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strandinthewind 11-20-2008 01:46 PM

Prop 8 and the Sundane Film Fest.
 
I tend to agree with this - the Mormons called the tune (which I readily agree it was their right to do) - but, it's time to pay the fiddler. Let's see if they stand by their actions now. Something tells me, we will see some begging from their camp.
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“Proposition 8 eliminates the right of African-American couples to marry."

"Only marriage between non-Jews is valid or recognized in California."

Would THOSE statements have ever made it to the ballot?

In our most recent election, millions of voters elected an African-American President, once again affirming that prejudice, bigotry and discrimination truly have no place in an enlightened and evolved society…..yet gays and lesbians continue to be victimized and stigmatized.

Continuing to predictably prove that hypocrisy and hate go hand in hand, while the borders of religious bigotry burst at the seams; “Yes on 8”s virulently homophobic campaign director announced that he had a lesbian sister….all the while leading a group that talked non-stop about the importance of “protecting the family.”

Do you have gay or lesbian friends, family members, co-workers or neighbors? Do you support gays and lesbians in their battle of full equality and civil right?

In a sick and twisted irony, the Mormon Church, an organization that faced horrible persecution for generations, caught a bad case of amnesia and now promotes and encourages the exact same campaign of hate and intolerance that their ancestors suffered through. (More revolting irony - one of the main reasons Mormons were persecuted so intensely was because of their beliefs about marriage). The Utah-based Mormon Church was the single largest economic engine behind the passage of California’s Proposition 8 – the ballot measure to ban same-sex marriage. At the urging of octogenarian church President Thomas Monson, Mormons contributed millions and million of dollars to fund the deceitful and disgusting advertising campaign that resulted in a small majority of Californians supporting Proposition 8. The New York Times estimated church members’ contributions to “Yes on 8” at $20 million. The rabidly homophobic Tony Perkins of the Family Research Council proudly claimed on his website that Mormon Church members eventually gave $22 million in support of Proposition 8. There are many, many reasons why it is unconscionable that the Utah-based Mormon church, (which enjoys a tax-exempt status as a religious organization), so intensely lobbied their followers to contribute money in support of Proposition 8, including the fact that it had ABSOLUTELY NOTHING TO DO WITH THE STATE OF UTAH, and MORMONS MAKE UP LESS THAN 2% OF CALIFORNIA’S POPULATION OF 38 MILLION.

A cruel dichotomy is that the film industry, a business with countless hardworking gays and lesbians since its inception, and a huge supporter of gay rights, holds one of it’s biggest annual events, The Sundance Film Festival, every January in Utah - the “ground zero” of hate and homophobia in our society, and the home of a church that continues to debase the lives of gays and lesbians. Utah is the most religiously homogeneous state in the country, with approximately 58 - 62 percent of its inhabitants claiming membership in the Mormon Church and filling its coffers. The church wields enormous influence over its followers. While not everyone in Utah is Mormon, and there are countless fair-minded Mormons who disagree with the hateful and homophobic philosophy and policies of the LDS Church, the UNDENIABLE fact is that…MONEY SPENT IN UTAH IS INEVITABLY FUNNELED INTO COLLECTION PLATES OF THE MORMON CHURCH; WHICH IN TURN SPONSORS ACTIVITIES THAT ATTEMPT TO DENIGRATE THE LIVES OF GAYS AND LESBIANS, AND DENY THEM BASIC HUMAN RIGHTS.

Would the Mormon Church bring thousands of their followers to a convention in San Francisco?

IT IS NOW TIME FOR THE FILM COMMUNITY TO STOP FUNDING HATE AND BIGOTRY, AND MOVE THE SUNDANCE FILM FESTIVAL TO A STATE OTHER THAN UTAH!

http://www.movesundance.com/

ajmccarrell 11-20-2008 02:20 PM

You see, prop 8 is democracy. Obviously the people of CA wanted to end gay marriage. What you are proposing is a dictatorship by three people in black robes. This is the way it is supposed to work, whether you agree with the outcome or not. Dictatorship is when someone in authority shoves something down the throats of the people against their will. Obviously, prop 8 was the will of the people. It was democratically passed. If the people passed a law saying only black marriages are recognized, so be it. You and I have always agreed that government should have no place in marriage. This time the people, not the government spoke, whether either one of us likes it or not. Disagreeing with gay marriage is not hate or prejudice. It is a difference of opinion. There is a difference between the two. Not everyone who disagrees with your version of morality is full of hate or ignorance. Try listening to someone instead of what I usually see you do, which is decide based on some cartoon version of what the other side thinks. Knowledge is freeing, willful ignorance is annoying. Practice tolerance, I tolerare liberals, you can tolerate conservatives. Oh yeah, I forgot, conservatives are not people, so we don't deserve tolerance and liberals are superior. What am I thinking?! :shrug:

strandinthewind 11-20-2008 02:47 PM

The hedging begins:

Following last week's inane passage of California's Proposition 8, which amends the state constitution to ban gay weddings (including George Takei's!), opponents are calling for a boycott of Utah tourism to punish the Mormon Church for its support of the initiative. Obviously we understand why they're upset, because we are too. But now, caught in the crossfire, for some crazy reason, is the upcoming Sundance Film Festival: "It's high time Sundance found a better state to party in than the seat of the Mormon Church," writes America Blog's John Aravosis. "Sundance is THE gathering of liberal Hollywood. The last place it should be is in Utah. Robert Redford, are you out there?"

