bi intolerance". Maybe it's because bi women associate with straight men. I know a lot of dykes that have trouble with the whole "straight man - patriarchal" thing.

In any case- I believe this little nightclub is open to everyone. Gay, Lesbian, Bi-Sexual, Trans-Gendered, Straight, Sorta Straight, Trade, "Gee, Mom, I Don't Know How Those Playgirls Got Under My Mattress" People, Granola Dykes, Lipstick Lesbians, Drag Queens, and "I Don't Know What the Hell I Am" People.

I prefer "heteroflexible" I'm totally kidding - that's what we used to call the trendy bi's in our area...

What I don't get is why some STILL see bi as non-commital to being gay...it seriously pisses me off when people (behind my back no less) say I'm in denial...oy....but Ive been down that road in this thread already hahaha....I am who I am...not much I can do at this point but enjoy it