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shackin'up 04-27-2008 03:34 PM

I Know I'm Not Wrong
 
Since too many people were thrown out of this place, even Danax6, one of the most truthfull Macfans on the net, I just want to say to you all: Thank You. But this place has become too "Bush-y" for a leftwing European. The American inconsequent reading of rules has gone too far for me. All people that I love over here: I think my time has come to say: Now I say Goodbye to you. There are more "free" places on the net that deserve my energy.

Madness Fades 04-27-2008 03:40 PM

What do this mean. I dont understand. The ledge has been fine has it not.....

i need examples

mylittledemon 04-27-2008 04:49 PM

I'm sorry to hear that so many people are being banned, for whatever reason. I see many people are leaving as well and heading to the new Fleetwood Mac forum. I enjoy the Ledge, and have a fondness for it...especially because I have been here for so long like many others. I hope whatever it is that is going on can be resolved and we can get more folks back here.

wondergirl9847 04-27-2008 08:22 PM

WTH?! What new FM forum? Why are people getting banned?

I miss everything.

Ledge Moderators 04-27-2008 08:51 PM

Six people were suspended for 7 days for ongoing attack posts against another Ledgie. That 7 day period expired on April 24.

During the suspension, one gentleman used a second user id to stir up further conflict. He is the only person who was permanently banned in recent months, due to his deceptive use of the alias id. No one else is banned. Their absence is quite voluntary.

Sarah 04-27-2008 10:39 PM

well alrighty then.

http://hardwarelogic.com/articles/bl...oreYouKnow.jpg

gldstwmn 04-28-2008 12:02 AM

Gerald, are those mushrooms in your avatar and sig pic?

LukeA 04-28-2008 06:16 AM

Shouldn't this thread be in the "Ledge Boards" group?

sara1998 04-28-2008 07:17 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Sarah (Post 753635)

That reminds me of that one episode of Family Guy...
Hilarious... :lol:

suzyvermoesen 04-28-2008 07:22 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by shackin'up (Post 753585)
Since too many people were thrown out of this place, even Danax6, one of the most truthfull Macfans on the net, I just want to say to you all: Thank You. But this place has become too "Bush-y" for a leftwing European. The American inconsequent reading of rules has gone too far for me. All people that I love over here: I think my time has come to say: Now I say Goodbye to you. There are more "free" places on the net that deserve my energy.

:shocked: the past 2 weeks or so i have been too busy to regularly visit here so i'm totally out of it. Today, being a slow day at work, i have been trying to "catch up" and this is what i find out ! My "noorderburen" have both left The Ledge :eek:
Please come back Vanessa and Gerald , if only to counter balance opinions with a continental european view ...

shackin'up 04-28-2008 02:44 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by gldstwmn (Post 753640)
Gerald, are those mushrooms in your avatar and sig pic?

No.





:lol:

What else dear? :lol:

HejiraNYC 04-28-2008 03:23 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by shackin'up (Post 753693)
No.





:lol:

What else dear? :lol:

Back from retirement so soon, Tina? :cool:

SortaSavageLike 04-28-2008 03:27 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by HejiraNYC (Post 753698)
Back from retirement so soon, Tina? :cool:

This just reinforces my faith in cycles!

gldstwmn 04-28-2008 03:47 PM

LOL at posts 11 -13. :lol: You guys are funny.

SuzeQuze 04-28-2008 04:19 PM

I knew he'd be back but it was definitely faster than expected!

shackin'up 04-28-2008 04:24 PM

Oh, I'll be gone, don't worry.

Posts 12 and 13 are from people who I deeply respect. They always respond nicely to me. Fock off you two, because you've never respected me.
No, I'm here to finish a 5 year-membership. I've received some PM's and I wanted to respond to gldstwmn, because I DO like her. You guys don't have a clue about what mess this board has made from a community that really bonded friends. They're mostly kicked out or fed up with the board. I've swallowed a lot of **** for a long time and now it's bye. I Know that there are a few people here that liked my existance as shackin'up on the ledge. And I know that there are some people who will miss me as toothache. Whaever.

gldstwmn 04-28-2008 04:55 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by shackin'up (Post 753711)
I've received some PM's and I wanted to respond to gldstwmn, because I DO like her.

Awww...I like you too Gerald. I hope you reconsider. You will be missed.

mylittledemon 04-28-2008 05:00 PM

I dont want anyone to leave.

HejiraNYC 04-28-2008 07:52 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by shackin'up (Post 753711)
Oh, I'll be gone, don't worry.

Posts 12 and 13 are from people who I deeply respect. They always respond nicely to me. Fock off you two, because you've never respected me.
No, I'm here to finish a 5 year-membership. I've received some PM's and I wanted to respond to gldstwmn, because I DO like her. You guys don't have a clue about what mess this board has made from a community that really bonded friends. They're mostly kicked out or fed up with the board. I've swallowed a lot of **** for a long time and now it's bye. I Know that there are a few people here that liked my existance as shackin'up on the ledge. And I know that there are some people who will miss me as toothache. Whaever.

So GO already. Why do you have to drag this out, and in the process drag this forum (and everyone who currently posts) under the bus? You are essentially telling those of us who remain, in your very self-important way, that we are not worthy of your high and mighty presence. You could have just honorably disappeared into the night(like many others). But the hard truth is... most of us do not care that you are going.

Sayonara! :wavey:

SortaSavageLike 04-28-2008 08:08 PM

You know, when I got banned from Seven Wonders, I insisted on telling the forum owner to take something long and pointy and ram it where the sun doesn't shine.

It worked. And it'll work here, too. No muss, no fuss.

Hawkeye 04-28-2008 10:24 PM

Please Don't Go Gerald, you're too vital to the ledge. I too am very disatisfied with things here as of late, but in the end my love of the band and its members trumps all of that, and there's still enough great people left to keep The Ledge, The Ledge.

dnightshade 04-29-2008 09:07 AM

I'm not in any private cliques and I don't know alot of people here beyond their screen names but I enjoy all the posts and contributions people make: photos, links, downloads. I hope no one leaves because this seems like a great place with a lot of interesting, knowledgable and entertaining personalities.

#1LiddyBuckFan 04-29-2008 09:47 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by shackin'up (Post 753711)
Oh, I'll be gone, don't worry.

Posts 12 and 13 are from people who I deeply respect. They always respond nicely to me. Fock off you two, because you've never respected me.
No, I'm here to finish a 5 year-membership. I've received some PM's and I wanted to respond to gldstwmn, because I DO like her. You guys don't have a clue about what mess this board has made from a community that really bonded friends. They're mostly kicked out or fed up with the board. I've swallowed a lot of **** for a long time and now it's bye. I Know that there are a few people here that liked my existance as shackin'up on the ledge. And I know that there are some people who will miss me as toothache. Whaever.

I will miss you...you always had great insight on the Buckingham forum. It's a shame to lose you.

suzyvermoesen 04-30-2008 12:46 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Ledge Moderators (Post 753628)
Six people were suspended for 7 days for ongoing attack posts against another Ledgie. That 7 day period expired on April 24.

During the suspension, one gentleman used a second user id to stir up further conflict. He is the only person who was permanently banned in recent months, due to his deceptive use of the alias id. No one else is banned. Their absence is quite voluntary.

Have these "attack" posts been removed ? I have tried to find them so i could judge for myself but was unable to trace them. As Gerald already pointed out; Vanessa is a very honest and true fan and i find it hard to believe she would maliciously attack another fan.

Beachwood Mac 04-30-2008 12:53 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by suzyvermoesen (Post 754021)
Have these "attack" posts been removed ? I have tried to find them so i could judge for myself but was unable to trace them. As Gerald already pointed out; Vanessa is a very honest and true fan and i find it hard to believe she would maliciously attack another fan.

Hey Suzy :wavey:

Look in the Vivica Fox thread. All the posts are still there. You won't find anything even remotely worthy of a suspension or banishment. :shrug:

HejiraNYC 04-30-2008 12:54 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by suzyvermoesen (Post 754021)
Have these "attack" posts been removed ? I have tried to find them so i could judge for myself but was unable to trace them. As Gerald already pointed out; Vanessa is a very honest and true fan and i find it hard to believe she would maliciously attack another fan.

Well, the gory details have been stripped (I think), but I think this is where the drama started:

http://ledge.fleetwoodmac.net/showth...ghlight=vivica

Although the banning was only temporary, it looks like people have chosen not to return. :distress: I think it's one thing to give someone a strike, but I think the temporary suspension on top of that, for a transgression that was arguably not particularly mean-spirited, was a bit excessive. There is a way to enforce the rules at the Ledge without slowly killing it at the same time.

suzyvermoesen 04-30-2008 01:28 PM

Thanks guys for pointing me.
I've read the thread : boooooring !!!!!!!!
And to ban someone for only a few innocent remarks ? I'd say that's food for thought....

Ledge Moderators 04-30-2008 01:33 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by HejiraNYC (Post 754025)
Well, the gory details have been stripped (I think)

Yes, we did not delete any posts, but as the thread continued, users began deleting their own.

trackaghost 04-30-2008 03:44 PM

I'm the only one who deleted some posts and you can read absolutely everything I said in other people's quotes. It's still all there, everything that happened.
I just wanted to remove myself from the argument, probably in a foolish way.
I just wanted to clear that up, and sorry.
Anyway, I'm sad to go but I'll leave now...

DrummerDeanna 04-30-2008 03:50 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Ledge Moderators (Post 754032)
Yes, we did not delete any posts, but as the thread continued, users began deleting their own.


Except that none of the offenders removed any of their posts. At all. I was reading it - and keeping up with it, and nothing that I read at the time has been removed. What you see is what you get. (edit: except Sharon - but she explains that.)

I haven't posted on here in quite a while - mostly because I'm not interested in a lot of what's being posted on here.

I've been a member of the Ledge since 2000. 8 years of my life have been spent on the Ledge, which up until recently was my favorite place on the Internet. Now? Not so much.