Problem is, since next year's fest opens on January 15, it's way too late for a change of venue. And, as Dave Poland points out, it's not totally clear that any of Sundance's participating hotels or businesses actually donated to the Prop 8 campaign. Plus, it's not like Park City (where Sundance is based) is as conservative as its surrounding areas, and we can't really see much point in punishing the city just because it happens to be located in Utah. Poland urges Aravosis to draft a list of boycottable Park City business that did give money to Prop 8, and that seems like a reasonable solution here, since any protest that threatens the actual film festival would be sort of idiotic. Like a spokesman for the fest said yesterday, "Sundance Institute was founded on the idea of championing diversity and freedom of expression. It would be a grave disappointment to us if our Festival were to be singled out for a boycott, especially as we celebrate 25 years of showcasing independent voices."

http://www.nymag.com/daily/entertain...ers_targe.html

Here's a link to the Utah based supporters

http://www.americablog.com/2008/11/w...al-taking.html

Here's a link to the acts of the Mormon Church:

http://www.mormonsstoleourrights.com/

In the end, anyone that supports a mob rules mentality is an idiot because that mob could turn on them in a heartbeat.

strandinthewind 11-20-2008 02:52 PM

Also, it will be interesting to hear the conservative's view on this call to boycott. Remember, they are the ones who screamed to boycott the Dixie Chicks (most notably) and others who voiced oppostion to the Iraq War (actually, all the DC did was say they were embarrased the Pres. of the US was from Texas, which has nothing to do with the war) -- and the conservatives said it was their right to boycott, etc. Let's see how they like it now that the tables are turned.

What was that again about the mob turning :cool:

ajmccarrell 11-20-2008 03:28 PM

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Originally Posted by strandinthewind (Post 785047)
Also, it will be interesting to hear the conservative's view on this call to boycott. Remember, they are the ones who screamed to boycott the Dixie Chicks (most notably) and others who voiced oppostion to the Iraq War (actually, all the DC did was say they were embarrased the Pres. of the US was from Texas, which has nothing to do with the war) -- and the conservatives said it was their right to boycott, etc. Let's see how they like it now that the tables are turned.

What was that again about the mob turning :cool:


I think most thinking people avoid boycotts and mass demonstrations. I dislike mob protests, although you'd have to admit, liberals kinda hold the corner on that one. The difference between the conservative Dixie Chicks protests is that no one was hurt. Look at the protests outside the convention where bleach was thrown on an old man and displays were set on fire. LOL!

Then again, I think sports fans have both political parties beat on mobs and riots. Sheesh! :thumbsup:

ajmccarrell 11-20-2008 03:31 PM

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Originally Posted by strandinthewind (Post 785044)
The hedging begins:

Following last week's inane passage of California's Proposition 8, which amends the state constitution to ban gay weddings (including George Takei's!), opponents are calling for a boycott of Utah tourism to punish the Mormon Church for its support of the initiative. Obviously we understand why they're upset, because we are too. But now, caught in the crossfire, for some crazy reason, is the upcoming Sundance Film Festival: "It's high time Sundance found a better state to party in than the seat of the Mormon Church," writes America Blog's John Aravosis. "Sundance is THE gathering of liberal Hollywood. The last place it should be is in Utah. Robert Redford, are you out there?"

Problem is, since next year's fest opens on January 15, it's way too late for a change of venue. And, as Dave Poland points out, it's not totally clear that any of Sundance's participating hotels or businesses actually donated to the Prop 8 campaign. Plus, it's not like Park City (where Sundance is based) is as conservative as its surrounding areas, and we can't really see much point in punishing the city just because it happens to be located in Utah. Poland urges Aravosis to draft a list of boycottable Park City business that did give money to Prop 8, and that seems like a reasonable solution here, since any protest that threatens the actual film festival would be sort of idiotic. Like a spokesman for the fest said yesterday, "Sundance Institute was founded on the idea of championing diversity and freedom of expression. It would be a grave disappointment to us if our Festival were to be singled out for a boycott, especially as we celebrate 25 years of showcasing independent voices."

http://www.nymag.com/daily/entertain...ers_targe.html

Here's a link to the Utah based supporters

http://www.americablog.com/2008/11/w...al-taking.html

Here's a link to the acts of the Mormon Church:

http://www.mormonsstoleourrights.com/

In the end, anyone that supports a mob rules mentality is an idiot because that mob could turn on them in a heartbeat.

People are free to protest! As stupid as I think protests are, people are free to do it. I protested John Kerry once, only because his entourage stole my parking spot during a rally. I had to park about a mile away and take a bus to work, so that pissed me off. :) I think protesting only makes the side doing it look bad. I mean, here near Fort Lewis, we had democratic protesters laying down in front of train tracks of trains delivering food and supplies to troops overseas. They were holding signs saying that they support the troops, ironically. Basically, everyone wants a better America. It's the people's right to look like idiots if they choose to.

GoS 11-20-2008 03:33 PM

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Originally Posted by ajmccarrell (Post 785050)
People are free to protest!.

As long as what they say is right.

Johnny Stew 11-20-2008 03:33 PM

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Originally Posted by ajmccarrell (Post 785034)
You see, prop 8 is democracy. Obviously the people of CA wanted to end gay marriage. What you are proposing is a dictatorship by three people in black robes. This is the way it is supposed to work, whether you agree with the outcome or not. Dictatorship is when someone in authority shoves something down the throats of the people against their will. Obviously, prop 8 was the will of the people. It was democratically passed. If the people passed a law saying only black marriages are recognized, so be it.

I'd like to quote Thomas Jefferson, if I may....

"All, too, will bear in mind this sacred principle, that, though the will of the majority is in all cases to prevail, that will, to be rightful, must be reasonable; that the minority possess their equal rights, which equal laws must protect, and to violate which would be oppression."

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Originally Posted by ajmccarrell (Post 785034)
Disagreeing with gay marriage is not hate or prejudice. It is a difference of opinion. There is a difference between the two. Not everyone who disagrees with your version of morality is full of hate or ignorance.

If one is not prejudiced against someone, why would they ever be against that person having equal rights and equal protection under the law?

