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Mad4stevie
03-20-2003, 02:00 PM
One of my good friends is getting married this summer and she is a big FM/Stevie fan. She would like to pick a song from FM or Stevie for the "father/daughter dance" but is looking for good suggestions before making her final pick.

I suggested "Landslide", of course.

What suggestions do the rest of you have?

Bella Figura
03-20-2003, 02:04 PM
"Beautiful Child" but it might be tooo sad for a wedding...

ryan8472
03-20-2003, 06:48 PM
The first song that came to mind for me was Crystal, from the white album. Landslide is always a good one too. Also, there's Oh Daddy from Rumours.

DownOnRodeo
03-20-2003, 06:55 PM
Your first pick of Landlside seems spot on - it seems to be the most appropriate.:nod:

gldstwmn
03-20-2003, 07:00 PM
It really should be Landslide.:)

Mad4stevie
03-20-2003, 07:20 PM
Maybe even the live version of Landslide from The Dance. If my memory serves me correctly, Stevie says "This is for you, Daddy" before she begins singing.

DownOnRodeo
03-20-2003, 07:24 PM
Yes well, not the Dixie Chicks version in any case!

Mad4stevie
03-20-2003, 07:50 PM
Originally posted by DownOnRodeo
Yes well, not the Dixie Chicks version in any case!


Yeah, no kidding! I don't think that was EVER considered!! :laugh:

paleshadow
03-20-2003, 08:05 PM
I think Songbird would be a great wedding song, but I'm not sure if it would fit for a father daughter dance.

Joseph Corkill
03-21-2003, 11:20 AM
I love "Withou You"

arnold

Cristian
03-21-2003, 11:44 AM
I go with the "Crystal" choice... it seems really appropiate. A sweet love song. :)


Song of the moment - No Questions Asked

PenguinHead
03-21-2003, 12:00 PM
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Originally posted by Mad4stevie
Maybe even the live version of Landslide from The Dance. If my memory serves me correctly, Stevie says "This is for you, Daddy" before she begins singing.

Does one of us need to get a hearing test? "Daddy?" I thought it was generally known that she said "Patty." I've never heard Stevie publically refer to her father as "Daddy."

Alison
03-21-2003, 12:04 PM
I think it may be you PenquinHead. I'm sure she is saying Daddy/

Mad4stevie
03-21-2003, 12:09 PM
Originally posted by PenguinHead
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Does one of us need to get a hearing test? "Daddy?" I thought it was generally known that she said "Patty." I've never heard Stevie publically refer to her father as "Daddy."


I think I remember Stevie doing an interview where she says she dedicated the song to her dad because he was in the audience that night.

SilverGirl
03-21-2003, 02:50 PM
Ive got several live versions where she dedicates Landslide to "daddy"... she answered in the 'ask Stevie' on the nicksfix that it was indeed because her dad was in the audience. I also read in another interview that she has done this for some time because she wrote landslide in Aspen after being given the 6 month deadline by her dad/parents to either make a go of things musically or return home and go to school... (may also say something to this effect on "Storytellers"...

Crystal is my favorite mac wedding song, but not for the father-daughter dance. I personally wouldn't want Landslide because it is about 'growing old', and my goodness, I'm already an old maid :laugh: and if you're young, who wants to think about that!

How about "Belladonna"?? "Songbird" is good I guess..

"Think About It"?? just kidding! :laugh:

HolidayRoadGirl
03-21-2003, 03:41 PM
Unconditional Love would be my choice for a father/daughter dance. The lyrics are uplifting and appropriate and it's got a nice tempo.

I initially thought of Has Anyone Ever Written ... but I think it's a little too slow and meditative for a joyous occasion!

xoxoxo
A fellow member of the "old maids club"

darklinensuit
03-21-2003, 11:15 PM
I agree with Crystal and Unconditional Love. (Landslide is getting trite at weddings - I've been to a few lately that had it for the bride's dance with dad.) I know Stevie didn't write UL, but some of the lyrics are fitting for the father-daughter dance: "Why would I...be a fool and break these ties" and "Darling I'm right here...and nothing's changed" especially.

DownOnRodeo
03-21-2003, 11:41 PM
Actually I change my vote to Gypsy
Even better, an acoustic guitar version if theres a muso in the ranks of your family.

Everything is spot-on pertinent - the only thing that is a bit off-topic is the first verse, about the room - but that sets the mood and doesn't really detract.

It's both optimistic and reflective, and the song makes you want to dance like they do in the video anyway.

"So it all comes down to you
Well you know that it does well
Lightning stirkes maybe once, maybe twice
Oh and it lights up the night..."

--Magical, beautiful lines.



"..Faces freedom, with a little fear
I have no fear
I have only love
And if I was a child, and the child was enough
Enough for me to love
Enough to love"

---The whole child/father etc thing that Landslide has.



"She is dancing away from you now
She was just a wish
She was just a wish
And the memory is all that is left of her now..."

---Words for the father



"You see your Gypsy"
---The bride has matured and is revealed to herself and everyone that she is a woman and has the dancing, gypsy spirit of womanhood.


..Oh man, I gotta go play it right now!! :D

darklinensuit
03-22-2003, 12:06 AM
Yeah, I love the Gypsy lyrics and can see them at a wedding. I just can't listen to the song without thinking of Robin (would be a downer at my reception, but hey, I'm no bride.) I guess the choice depends on how big of an FM devotee this bride is, as most people aren't aware of the song's meaning.

Sorcerer386
03-22-2003, 12:29 AM
Rooms on Fire can actually work as a father-daughter dance song, as long as you interpret it a little differently. Especially if you think about a father having to let go of his daughter to another man...

"And he hated to be separated from that picture..."

Just a thought.

DownOnRodeo
03-23-2003, 04:14 AM
Originally posted by darklinensuit
Yeah, I love the Gypsy lyrics and can see them at a wedding. I just can't listen to the song without thinking of Robin (would be a downer at my reception, but hey, I'm no bride.) I guess the choice depends on how big of an FM devotee this bride is, as most people aren't aware of the song's meaning.
Yeah for sure. When I finally found out the story behind it, it changed my appreciation of the song - still really happy and optimistic, but sort of desperately so in the face of sadness :(

darklinensuit
03-23-2003, 01:49 PM
Not to go too far off the topic of this thread, but each of the versions of Gypsy is so different. The piano demo, Mirage concert version, and recent acoustic are all pretty calm and reflective, the album version is almost triumphant, but my favorite is the fast-paced outtake with Stevie sounding enraged. It reminds me of that great shot in the video with her running outside in black and white past the dancers in the rain, eyes shut, throwing her arms up in despair only to be frozen in a framed photograph.

Back to the topic, again, I could see it at a funeral more than at a wedding. Too me the song is mainly about surviving and still remmbering.
- Jae

BuGgZi
03-26-2003, 04:36 PM
leather and lace!!!!...since it was made for a weading...lol