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Originally Posted by HomerMcvie
Believe it or not, I do too. Lindsey grew up(even if it took him a long time), and went off and found happiness.
I don't think Stevie is capable of that. "The life she lives" is all she knows, or wants. And I think if she did change, she fears that that would be the end of her star trip...of everything she cherishes. And yes, even if she's sad about her life, her star trip means more than anything to her. That girl has always lived for the limelight.
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Give me a break. She has a fantastic life. I don't feel sorry at all and I know from my own life and from my parents' lives post-divorce that you absolutely do not need a lover to make you happy.
In fact, the people I've always pitied are those who need to constantly be in a relationship in order to be happy. I think people like that who are otherwise intelligent, sane people are just so darn insecure that they will never find happiness on their own, when nobody else is around. That to me, is pathetic.
Living your life not dependent on a man or a woman? That to me is the definition of a strong, secure, happy and well-grounded individual. Not to need someone else, not to need I'll say it, sex...to make you happy. If you aren't having sex with someone, for those who haven't worked this out yet, you don't owe them anything. That's why relationships are hard work, because of sex complicating an otherwise lovely friendship.
I must say, I have so many great friends, men and women, none of us have ever been in relationships with each other but those friendships are in many ways more enriching than a romance could ever be.