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Originally Posted by daniellaaarisen
Also, to stop basing my happiness on my relationship status of the time.
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^^^ This? Is one of the healthiest decisions you can come to. I've been there.
The simple truth is that a person who is only happy when in a relationship will never find themselves in the
right relationship, because they will always be the one who needs the relationship to be happy, and that gives the other person a sickening control over you. Once you decide (and it really is just a simple decision to change the way you think -
but you have to believe it) that you are happy on your own, single, alone - because you're awesome and worthy of being desired and loved - because anyone would be
lucky to be with you - because if they don't treat you right you'll get up and go - because you're fine being on your own, in fact
happy being on your own - only then will the person who is truly loving and worthy of your love come along.