"So then I go..."/"Just saying"
 

This is a thread for people who have stories that have "so then I go" in them. Also for people who want to go "I was just saying".
Which means, there are small, strange exchanges that happen in life, that sometimes you want to tell. Exchanges where "you go", then "they go", "then I was all", and "then they were all" and then, well, "you were just saying".
You know the types of convos I mean, though I might encounter them more than your average person, being in a close together city/living area and all. Which doesn't mean that mine are more interesting, and I can't help but think at least some other people might have these odd, short, random exchanges that seem slightly bizarre to them. :shrug:


Just right now, I biked one block to the store. I was coming back, and a BG (black guy) was biking towards me on the sidewalk.

He goes: "Hey, big legs!!! hey, big legs, watch out!!!"

So then I go: "Hey! dumb ass! dumb ass watch out!!!"

And we passed each other.

The end.

I have to say, I am not excited that the first thing someone thinks to call me when they see me riding a bike in the dark from 35 feet away, and they are on a bike as well, is "big legs". It honestly strikes me that this person must have exceptional night vision. :confused:
It seems the BM have a special eye for this, but it is usually spoken in more complimentary terms, rather than being a description of my entire physical presence whilst traveling on a bike in the dark.
Just saying.

Amber, what is it with you and your nocturnal bicycle-journeys to the corner rip-you-off store? You seem to have nothing but asswipes in your neighborhood apparently!

I guess "big legs" is better than "big ass" or "no boobs" or something of that nature but I mean REALLY~ its not like Italian women have the monopoly on big legs or anything :shrug: Especially in SOME neighborhoods...........well, anyway, you're a gutsy chick, you could've probably decked him anyway. High Five.

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Easy, girl. We don't all live in the outskirts of ReddingNess. And trust, the reason why I am so shocked is b/c this would never happen in Chico, or P'ville. I live right on the line of Berkeley and Oakland. People are out. Shizz is going on. Ghetto be there. Etc.
Yes, we would think I didn't have the monopoly on anything, including big legs. I can't totally explain it. :shrug: I think it is weird and funny. I guess these BG are suprised, somehow, to see a WG with big legs and butt. But I've seen others, so...:confused:
Plus, besides that, I have no idea why someone would choose to describe someone that way. Like, I would never see that first, or say it out loud, or use that as an actual initial description of someone.
That is why it is the biggest mystery of all.:confused:

That's why I started a thread. B/C I'm sure that others have weird interactions on a daily basis. Non normal interactions. :shrug: Weird sh*t happens to people all the time.

Oh, and to those who don't know what the heck, I don't live in a bad neighborhood or anything. I live close to campus, and town (Berkeley, and Oakland), everything is very mixed round these parts.:shrug: Most of the people around me own houses and have kids and take care of shiz and etc. I think that is different from a lot of cities.

Why is Amber gutsy for saying that? If she said that to a WHITE man, would you think the same way?

No offense, Amber, I just found that might interesting...

Girl, I was born in O-Town and grew up all over the Bay. I know what happens at all hours of the night. I cant believe the amount of disrespect you have gotten from just about everyone you've ever come in contact with! its mind boggling! Ive been on the streets late at night in various towns all over the Bay, in fact Ive hitch-hiked at 2am to my MOM's house and made it home safely in ONE trip! with only a MINOR lecture mind you!


anyway, you dont deserve the crap that gets slinged your way. from the chicks or the guys. (I remember your other trip to the store, and the "girls" that gave you a bad time) of all the folks here, I think I can most identify with what you went thru and I say it stinks. You hold your head high, like you have been. I may not have been your best bud, but I'd sure as hell watch your back for ya.......

since when is the term "dumb ass" racial??????? One might make the case that its gender specific but hardly racial.....

Well, see, when you say something like "especially in SOME neighborhoods," a lot of people might take that the wrong way, as in thinking you're stereotyping black women, eg; Italian women don't have the monopoly on bigger butts. And from there, I thought you were implying that Amber is gutsy for living in an ethnic neighborhood.

I just thought that was interesting, that's all...

I have something like this... I mean these happen all the time but this one sticks in my mind for some reason. I was driving my crappy little van in the centre of London, in the most almighty traffic. Anyway, a taxi cab tries to push in front of me in a really annoying way as he comes out of a side street, so I annoyingly angled the van so he couldn't get out, what an ass. Anyway, he winds down his crappy window and says:

Taxi driver: Think you're f**king clever, do you?
Me: I do OK.
TD: What have you gained from doing that?
Me: I stayed in front of you.
TD: New to this game, are ya?
Me: I wish I was.
TD: Every day, I do this, every day I'm here in the traffic.
Me: What do you want, a f**king medal?
TD: F**k off.

That was about it, but I figured the vibe fitted in here :)

I was speaking from the perspective of a person (who happens to be white) who has lived in a multi-ethnic Bay Area Neighborhood, and who has also happened to embark upon an after hours trek into the gloaming. Make of that what you will.

well, if it would have come to blows, it might have fitted......


and Amber, I may live in Redneckville NOW, but I was CoCoCounty for the first 25 yrs of my life. Im no hayseed believe me.

I left that bit out.. this is a family thread :laugh:

at least you can laff~ bully for you!

and if this was a family thread, well.............nevermind!

I can always laff, cos I never get hit :)

And yeah.. so much for that :laugh:

you know what? I like you, in spite of our disagreements. you're ok~!

:thumbsup: