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DavidMn 02-26-2011 12:53 AM

Age milestones
 
So I'll be 40 on March 22, less than month away. Yet I dont feel any anxeity over this "massive" event. :laugh: What's wrong with me? Don't I get it?:laugh: ANyone else have issues with turning a certain age?

CreepingDeath 02-26-2011 01:06 AM

I'm 26 right now and it kills me to think I'll be even closer to 30 in June on my birthday. Aging sucks. End of.

louielouie2000 02-26-2011 01:21 AM

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Originally Posted by CreepingDeath (Post 945822)
I'm 26 right now and it kills me to think I'll be even closer to 30 in June on my birthday. Aging sucks. End of.

For whatever reason, I'm actually looking forward to turning 30 next year. Perhaps because my 20s have been so tumultuous. All of my friends are in their late 30s (several turn 40 this year), and they all swear being in your 30s is the best.

KarmaContestant 02-26-2011 01:21 AM

30 wasn't so bad, although I thought it would be before I got there. :laugh: I'm 37 now, and my 30's (while not as exciting and filled with carelessness as my 20's) have been great!

HejiraNYC 02-26-2011 01:32 AM

40 was totally uneventful. But sometimes I think oh, I wish I would have done ____ when I was younger or oh, it's probably too late for me to start ______. It's very subtle. I think the fire fades a little in your forties because you kind of begin to accept your lot in life, whatever it is. And it's kind of freeing in a way.

CreepingDeath 02-26-2011 01:37 AM

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Originally Posted by louielouie2000 (Post 945823)
For whatever reason, I'm actually looking forward to turning 30 next year. Perhaps because my 20s have been so tumultuous. All of my friends are in their late 30s (several turn 40 this year), and they all swear being in your 30s is the best.

I haven't really thought about it like that. God knows my 20's have been a complete hell. Maybe 30 will be better.....

LukeA 02-26-2011 01:46 AM

30 is next year, and its going to freak me out. I'm fine with admitting that.

fringed n fab 02-26-2011 01:55 AM

30 won't be so bad. I think as you age it's all just numbers really. Be happy whatever age you are. There's always someone a lot older.

Meowi 02-26-2011 03:03 AM

I'll be 16 in April

*sigh*

All alone on the edge of seventeen.

LittleCharmer 02-26-2011 04:11 AM

I'm 20, 21 in October.. Yesterday someone was talking about being 19 and it suddenly hit me that I am no longer a teenager, and 20 is zooming past me.. It freaked me out somewhat..

GypsySorcerer 02-26-2011 08:26 AM

I turned 30 last year, and I was absolutely freaked out about it. In fact, I didn't enjoy my last year of being in my 20s because I was so paranoid about turning 30. In the end, you wake up feeling the same on your 30th birthday as you did the day before. :shrug: I'm finding the 30s are bringing more stability to my life, especially financially. So really, it's not that bad. :)

estranged4life 02-26-2011 08:34 AM

I'll be...
 
41 in May, turning 40 was no different to me than when I turned 30 or even 20 for that matter. I'm in the minority but I don't put a value on age - I feel young at heart & mind.

MissLadyLoki 02-26-2011 09:39 AM

This August I'll be turning 21, so I'll finally be legal! :D (even though I don't like drinking cause I hate the taste :distress:)

KarmaContestant 02-26-2011 12:52 PM

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Originally Posted by HejiraNYC (Post 945827)
40 was totally uneventful. But sometimes I think oh, I wish I would have done ____ when I was younger or oh, it's probably too late for me to start ______. It's very subtle. I think the fire fades a little in your forties because you kind of begin to accept your lot in life, whatever it is. And it's kind of freeing in a way.

I can relate to that.

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Originally Posted by estranged4life (Post 945859)
41 in May, turning 40 was no different to me than when I turned 30 or even 20 for that matter. I'm in the minority but I don't put a value on age - I feel young at heart & mind.

Yes, me too. Though, sometimes I have moments where it hits me how old I am, and I have a little 'Landslide' playback in my head.

When I was 18 I moved to Denver, on my own. I knew one person here, who I no longer see or speak to. I essentially walked away from my life and family and built a life separate from them.

That was 19 years ago. I talk to my family a lot more now, so it's really shocking and somewhat of a reality check when I realize that cousins of mine who were todlers are getting married, having children or joining the Air Force. It really drives home how much time has passed.

I've been in this city for more years than I was been alive when I moved here. Yikes!

McTrouble 02-26-2011 01:18 PM

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Originally Posted by KarmaContestant (Post 945889)
I can relate to that.



Yes, me too. Though, sometimes I have moments where it hits me how old I am, and I have a little 'Landslide' playback in my head.

When I was 18 I moved to Denver, on my own. I knew one person here, who I no longer see or speak to. I essentially walked away from my life and family and built a life separate from them.

That was 19 years ago. I talk to my family a lot more now, so it's really shocking and somewhat of a reality check when I realize that cousins of mine who were todlers are getting married, having children or joining the Air Force. It really drives home how much time has passed.

I've been in this city for more years than I was been alive when I moved here. Yikes!



What a city to move to - I've been to Denver a couple of times, and driven over/thru The Rockies, stayed in Vail, visited Colorado Springs, and I know it's different when you're only visiting a place but I loved it - so fresh, such clean air to breathe up there, I loved it!

Talking of age milestones, my next milestone will be 50 and I couldn't be happier about it - 20's were OK, 30's were pretty great, 40's have been brilliant, so I'm looking forward to doing even more exciting things thru the 50's! :blob1:

ButterCookie 02-26-2011 01:55 PM

I turn 18 in August and I can't frikken wait :blob1: Not sure why because if I want I can get alcohol now and I'm legally old enough to have sex already but it's an exciting prospect.

vivfox 02-26-2011 02:37 PM

I was terrified of turning 30. I was mortified of turning 40. I am now 49 and can't wait to turn 50. I can't wait to tell people I am 50 because I look so much younger. I am on a weight loss schedule that I've been doing since July 4th of last year and by the time I actually am 50, I expect to look a whole lot better than I do right now.

SuperFleetwood 02-26-2011 11:11 PM

just to clarify, im 17, i just turned it in january! so im on the edge of 17!

LukeA 02-26-2011 11:20 PM

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Originally Posted by MissLadyLoki (Post 945866)
This August I'll be turning 21, so I'll finally be legal! :D (even though I don't like drinking cause I hate the taste :distress:)

The taste of what? There are so many different alcoholic beverages.

bluefox4000 02-27-2011 12:36 AM

Age is but a number dears. Ever since getting over my depression I look forward to every year, everyday, every second.

Mick

vivfox 02-27-2011 09:19 AM

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Originally Posted by SuperFleetwood (Post 946099)
just to clarify, im 17, i just turned it in january! so im on the edge of 17!

Bobby, the edge of 17 is actually 16 or 16 and a half.

MissLadyLoki 02-27-2011 10:35 AM

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Originally Posted by LukeA (Post 946100)
The taste of what? There are so many different alcoholic beverages.

I dunno just in general, but then again, I've only tasted nasty stuff, like beer and *shudders* Passover wine. All I know is that on my bday, I plan on getting drunk off a girly drink

ButterCookie 02-27-2011 10:40 AM

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Originally Posted by MissLadyLoki (Post 946185)
I dunno just in general, but then again, I've only tasted nasty stuff, like beer and *shudders* Passover wine. All I know is that on my bday, I plan on getting drunk off a girly drink

You should try a triple rum and coke. Then you'll know what nasty really means ;)

MissLadyLoki 02-27-2011 10:52 AM

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Originally Posted by ButterCookie (Post 946187)
You should try a triple rum and coke. Then you'll know what nasty really means ;)

I made rum and Vanilla Pepsi once and that was awful :eek:

However, nasty is a sip of Manchewitz wine (the kind you drink for a Passover sedar). I think it's fortified with extra stuff or something and it's like drinking syrup

Edgeof27 02-27-2011 11:59 AM

Age, aint nothin but a number, (unless its a Roman Numeral, XL),
 
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Originally Posted by DavidMn (Post 945817)
So I'll be 40 on March 22, less than month away. Yet I dont feel any anxeity over this "massive" event. :laugh: What's wrong with me? Don't I get it?:laugh: ANyone else have issues with turning a certain age?

Dave,

no need to feel any anxiety,

the trick is to get there in one piece, &, keep going, (don't look back),

a couple of years ago, (2009), back in the UK, I spoke with some older relative, (all in in their 70"s, &, 80's),

they all stated the same thing, that despite the physical aging process, (the usual aches, &, pains), they all still felt relativly young, ie, their brains were still young,

btw, this guy is LVI, but feels more like XVI, (wierd eh),

Happy Birthday when it comes, enjoy,

G.

paleshadow 02-27-2011 03:45 PM

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Originally Posted by DavidMn (Post 945817)
So I'll be 40 on March 22, less than month away. Yet I dont feel any anxeity over this "massive" event. :laugh: What's wrong with me? Don't I get it?:laugh: ANyone else have issues with turning a certain age?


I've got you by 12 days! I don't think I feel anxiety about turning 40, but what does freak me out is how fast time has gone. Also the fact that even though I feel like I'm the same person I was when I was younger, my body is starting to remind me I'm not. Things hurt that never used to!

Silver Springs 02-27-2011 03:49 PM

I still don't feel 21, and I turn 23 this year. Oh well. Maybe in a few years it may catch up to me. But I hope it doesn't, because I enjoy my childlike and silly mannerisms. Why would I want stop hopping around the studio in handmade bunny ears or finding new hiding places around Uni? I love my adventurous streak. Last week I fell asleep in one of the classroom drawers. How many 22 year olds can say that?

paleshadow 02-27-2011 03:54 PM

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Originally Posted by vivfox (Post 946174)
Bobby, the edge of 17 is actually 16 or 16 and a half.

I've always believed "on the Edge of Seventeen" was actually 17 going on 18. If it was 16 going on 17 I think it would be "At the Edge of Seventeen" not "on" it. Just like if you are on the edge of a cliff about to fall off. I suppose anything with a beginning and end, like an age, could have two edges though, so someone who is turning 17, and someone turning 18 could both say they are "on the edge of 17".

kak125 02-27-2011 06:21 PM

i will be 34 in june and suprisingly my 30's have been pretty good so far. i thought i would have freaked out when i turned 30 but it wasnt a big deal at all. i think its because i havent really started to age yet so i am ok with it now. i am sure in 20 years i will be singing a different tune though, ha!!
the only time i feel older is when people ask me how long i have been married and i tell them a little over 10 years, ha ha!! its funny i feel younger now than when i was 23.

RickRobert 02-27-2011 07:17 PM

18 in October :shocked: Around that time should be exciting for a few reasons, though I have exams and stuff between now and then so I'm not counting down the days. I can do most stuff legally already though, except drinking I guess.

markolas 02-27-2011 07:20 PM

I'll be 32 in July, and it honestly doesn't register with me. A few months ago, I found this article about Mark-Paul Gosselaar (or however you spell it; I don't feel like Googling it) getting divorced. The article said he was 36, and I thought "Damn, is he that old?" It took me a minute to realize that he's only 5 years older than I am...suddenly he didn't seem so old anymore. :lol:


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