It's a sad day when long-time, and in many cases supporting, members of this board are basically told to hit the road - when some new person who causes nothing but trouble is giving carte blanche. The rules are only applied to people the moderators decided they should be applied to...and things just aren't run fairly at all.

Of course this is when the new owner would come in and say "it's MY board and I don't have to be fair, it's my way or the highway." which is another problem I have with The Ledge as of late.

You have people who pay their own money to support this site - yet it's your way or the highway. Whatever - if alienating the solid base of this site - people who have been here for many years was your goal then congratulations.

The crime that was committed by these people was apparently meeting on here and forming real and lasting friendships. How dare they.

Anyway - it's not without a little sadness that I bid The Ledge farewell, though to be honest I feel like The Ledge left me long before I left the Ledge :lol:

bretonbanquet 04-30-2008 04:03 PM

Every word I said, including whichever post or posts I was banned for, is still there on the Vivfox thread for all to see. People can make up their own minds.

I enjoyed it here very much, but it's time to move on :wavey:

JazmenFlowers 04-30-2008 04:18 PM

what a waste this place has become. classic god complex. but so many on one board. that's gotta be a record.

there's so much to the story that most people don't even know/get. it's not all as it seems dear Ledgies. don't be fooled. look around.

...since you've been gone, Rome burned down...

LukeA 04-30-2008 04:26 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by LukeA (Post 753645)
Shouldn't this thread be in the "Ledge Boards" group?

I repeat...

JazmenFlowers 04-30-2008 04:28 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by LukeA (Post 754047)
I repeat...

since these aren't really concerns over the "set up" of the board, Chit Chat is actually the appropriate forum.

got PM or signature problems, etc., that would go there. it's more of an IT-type forum.

LukeA 04-30-2008 04:31 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by JazmenFlowers (Post 754049)
since these aren't really concerns over the "set up" of the board, Chit Chat is actually the appropriate forum.

got PM or signature problems, etc., that would go there. it's more of an IT-type forum.

I guess it all depends on interpretation of "set up"- I mean, it would make sense to have discussions regarding membership/moderation of the boards in a forum dedicated to the boards themselves, rather than dragging it in here.

But, maybe that's just me.

BTFLCHLD 04-30-2008 04:37 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by LukeA (Post 754050)
a forum dedicated to the boards

well, one would think there would be enough HOT homan threads with the ledge as topic that that would keep oneself quite busy...apparently not. seems situations such as this tend to bring on that love/hate bit. :shrug:


jannieC 04-30-2008 04:50 PM

I've been keeping quiet through this mostly because I am new at moderating and don't want to come off sounding like I believe I am an authority on anything. However, I do want to say that I wish that *no one* would leave. I will miss the folks that I genuinely thought of as friends here in cyberspace. Some of you have access to my private journal and there is a reason for that. All that being said, if The Ledge does not bring happiness to someone, he or she should have the right to move on.

I have been really busy trying to finish up graduate school (graduating in 15 days!) so I haven't had time to speak on these issues like I would have liked. I believe that the overall reasoning behind the suspensions was a feeling of a bullying attitude. Please bear in mind that every single rule break is not always picked up on by moderators. Most of the time, I receive a PM with a complaint before I've had the chance to see it in the thread itself. What I do is then copy the complaint and discuss it with the other moderators. I don't know ANY of the back stories or histories between different Ledgies. I've never been adept at figuring out who likes or dislikes who. I suppose that's due in part to the fact that before I became a moderator, I steered clear from "argument" threads.

No one moderator makes the decision to suspend or ban (I definitely would not feel comfortable with that "power" considering how long I've been here). I'd like to think that I try to be fair. I do admit not being quite as on top of things as I should, but I don't have as much time to read all the threads as I usually do, and for that, I apologize.

I'll end this by saying that I'm sorry to those who feel that they have not been treated fairly. The Ledge should be a place for Stevie and FM freaks (like me! :wavey:) to be able to get together and talk about the band and have interesting and thought provoking discussions.

BTFLCHLD 04-30-2008 05:07 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by jannieC (Post 754058)
The Ledge should be a place for Stevie and FM freaks (like me! :wavey:) to be able to get together and talk about the band and have interesting and thought provoking discussions.

great note, jannie. would be ubercool if we all could come together as FM fans. I, too, am on the miss for some peeps...but, in the circumstance of tempban, they do have freedom of choice to return or not...if they want to move on/away all I can offer is 'peace' and wish them well...odd shiz happens when 'feelings' are involved. :shrug:

Moz 04-30-2008 06:43 PM

I don't know why everyone is taking this so serious - "I'M GONNA TAKE MY BALL AND GO HOME!" - come on. It's a forum. People seem so worked up over this.

jannieC 04-30-2008 06:47 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Moz (Post 754075)
I don't know why everyone is taking this so serious - "I'M GONNA TAKE MY BALL AND GO HOME!" - come on. It's a forum. People seem so worked up over this.

Many people have been a part of this community for several years. People have formed friendships.


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