Suggestions/Advice on How To Be A Little More Social/Personable With A Little Someone
 

Now, I know this is going to sound rediculous people, as crazy of a talker as I am on here, but there are times when I am at school with friends and people that I know and I just don't really know exactly what to say to start conversation and whatever. This is Especially true when I am around one of my many attractive female friends. The ones that I may want to have more with.

I was just wondering if any of you all had any ideas on how to just be a little more social. You know, I'm always asking question like "how are you doing", "how was your weekend" and all of that good stuff but with a lot of them, I feel like I just can't be completely loose and I was wondering if any of you all had any suggestions on how to be a little more conversational. That's my biggest problem actually and I really wish I knew how to get better at it. :nod:

Thanks for reading, and hopefully I'll be hearing from some of you people out there. :nod: I appreciate it so much.

Much Love

Listen to people. Make them feel better about themselves.

Well I do most definately. I'm always complimenting people and stuff and sometimes I feel like maybe I kind of annoy them. Maybe I'm completely off base with thinging that though.:shrug:

Quit trying so hard.

ditto, it's obvious~

Yes I agree with demon. Listen to people. Ethan sometimes gives me the impression that, while he solicits responses from other people on the forum, he doesn't really listen to them; he seems to glide right past, whether it's from impatience or boredom or something else.

The people you're talking to (or trying to talk to) generally have a keen feel for whether you're paying genuine attention or whether you're just phoning in or even yanking their chain.

Well in face to face convos, I promise, I am a good listener. I remember EVERYTHING. :nod:

compliments are amazing :D

give a girl a compliment, and shell love you forever :)
-well, a friend love at least.

Yeah, well I'm tired of being only the friend.

youre not the only one :p

But still, girls always love compliments. :shrug:

and even guys do, if you want guy friends, just be like 'your shoes kick major arse, are those [insert brand name popular where you live]?' and that makes for a conversation as well.

My friend Adam tries to be ghetto, so we talk about his Ghetto shoes, that was a twenty minute conversation in itself. haha.

Don't talk to her tits.

:shocked:

Thats good too!!

:laugh:!!!

I disagree with this. In my experience, a girl always enjoys a nice rack complement. My favorite being, "Look at dem tiggobitties!"

have i mentioned that you're one of the funniest people on the planet? :lol:

Unless she's wearing this shirt:
http://www.t-arty.com/images/designslarge/mybreasts.jpg
:D

Still single, eh?