One thing to remember too is that being a "fan" of one's talent is different than being a "fan" of the actual person. One can be a fan of Micks drumming but not a fan of himself. The same goes for Lindsey and others.
On a side note, I tend to like everybody! Even my crazy boss who has threatened to fire me twice in the past two months, I still "kinda" like her. I mean she's like insane, but we are still nice to each other!
