Oh man, How Much Bad Luck With Girls Can A Guy Have????? A Little Help Please!!!
 

So, all of you all know that I have ZERO luck with girls. I am shy on the approach but they all say they "love me".

Anyway, I met this girl a couple of weeks ago at her vocal lesson. She was really nice, and when I complimented her on her voice, she would always smile and thank me very sweetly. She seemed to like it.

So I found her on MYSPACE and we started talking. She was very supportive of my back surgery and all. I was hoping I would run into her at school, but no such luck. This being said, I was thinking that it would be awkward seeing her again in "real life" after talking to her online.......

A couple of days later, we had a choral concert. I was in the lobby just chillin' and she walks around the corner and sees me. She seemed really happy to see me. We talked awhile and talked about how I wrote songs and she was telling me that I MUST record my songs and give them to her.........

I talked to her a couple of times on MYSPACE after that but since a few days ago, I haven't heard from her AND NOW it says that she is "in a relationship". I know I didn't know her very well, but we really seemed to get along well and I was hoping that we would be seeing more of each other. But I guess not...... What should I do. It is just SOOO frustrating.:distress:

Much Love,
Ethan

I get that she changed her my space from "single" to "in a relationship"? (Sorry, I am old and never used my space). I think that is your answer - added to the silence. Save yourself some frustration and move on. She gave you her answer with her actions. If she was really interested, you would know. :sorry:

Was she supposed to consult you before getting into a relationship? :laugh: You can still be friends with her... can't you?

Well, I understand what you are saying, but it had been so hard for me to get over the other girl that I was hoping that she would at least keep me from "going back again"....... Oh well

I mean, we just met. Have only really talked in person twice...... But we got along really well and she was very sweet.

We have all been there. (I know that doesn't help much). And I might not be the right one to respond (I gave up years ago). I think that when the right one comes along, you will know it. Just don't let what happened in the past spoil your future. Remember they are the ones that missed out. And it is their loss, not yours. So, here is a fluff pic, as I get off the old soapbox. :D


"You Otter not let it get you down"

http://i9.photobucket.com/albums/a88...ing20otter.jpg

Ha ha, thanks that's really cute. And I know they are the ones missing out because I am going to make something great out of myself and they are going to be missing out, but for the meantime, there's a bit of pain. At least it helps write AMAZING music, and my novel is coming along FANTASTICLLY!!!!:nod:

And so modest.

maybe you should lay off myspace for a while. it is evil, you know.

didn't you have a similar, like, way similar, problem with a girl in the past?

*zing!*

I agree with the general sentiment going on over here.. you just met her. It's not like you were going out for a while, and that you talked things out, blah blah blah. She's allowed to make the decision to go out with someone.. it's not like you made a commitment, or anything like that.

& besides, it's ****ing MySpace. If you're taking that site seriously, then come on, dude. It's the internet. Get real.

All of the internet is evil.

That sig pic is a pants pisser. I love it when you're snide.

I know, right?
I'll have to be snide a little more often then.

..it keeps the know it alls on their toes...:lol: :lol: :lol:

Oh bring it on. Me likey.

;)

as Beyonce' says...can you keep up?

I wear out most.
:woohoo:

oh snap. :]

Snap crackle and pop.
:wavey:

stop.please.
can't.breathe.

(oh ****. I just gave you more material didn't I? :D )

Just because a girl is friendly and chatty with you doesn't mean she wants to date you. If she is such a nice person then you will have to be happy to be friends with her

omg i love that pic!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!~

Hi Ethan. Just remeber that you're young and there are plenty of other girls out there. Cultivate friendships with them, see what they're all about and then see what happens from there.

sorry, but FORGET FRIENDSHIPS! :rolleyes: If you give em the "friend" vibe then thats what they'll think of you as. (BELIEVE ME) and stop bieng so nice, when girls get a glimpse of "inner jerk" I know you got in you. :cool: THATS when they'll respond. THEN you can be nice, and they'll think "oh hes so wonderful, hes bieng nice JUST FOR ME. TRUST ME DUDE, ITS THE TRUTH.

I AM SO SORRY FOR EVER POSTING THIS. I AM SO SAD AND UPSET RIGht now. I just meant to not be soo much as a friend that the girl you like just treats you like a door mat, and only ever thinks of you as a friend. I dont condone in any way bieng mean to women or anything like that. I AM SOO SORRY, I have been crying for the last hour I love the lege, but just want to go away, but cant cause this is THE ONLY PLACE IN MY LIFE that i can share my love for stevie. I am sorry. I dont want to offend people. I cant stop crying now.

..I love your "inner jerk!" :nod:

You know the heartfelt and genuine enthusiasm that leads you to start so many threads? Well, if you approach a girl with that same fervor (even friendly, and complementary fervor) I think most girls would be a little apprehensive and overwhelmed.
I know it is hard to rein that in when you are excited about someone you meet, but just take a breath, and throw more of the energy into your music and novel. There will be someone whose enthusiasm matches yours, I don't think you will have to wonder, but you might have to wait.
Just my opinion...

Snap???
 

as in "around the World horizontal 'Z-snap'"? :lol:

:nod: Thanks you all for the advice. I think I have already moved on......

Oh snap!:rolleyes:











:lol: :lol: :lol:

:laugh: :laugh: :laugh:

Oh you guys this is the best internet place to be. :blob1:

Sasja

damn:

that.is.hilarious.

My brilliance knows no bounds. :lol: :xoxo:

Is brilliance Canadian for modesty? :shrug:

J/K it cracked me up

Perfect! But is it evil enough? :D

Sasja

:laugh: *throws back bacon in yo' face*

o.m.g.

you kill me.

:D :D :D

I was gonna :xoxo: but I didn't want you to catch my disease. :laugh:

~zomg i caught canadian~

wait, i just used that joke ... :laugh:

plz make me a tshirt that says "i caught canadian and all i got were these damn snow shoes" :D

hahaha. I seriously should.

:lol: *win*