How long before before you put out?
 

If you REALLY were attracted to someone - what are your rules on sex when dating?

depends on how hot one is.

extremely hot...before the first date even begins (what? :shrug: )
semi-hot...first date
average...a couple dates
below average...when their bank account becomes a topic of conversation

"You're terrible Muriel!":lol:

ditto

ditto

:lol:

vote bitch..:rolleyes:

Imade the current one wait about six months for a kiss - AND they chased me like all get up :cool:

I wait longer than a month or longer (usually longer). None of the guys can seem to hack it, and leave :rolleyes:

you southern c*ck teaser!:nod:

I went with 3rd or 4th date :shrug: that seems to be the happy middle ground :nod:

Apparently I don't have any, as I had sex with my boyfriend the second time we met. :laugh:

I dunno...life is short. If you meet somebody and you both really want it, and neither of you is attached, then go for it. Of course, it's probably a good idea to not have any illusions that it's anything more than a roll in the hay. In my case, it did develop into a "relationship," but it could just as easily not have. And honestly, either way would've been fine with me. Actually, I think a "friends with benefits" arrangement is better for me than a "relationship" anyway.

Im surprised @ your standpoint, considering you're a buddhist :shrug:

tease :p

tease :p

Why? I'm not a monk...

I've heard worse :laugh:

I see it like this - if you are only with me because you want to have sex, then move on. The wait is more of a test to see what they really want out of the relationship...

I'm somewhat old fashioned, I wait a week or so, if not longer (I once dated someone for 2 years before we did the deed).