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Originally Posted by ajmccarrell (Post 785034)
Practice tolerance, I tolerare liberals, you can tolerate conservatives. Oh yeah, I forgot, conservatives are not people, so we don't deserve tolerance and liberals are superior. What am I thinking?! :shrug:

I tolerate a lot of things, but I won't tolerate anyone who considers me to be a second-class citizen or worse.

ajmccarrell 11-20-2008 03:40 PM

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Originally Posted by Johnny Stew (Post 785052)
I'd like to quote Thomas Jefferson, if I may....

"All, too, will bear in mind this sacred principle, that, though the will of the majority is in all cases to prevail, that will, to be rightful, must be reasonable; that the minority possess their equal rights, which equal laws must protect, and to violate which would be oppression."


If one is not prejudiced against someone, why would they ever be against that person having equal rights and equal protection under the law?


I tolerate a lot of things, but I won't tolerate anyone who considers me to be a second-class citizen or worse.

Well, sounds like if you live in CA, you should move. I, personally, don't care if you want to marry three pygmies, a donkey and a porkchop, it's none of the state's business as far as I'm concerned. But, the people spoke. I don't want to live under Obama either, but I have to respect the will of the people. Seems the conservatives are showing a little more dignity here.

Also, you do have the same protections as me. I can't marry a guy either. :laugh:

I also think you yourself are making a bunch of bigoted statements. Just because people don't consider two guys or two women a legitimate marriage doesn't mean they think of you as second class. Marriage was always a religious institution until about 150 years ago. It seems to me to be more about forcing acceptance than about rights, otherwise civil unions are okay. Forcing acceptance is just as bigoted as the non-acceptance. People can have opinions and make them law. I don't agree with ANY of the initiatives that passed in Washington, but there they are.

JohnL 11-20-2008 03:49 PM

Please...
 
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Originally Posted by ajmccarrell (Post 785053)
Well, sounds like if you live in CA, you should move. I, personally, don't care if you want to marry three pygmies, a donkey and a porkchop, it's none of the state's business as far as I'm concerned. But, the people spoke. I don't want to live under Obama either, but I have to respect the will of the people. Seems the conservatives are showing a little more dignity here.

Also, you do have the same protections as me. I can't marry a guy either. :laugh:

I also think you yourself are making a bunch of bigoted statements. Just because people don't consider two guys or two women a legitimate marriage doesn't mean they think of you as second class. Marriage was always a religious institution until about 150 years ago. It seems to me to be more about forcing acceptance than about rights, otherwise civil unions are okay. Forcing acceptance is just as bigoted as the non-acceptance. People can have opinions and make them law. I don't agree with ANY of the initiatives that passed in Washington, but there they are.

I usually try to stay out of these type of posts but I cant on this one. I am so sick and tired of this idiotic argument that homophobes put up all the time. You cant marry a guy either...well, good for you. However, you can marry the person that you love. It is in that simple statement that the bigotry and inequality step right up front. Who are any of us to say who we can marry and who we cant. I truly believe that, in the end, God will ensure that those who continue to persecute others are shown their "just reward".

Johnny Stew 11-20-2008 03:50 PM

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Originally Posted by ajmccarrell (Post 785053)
But, the people spoke.

The "people" were also against the abolishment of slavery, ending segregation, and allowing black people to vote -- that doesn't make any of those things right or acceptable.

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Originally Posted by ajmccarrell (Post 785053)
Seems the conservatives are showing a little more dignity here.

Thanks for my first laugh of the day!

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Originally Posted by ajmccarrell (Post 785053)
Also, you do have the same protections as me. I can't marry a guy either. :laugh:

Well, there you go, AJ -- once gay marriage is allowed, we'll fix you up with a nice Log Cabin Republican named Brice.

ajmccarrell 11-20-2008 03:52 PM

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Originally Posted by JohnL (Post 785054)
I usually try to stay out of these type of posts but I cant on this one. I am so sick and tired of this idiotic argument that homophobes put up all the time. You cant marry a guy either...well, good for you. However, you can marry the person that you love. It is in that simple statement that the bigotry and inequality step right up front. Who are any of us to say who we can marry and who we cant. I truly believe that, in the end, God will ensure that those who continue to persecute others are shown their "just reward".


I'm sick and tired of the idiotic namecalling of anyone who isn't passionately for gay marriage a homophone. As I said, I'm fairly neutral on the subject, but I'm pro-democracy and I support the will of the people and think it trumps the will of judges. I could say, "You're a convervaphobe. You hate conservatives." but that's just as dumb as the accusations and namecalling you resorted to. You can't win something in the legislature, so you resort to namecalling. Cute.

ajmccarrell 11-20-2008 03:56 PM

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Originally Posted by Johnny Stew (Post 785055)
The "people" were also against the abolishment of slavery, ending segregation, and allowing black people to vote -- that doesn't make any of those things right or acceptable.


Thanks for my first laugh of the day!


Well, there you go, AJ -- once gay marriage is allowed, we'll fix you up with a nice Log Cabin Republican named Brice.

Cool. What's his number? :)

None of what you said above was true. We did abolish slavery and were the second nation to do so, we were one of the first to allow women voting and we just elected a black president. You just insulted the country by calling it bigoted. Why not be for civil unions? It seems you just want to force acceptance through dictatorship. After 8 years of having my party called fascists, it's hysterical to watch your side go down in flames with a vote of the people and have all of you cry out to the courts to force laws on the people. That IS fascism. LOL! Like I said, I'm neither for or against gay marriage. I don't see why ANY relationship needs government sanction. But then again, it doesn't matter what my opinion is, because I'm a registered republican, that allows you to be bigoted and project all sorts of opinions and hatred on me. You are just being intolerant because you cannot tolerate anyone having a different opinion. I don't want to courts sanctioning any relationship.

GoS 11-20-2008 04:01 PM

I think that this is a stupid argument. I think that this is one of those things that, like abortion, isn't the governments business. The people can choose what they want, what they think is right and live their lives accordingly. The state is not saying that as of now you have to become gay, or even accept them, but that they can get married. Because otherwise, no matter how you defend it, rights are denied, and thus discrimination has occurred. It is if you do not approve of gays being able to marry, than you don't have to endorse it.

GoS 11-20-2008 04:07 PM

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Originally Posted by ajmccarrell (Post 785057)
Cool. What's his number? :)

None of what you said above was true. We did abolish slavery and were the second nation to do so, we were one of the first to allow women voting and we just elected a black president. You just insulted the country by calling it bigoted. Why not be for civil unions? It seems you just want to force acceptance through dictatorship. After 8 years of having my party called fascists, it's hysterical to watch your side go down in flames with a vote of the people and have all of you cry out to the courts to force laws on the people. That IS fascism. LOL! Like I said, I'm neither for or against gay marriage. I don't see why ANY relationship needs government sanction. But then again, it doesn't matter what my opinion is, because I'm a registered republican, that allows you to be bigoted and project all sorts of opinions and hatred on me. You are just being intolerant because you cannot tolerate anyone having a different opinion. I don't want to courts sanctioning any relationship.

How long did it take? How many other countries have had homogeneous presidents for this long? And if you haven't noticed, it kinda is. Race is an issue for many people.

Wake up and smell the ashes, AJ, we are hardy the ones burning! The majority of seats this year that were up for re-election were red, and yet the D's increased their majority handily. Yours is the party with no head, unifying figure and unpopular positions (and many of the wrong answers) that got it's butt whipped in 3 out of 3 categories. This is hysterical to hear you say that we are the ones burning. Just remember, admission is the first step to recovery.

ajmccarrell 11-20-2008 04:10 PM

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Originally Posted by GoS (Post 785058)
I think that this is a stupid argument. I think that this is one of those things that, like abortion, isn't the governments business. The people can choose what they want, what they think is right and live their lives accordingly. The state is not saying that as of now you have to become gay, or even accept them, but that they can get married. Because otherwise, no matter how you defend it, rights are denied, and thus discrimination has occurred. It is if you do not approve of gays being able to marry, than you don't have to endorse it.


This is why I identify as a Federalist. I think abortion and gay marriage are state issues, not federal issues. I think CA did it right; they weighed the issue and decided for themselves what they wanted without government doing it for them. If NV does the same thing and passes gay marriage, they also did the right thing. It's democracy in action! :)

ajmccarrell 11-20-2008 04:12 PM

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Originally Posted by GoS (Post 785060)
How long did it take? How many other countries have had homogeneous presidents for this long? And if you haven't noticed, it kinda is. Race is an issue for many people.

Wake up and smell the ashes, AJ, we are hardy the ones burning! The majority of seats this year that were up for re-election were red, and yet the D's increased their majority handily. Yours is the party with no head, unifying figure and unpopular positions (and many of the wrong answers) that got it's butt whipped in 3 out of 3 categories. This is hysterical to hear you say that we are the ones burning. Just remember, admission is the first step to recovery.

Whereever conservatism was on the ballot, it did not lose. The fact of the matter is that I am not running and crying to the courts because my side lost and am asking for judges to fix it for me. The people spoke and I respect it. Apparently, your side doesn't respect democratic voting. That's my point. I'm not whining about the results. You're right, the Republican party had no head this election and Obama was effective. However, I'm not asking the state supreme courts to undo the results and force it's will on the people. I respect democracy, I can't say the same for those who opposed prop 8.

strandinthewind 11-20-2008 04:19 PM

What the lying conservatives out there do not say is that with marriage comes rights that people cannot obtain without marriage. The govt. is giving rights to people based on a religious idea, which is against the US Const. and the states' constitutions. Thus, until you take marriage out of the law, which will never happen, then you must extend the same chance for the same rights to everyone.

Moreover, the lying conservatives play a shell game with statements like "civil unions" are the better way to go. In reality, every state const. amendment I can think of on this issue prohibited not only gay "marriage" but also gay civil unions. So, they are for prohibiting civil unions as well.

For example, the recently passed Fla. Amendment states:

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Inasmuch as marriage is the legal union of only one man and one woman, no other legal union that is treated as marriage or the substantial equivalent thereof shall be valid or recognized.
Finally, the haters just can't stand not having the governments fully support their, and only their, religion. Pathetic if you ask me.

Interestingly, if they would just change the word marriage in all the laws to civil unions, would this shut up the lying conservatives. I suggest it would not.

Johnny Stew 11-20-2008 04:28 PM

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Originally Posted by ajmccarrell (Post 785057)
None of what you said above was true. We did abolish slavery and were the second nation to do so, we were one of the first to allow women voting and we just elected a black president. You just insulted the country by calling it bigoted.

Are you serious with this?

To the best of your knowledge, slavery was abolished, blacks were allowed to vote, and schools were de-segregated without protestation from people in this country? Everything went smoothly with that and the government didn't have to step in at all?


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Originally Posted by ajmccarrell (Post 785057)
Why not be for civil unions?

Unlike marriage, civil unions are not recognized equally in every state. A civil union in one state can be completely void in another.

Additionally, there is a total of approximately 1,400 state & federal benefits for married couples as opposed to "unionized" couples.

Simply put, civil unions are not equal to marriage.


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Originally Posted by ajmccarrell (Post 785057)
But then again, it doesn't matter what my opinion is, because I'm a registered republican, that allows you to be bigoted and project all sorts of opinions and hatred on me. You are just being intolerant because you cannot tolerate anyone having a different opinion. I don't want to courts sanctioning any relationship.

You're making some huge assumptions about me. I have friends and family members who are Republican and I'm very open to hearing opinions that differ from my own. However, bigotry is inexcusable in my eyes. And I have not yet heard one single valid reason to oppose gay marriage, that wasn't rooted in bigotry.

GoS 11-20-2008 04:40 PM

Hey AJ, can I give you a piece of advice? Don't argue with a moderator. :laugh:

strandinthewind 11-20-2008 04:42 PM

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Originally Posted by Johnny Stew (Post 785065)
To the best of your knowledge, slavery was abolished, blacks were allowed to vote, and schools were de-segregated without protestation? Everything went smoothly with that and the government didn't have to step in at all?

Not to mention that without the influence of the Supreme Court, which held the laws UnConstitutional in the first place, the 1964 Civil Rights Acts likely would not have happened.

Moreover, Loving v. Virginia was the Supreme Court, not the legislature or Congress, declaring, over vociferous religious objection and the vast majority of the popular opinoon, that it was okay for blacks and whites to marry. Alabama got around to taking that void law off of its books in like 2000, just in case the Court changed its mind.

This is why I think black people who voted against Prop. 8 should be teleported to prior to 1964 so they can see what it is like to sit in the back of the bus, drink from a sep. water fountain, go to a "sep. but equal" schools, etc. -- all based on the very religion they used to justify now voting for Prop. 8 :mad:

Again, the lang. in Loving:

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On January 6, 1959, the Lovings pleaded guilty to the charge and were sentenced to one year in jail; however, the trial judge suspended the sentence for a period of 25 years on the condition that the Lovings leave the State and not return to Virginia together for 25 years. He stated in an opinion that:

"Almighty God created the races white, black, yellow, malay and red, and he placed them on separate continents. And but for the interference with his arrangement there would be no cause for such marriages. The fact that he separated the races shows that he did not intend for the races to mix."
Sounds familiar doesn't it.



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Originally Posted by Johnny Stew (Post 785065)
Unlike marriage, civil unions are not recognized equally in every state. A civil union in one state can be completely void in another.

Additionally, there is a total of approximately 1,400 state & federal benefits for married couples as opposed to "unionized" couples.

Simply put, civil unions are not equal to marriage.

And, of the Federal government would pass a law that said that civil unions have all the rights and benefits as traditional marriage, I'd be as happy as a pig in shiitte because that way the haters get to keep their precious marriage that the vast majority of them laugh in the face of the religious aspect of everyday :shrug:

. . . that wasn't rooted in bigotry. [/QUOTE]

Which equals organized religion in this, and, frankly, most areas where rights are concerned. Sad, very true.

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Back to the topic at hand -- I am all for in this instance refusing to shop or do business with a Morman establishment that supported the hate. I mean that "church" used so many lies to scare people into voting for Prop. 8 that I think they could be sued.

ajmccarrell 11-20-2008 05:37 PM

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Originally Posted by strandinthewind (Post 785070)
Not to mention that without the influence of the Supreme Court, which held the laws UnConstitutional in the first place, the 1964 Civil Rights Acts likely would not have happened.

Moreover, Loving v. Virginia was the Supreme Court, not the legislature or Congress, declaring, over vociferous religious objection and the vast majority of the popular opinoon, that it was okay for blacks and whites to marry. Alabama got around to taking that void law off of its books in like 2000, just in case the Court changed its mind.

This is why I think black people who voted against Prop. 8 should be teleported to prior to 1964 so they can see what it is like to sit in the back of the bus, drink from a sep. water fountain, go to a "sep. but equal" schools, etc. -- all based on the very religion they used to justify now voting for Prop. 8 :mad:

Again, the lang. in Loving:



Sounds familiar doesn't it.





And, of the Federal government would pass a law that said that civil unions have all the rights and benefits as traditional marriage, I'd be as happy as a pig in shiitte because that way the haters get to keep their precious marriage that the vast majority of them laugh in the face of the religious aspect of everyday :shrug:

. . . that wasn't rooted in bigotry.

Which equals organized religion in this, and, frankly, most areas where rights are concerned. Sad, very true.

_________________________________

Back to the topic at hand -- I am all for in this instance refusing to shop or do business with a Morman establishment that supported the hate. I mean that "church" used so many lies to scare people into voting for Prop. 8 that I think they could be sued.[/QUOTE]

Again, you lost in a fair and democratic election and your answer is to say it wasn't fair and run to the courts. This is getting funnier by the minute. Citing a bunch of history from five decades ago doesn't change it. Go file the lawsuit yourself and claim unfairness. :)

Johnny Stew 11-20-2008 06:22 PM

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Originally Posted by GoS (Post 785069)
Hey AJ, can I give you a piece of advice? Don't argue with a moderator. :laugh:

I know you were teasing, but I'd like to take this opportunity to say something in the hopes of avoiding the misunderstandings and mistaken assumptions of the past from happening again....

I promise AJ, and everyone else, that any debate that I actively take part in as a fellow Ledgie, and any difference of opinions that may arise from those discussions, has no bearing on what I do as a moderator.

Now, with that self-indulgence out of the way, let's get back to our lighthearted discussion! :laugh:

strandinthewind 11-20-2008 07:20 PM

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Originally Posted by Johnny Stew (Post 785082)
. . . Now, with that self-indulgence out of the way, let's get back to our lighthearted discussion! :laugh:

I think you're a tw*t :angel::angel::angel:

Also, as you noted earlier, Thomas Jefferson stated:

"All, too, will bear in mind this sacred principle, that, though the will of the majority is in all cases to prevail, that will, to be rightful, must be reasonable; that the minority possess their equal rights, which equal laws must protect, and to violate which would be oppression."

Many other statements from the Founding Fathers support this notion and can be found in the Federalist Papers (http://www.foundingfathers.info/federalistpapers/) and related documents - all of which show that freedom from religious tyranny is why this country was founded. So, the argument that the democratic process can be used to give rights to some but not others based solely on a relligious ideal is a Federalist notion is assinine and completely unsupported by the intent of the Founding Fathers as expressed in their own words.

Moreover, the 14th Amendment's language that:

No state shall make or enforce any law which shall abridge the privileges or immunities of citizens of the United States; nor shall any state deprive any person of life, liberty, or property, without due process of law; nor deny to any person within its jurisdiction the equal protection of the laws.

solidifies this notion. Remember, the majority wanted slaves and espoused religious reasons for keeping them as not even whole people under the original Constitution.

Yet, people lie and ignore these ideals based, yet again, solely on religious ideas. Again, I have yet to hear ONE non religious reasons for excluding gay people from getting the benefits automatically given straight people in their marriages.

Johnny Stew 11-20-2008 07:58 PM

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Originally Posted by strandinthewind (Post 785084)
I think you're a tw*t :angel::angel::angel:

I think that's the one thing I haven't been called yet! :laugh:

ajmccarrell 11-20-2008 09:26 PM

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Originally Posted by Johnny Stew (Post 785065)
Are you serious with this?

To the best of your knowledge, slavery was abolished, blacks were allowed to vote, and schools were de-segregated without protestation from people in this country? Everything went smoothly with that and the government didn't have to step in at all?



Unlike marriage, civil unions are not recognized equally in every state. A civil union in one state can be completely void in another.

Additionally, there is a total of approximately 1,400 state & federal benefits for married couples as opposed to "unionized" couples.

Simply put, civil unions are not equal to marriage.



You're making some huge assumptions about me. I have friends and family members who are Republican and I'm very open to hearing opinions that differ from my own. However, bigotry is inexcusable in my eyes. And I have not yet heard one single valid reason to oppose gay marriage, that wasn't rooted in bigotry.

Of course there was resistance. You'd get resistance to the civil rights bill now. It speaks volumes that you have to reach back 50 years to come up with your argument.

Secondly, what you cited about 1400 benefits not being available to civil unionized couples is a flat out lie. I dare you to cite them all.

There are several arguments agains gay marriage that do not involve bigotry. There is the slippery slope argument of where does it stop: polygamy, sibling marriage, etc. Here's a second one, you can turn that argument on its head. Why shouldn't I be allowed to marry my brother or sister? If it is just about conferring rights, there would be no reason to object to it. Seriously, if you are for gay marriage, then why can't you marry your siblings, your roommate, anyone at all that you don't have a romantic link with? Most gay marriage proponents would deny rights to these people. How about Larry and Balki, why shouldn't they marry? They are not romantically involved with one another, but obviously they have a stake in one anothers lives?

Perhaps if you listened more, you might hear more valid arguments. Most of what I've seen here is that people who are for gay marriage create red herrings by presenting arguments about "who" the other side is and making cartoons out of them, more than analyzing or listening to the arguments. Hell, even Obama doesn't support gay marriage. He said so at Saddleback.

ajmccarrell 11-20-2008 09:28 PM

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Originally Posted by strandinthewind (Post 785084)
I think you're a tw*t :angel::angel::angel:

Also, as you noted earlier, Thomas Jefferson stated:

"All, too, will bear in mind this sacred principle, that, though the will of the majority is in all cases to prevail, that will, to be rightful, must be reasonable; that the minority possess their equal rights, which equal laws must protect, and to violate which would be oppression."

Many other statements from the Founding Fathers support this notion and can be found in the Federalist Papers (http://www.foundingfathers.info/federalistpapers/) and related documents - all of which show that freedom from religious tyranny is why this country was founded. So, the argument that the democratic process can be used to give rights to some but not others based solely on a relligious ideal is a Federalist notion is assinine and completely unsupported by the intent of the Founding Fathers as expressed in their own words.

Moreover, the 14th Amendment's language that:

No state shall make or enforce any law which shall abridge the privileges or immunities of citizens of the United States; nor shall any state deprive any person of life, liberty, or property, without due process of law; nor deny to any person within its jurisdiction the equal protection of the laws.

solidifies this notion. Remember, the majority wanted slaves and espoused religious reasons for keeping them as not even whole people under the original Constitution.

Yet, people lie and ignore these ideals based, yet again, solely on religious ideas. Again, I have yet to hear ONE non religious reasons for excluding gay people from getting the benefits automatically given straight people in their marriages.

I've posted them before. Here they are YET AGAIN. (sigh) Again, I don't care about the issue, but I don't like being called names because I affiliate with a certain party.

If you give marriage rights to gays, then there is no effective argument against marrying siblings, plural marriage, or anything else. What is the argument then against me marrying my brother? You see, you then become the bigot in that scenario, because you would resoundingly say I couldn't. Gay marriage is inherently bigoted because it excludes sibling marriage, incestuous marriage, sibling marriage, animal marriage, marrying the dead as they do in France, or anything else people want to do. People leave their pets their estates, so why can't they marry their pets? Why would you say that I can't marry my brother and give him the same rights as a spouse? You are being bigoted by excluding me from marriage. Why can't I marry two women, or two men, or a man and a woman? Can you present ANY argument, once gay marriage is in question, why any scenario for marriage shouldn't be allowed that is not a moral or religious one?
That is also the due process clause you cited. Marriage is not a right enumerated in the constitution, so the 14th amendment is irrelevant. Thomas Jefferson also argued against "spreading the wealth" and argued that we should periodically have armed revoltutions against the federal government, somehow you missed that one. "The tree of liberty must be, time to time, watered by the blood of patriots and tyrants." Maybe you should go to war against the people of California? LOL!

BombaySapphire3 11-20-2008 09:32 PM

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Originally Posted by ajmccarrell (Post 785053)
I don't want to live under Obama either

Hey ! The Canadian border is just a hop a skip and a jump from your digs!:blob2::blob2::wavey:

ajmccarrell 11-20-2008 09:35 PM

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Originally Posted by BombaySapphire3 (Post 785101)
Hey ! The Canadian border is just a hop a skip and a jump from your digs!:blob2::blob2::wavey:

The difference is that Canada is what the US will be under Obama. No thanks. Australia looks better. I do the Canadian accounting at work. Obama only WISHES he could raise taxes that high! LOL! Imagine living with San Diego prices on midwestern wages with free crappy health care. That's Canada.

Besides, I respect democracy and won't whine to the courts (like some people here) or threaten to run away ala alec Baldwin. Nope, I'm an American first and foremost and will ride out Obama's term.

BombaySapphire3 11-20-2008 09:44 PM

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Originally Posted by ajmccarrell (Post 785102)
The difference is that Canada is what the US will be under Obama. No thanks. Australia looks better. I do the Canadian accounting at work. Obama only WISHES he could raise taxes that high! LOL! Imagine living with San Diego prices on midwestern wages with free crappy health care. That's Canada.

Besides, I respect democracy and won't whine to the courts (like some people here) or threaten to run away ala alec Baldwin. Nope, I'm an American first and foremost and will ride out Obama's term.

I grew up in San Diego. It seems that the wages there were midwestern even with the high cost of living...not sure if it is still the same but I know the real estate bubble bursted very badly in that town.As high as the cost of living is up here at least the wages match it better than SD.As far as the gay marriage thing I 'm personally not for marriage period.:laugh:but I think sooner or later it will happen .It's just a matter of time.

strandinthewind 11-20-2008 09:52 PM

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Originally Posted by BombaySapphire3 (Post 785103)
. . . As far as the gay marriage thing I 'm personally not for marriage period.:laugh:but I think sooner or later it will happen .It's just a matter of time.

I know - I could care a less about marriage. It's the granting of one group rights solely on a religious ideal (there is no valid non religious reason when consenting adults are involved) to the exclusion of others that pisses me off as it clearly goes against the very being of the Constitution.

And, if course it will happen. New York is about to pass a law that grants marriage. California first voted it down by 61.4% to 38% - this time it was 52.47% in favor of Proposition 8 and 47.53% against, with a difference of about 504,000 votes. Moreover, the public was solidly against Prop 8 until the fukcing Mormons came in with their lies, scare tactics, and misleading ads that made people think they were actually voting for free speech :rolleyes:

Fukc them and all that supported these very Un Christian like lies and continue to do so. Jesus lead by example and certainly never lied to get to His goal, which was faith and salvation through love, not bigotry.

ajmccarrell 11-20-2008 09:55 PM

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Originally Posted by strandinthewind (Post 785106)
I know - I could care a less about marriage. It's the granting of one group rights solely on a religious ideal to the exclusion of others that pisses me off.

And, if course it will happen. New York is about to pass a law that grants marriage. California first voted it down by 61.4% to 38% - this time it was 52.47% in favor of Proposition 8 and 47.53% against, with a difference of about 504,000 votes. Moreover, the public was solidly against Prop 8 until the fukcing Mormons came in with their lies, scare tactics, and misleading ads that made people think they were actually voting for free speech :rolleyes:

Fukc them and all that supported these lies and continue to do so.

Oh, because the people of California are so incapable of rational thought that the mormons, all by themselves, held the hands of everyone and voted for them. The people were just mindless bots with no thought process on their own. Or was it a conspiracy?! Maybe the CFR, The Rothschilds, The Buildebergers, The Zionists, The NeoCons, or Al Queda were behind it, right? The Mormons have SUCH influence that they can influence the way people vote, but they can't drive those same people into their church. This is utterly ridiculous. Take a step back and look at that statement, whydontcha?!

ajmccarrell 11-20-2008 09:57 PM

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Originally Posted by BombaySapphire3 (Post 785103)
I grew up in San Diego. It seems that the wages there were midwestern even with the high cost of living...not sure if it is still the same but I know the real estate bubble bursted very badly in that town.As high as the cost of living is up here at least the wages match it better than SD.As far as the gay marriage thing I 'm personally not for marriage period.:laugh:but I think sooner or later it will happen .It's just a matter of time.

I've never understood why it needs to be a government issue period. I just hate being called a bigot because I think there are non-religious reasons against gay marriage. Personally, I think gay marriage is too exclusory and also makes everything about sex. It seems to be a self-defeating argument, since it's usually the same group that wants the government out of the bedroom. :shrug: Why not declare marriage to be a private issue and restructure the laws? Seems to be a better compromise to me. Even easier would be allowing each state to dictate it's own laws.

BombaySapphire3 11-20-2008 10:06 PM

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Originally Posted by ajmccarrell (Post 785108)
I've never understood why it needs to be a government issue period. I just hate being called a bigot because I think there are non-religious reasons against gay marriage. Personally, I think gay marriage is too exclusory and also makes everything about sex. It seems to be a self-defeating argument, since it's usually the same group that wants the government out of the bedroom. :shrug: Why not declare marriage to be a private issue and restructure the laws? Seems to be a better compromise to me. Even easier would be allowing each state to dictate it's own laws.

What I don't understand is that I would imagine that religious conservatives would be glad to at least see gays in a loving ,committed, monogamous relationship rather than running around doing silly drugs and engaging in very high risk ,promiscuous and anonymous sexual activity..that part of the equation does not make sense and leads me to believe their motives are rather nefarious in opposing gay marriage.

ajmccarrell 11-20-2008 10:10 PM

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Originally Posted by BombaySapphire3 (Post 785110)
What I don't understand is that I would imagine that religious conservatives would be glad to at least see gays in a loving ,committed, monogamous relationship rather than running around doing silly drugs and engaging in very high risk ,promiscuous and anonymous sexual activity..that part of the equation does not make sense and leads me to believe their motives are rather nefarious in opposing gay marriage.

I do think that's a little ridiculous. Simply having the title "married" is not going to make people stop being promiscuous, as any married person who has cheated, or been cheated on can tell you. If you want to be committed, you are certainly able to. The social conservatives are not responsible for people being irresponsible and risky. I mean, who says to themselves, "Jerry Falwell says I can't be married, so I'm not going to commit to the person I love and I'm going to screw around. If Falwell says I can marry, I'll stop." I mean, that's a really bogus argument. If you talk to anyone who is a social conservative, they will tell you it's great that gays want to settle down, it just isn't the same thing as marriage. Why should the opinion of a bunch of social conservatives change the way you view your own relationship? Put your own initiative on the ballot and keep trying. You'll eventually be successful. You will never get the social conservatives to side with you. You need to be better about getting your message out.

Frankly, loud demonstrations generally turn public opinion against you. I cringe when I see abortion protesters marching. I'm pro-life, but I think boycotts and loud protests make them look like idiots. When you have people in drag marching the streets, people making out in public, and in general acting like idiots, it does more to damage your own cause than anything the Mormons could do against you. If instead you worked on the image factor, where you showed more gay families with kids or other family friendly pictures and asked the weirdo's to tone it down, you would probably succeed. Despite the moral issue, most people are uncomfortable with cross-dressers or anyone making out in public. Most voters would be uncomfortable with the goings on at Pride Parades or at Mardi Gras. People don't like sexuality out in public, they like discretion. If you were able to change the image of gays, you would be much better off. Instead, all we see are cartoon characters of gays as my gay assistant put it, "prancing around like f-cking fairies" in S & M outfits. He was fairly embarrassed by the gay community in San Francisco, which is why he moved here.

strandinthewind 11-20-2008 10:12 PM

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Originally Posted by BombaySapphire3 (Post 785110)
. . . that part of the equation does not make sense and leads me to believe their motives are rather nefarious in opposing gay marriage.

It's all about the dollar - darlin'

If you want to fill your church, preach hate.

It is estimated that that the churches have made over a billion dollars in donations as a reult of this and related causes. The churches know all to well that if they are out of the govt., they lose the ability to control. Again, Christ never acted like that :shrug:

Well, there's that and the fact that the loudest and most hate filled seemingly are the ones who are simultaneously taking it up the a$$ in some motel or cheating on their wives with other women :rolleyes: Note - there are true Christians out there who are decent, truthful people. I am not talking about them. I am talking about the "send me money" preachers on t.v. and in politics. They sicken me to no end because they cheapen the Word of God for their own wicked ends.

I love Whoopi Goldberg's quote "If you are against gay marriage, don't marry another man" :laugh:

BombaySapphire3 11-20-2008 10:15 PM

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Originally Posted by strandinthewind (Post 785112)
It's all about the dollar - darlin'

If you want to fill your church, preach hate.

It is estimated that that the churches have made over a billion dollars in donations as a reult of this and related causes. The churches know all to well that if they are out of the govt., they lose the ability to control. Again, Christ never acted like that :shrug:

Well, there's that and the fact that the loudest and most hate filled are taking it up the a$$ in some motel or cheating on their wives with other women :rolleyes:

oh yeah there are plenty more Mark Foleys ,Ted Haggards and Larry Craigs were those hypocrites came from ..no doubt.

ajmccarrell 11-20-2008 10:18 PM

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Originally Posted by strandinthewind (Post 785112)
It's all about the dollar - darlin'

If you want to fill your church, preach hate.

It is estimated that that the churches have made over a billion dollars in donations as a reult of this and related causes. The churches know all to well that if they are out of the govt., they lose the ability to control. Again, Christ never acted like that :shrug:

Well, there's that and the fact that the loudest and most hate filled seemingly are the ones who are simultaneously taking it up the a$$ in some motel or cheating on their wives with other women :rolleyes: Note - there are true Christians out there who are decent, truthful people. I am not talking about them. I am talking about the "send me money" preachers on t.v. and in politics. They sicken me to no end because they cheapen the Word of God for their own wicked ends.

I love Whoopi Goldberg's quote "If you are against gay marriage, don't marry another man" :laugh:

I agree about TV preachers. I liked Savage Garden's quote, "I believe God does not endorse TV evangelsist". Unfortunately, your quote about preaching hate is not borne up by facts. Denominations such as the Unitarians and other have been going up. It's your opinion, but it isn't supported by any statistical data.

BombaySapphire3 11-20-2008 10:19 PM

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Originally Posted by ajmccarrell (Post 785111)
I do think that's a little ridiculous. Simply having the title "married" is not going to make people stop being promiscuous, as any married person who has cheated, or been cheated on can tell you. If you want to be committed, you are certainly able to. The social conservatives are not responsible for people being irresponsible and risky. I mean, who says to themselves, "Jerry Falwell says I can't be married, so I'm not going to commit to the person I love and I'm going to screw around. If Falwell says I can marry, I'll stop." I mean, that's a really bogus argument. If you talk to anyone who is a social conservative, they will tell you it's great that gays want to settle down, it just isn't the same thing as marriage. Why should the opinion of a bunch of social conservatives change the way you view your own relationship? Put your own initiative on the ballot and keep trying. You'll eventually be successful. You will never get the social conservatives to side with you.

Just by vitrtue of their preaching of hate and intolerance and marginalizing gay people they are contributing to those behaviors .If society were more accepting it is pretty clear the substance abuse and low self esteem that contributes to those behaviors would decrease as well.

strandinthewind 11-20-2008 10:19 PM

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Originally Posted by BombaySapphire3 (Post 785113)
oh yeah there are plenty more Mark Foleys ,Ted Haggards and Larry Craigs were those hypocrites came from ..no doubt.

And, if they are not closet cases, they are cheating on their wives with other chicks, molesting the children, and/or cooking the books to support their opulent lifestyle - all while taking God's name in vain.

Again, there are decent people of God and other religions out there. I am not talking about them.


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