What do you notice FIRST in a man?
 

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Do tell......;)

I usually notice their feet first. Don't know why, but I find a man in a good pair of shoes extremely attractive :shrug: :laugh:

On your poll though, I chose smile - cause Im a sucker for a nice smile :o

the lack of breasts and a vagina.

Shoes...hmmmm
You are not on the poll..:shrug:

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Huh? :confused:

Someone is gonna say they're a sucker for a nice butt/bulge.


I didn't though.

it's a ****ing crime that this is an anonymous poll.

i notice if he is/isn't jack bauer (kiefer on 24).

if he is, all systems go! sadly, well...

i think i'm dormant right now. :shocked: couldn't care less about guys. you have to find one, get over all of those negative first impressions, figure out if he's a killer, accept things about him just for the sake of maybe bedding him, then things just go downhill from there... or maybe i'm just bitchy :rolleyes:

Oh blow me :p

LMAO! Thanks for summing it all up for me!!

Well, it depends. Usually, it's his face. But if he's got nice hands (manly hands) or a nice ass, I might notice that first. I also have a bit of a foot fetish, so if he's barefoot, I'll notice that first...although it's kind of a letdown if the rest of him is hot, but he has ugly feet. My ex-roommate, btw, had the sexiest feet I think I've ever seen. Too bad I never fukced him.

Wasn't he the one who dikced you over :eek:

No. Have I mentioned him on here? Him, I wouldn't piss on if he was on fire. Sexy feet (and nipples too, if I may say so) is the one with the cats from hell.

I figured people would be more honest! :laugh:

Ahhhhh - just checking :D

And you know what's maddening? There were a couple of times when I totally could've had him, but I didn't see that at the time. Why am I so dense about these things??

The fact that he doesn't have boobs.

I am the same way most times - such is life.

Eyes all the way.
The eyes have it, I don't even notice anything else until way later.

I'm an eyes/face/smile kinda girl. I can't judge the ass until I can grab it, and I'm not one to do that upon the first meeting :angel:

I'm torn between eyes and smile, but chose smile.

Well, I'm determined not to keep making the same mistake. I actually seemed to overcome that handicap last year with a friend of mine (who has since moved away :distress: ), and we wound up fukcing in a hot tub. :laugh: See the kind of thing I've been missing out on?

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you're one fierce bitch, kate.

I always notice the face & eyes first. When a guy has really nice eyes, I'm done. He can have me. :laugh: :nod:

You are??? So your ego is a cover! ;) :xoxo: You're all that and a bag of chips, hon.

Okay, when I really think about it the first thing I notice is his face. But really, I don't notice the parts until a few minutes or so have passed. I just take in the whole man at first, the Gestalt of him.

I do the same too. To steal a quote from American Psycho, I like to dissect boys. Did you know I'm utterly insane? :laugh:

I generally cannot tell when someone likes me that way, though I readily admit most should be stunned by my savoir faire, personage, and looks :thumbsup:

Hey whore! :angel: How ya been?


I went with smile, but eyes are a close second. But if someone's walking around without a shirt on & they have nice muscle definition, it might be arms or abs.

Truly. Are gay men more subtle than straight men? Cuz it's usually abundantly clear when a straight man is interested in me.

Couldnt tell ya...

But I notice women notice my long hair and eyes first and foremost.

Manly feet, hiyieeeee!!!!:]

I do not know. I have not really dated that many people and my really only long term one (10 years) asked five seconds after meeting me in the receiving line - my friend I happened to be with at a black tie deal - how much I cost for the evening. I guess that was kind of a clue :laugh: Also, after ten years and alimony - he found out :D

So, please, do tell... how much is that strandinthewindow? :p :wavey:

Gawd. I'm dormant too :laugh: I've not giving a damn about a guy in over two years now, and frankly it's starting to bug me. I miss crushes. I miss "feeling" period - I've not liked anyone in a looong time.

But meh I put face...though there's not really ONE thing I notice first, if there is I don't know what it is...so I guessed face.

I dissect too...:cool: :shrug:

I always notice a guys smile first. Always gets me

you mean his zipper smile...;)

For me, it's the eyes. Always.

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