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Lee
07-22-2007, 08:20 PM
last Friday. He's only 48. He's a painter, & he called me from the job site & said that he was going to the hospital, his chest hurt & he was sweating really bad. He was getting a co-worker to take him there. He wanted me to meet him there. Well, I didn't know where the hospital was, got my Mom to let me follow her there, & called his daughter in the meantime. His heart apparently stopped completely before I got there, but they used shock on him & got it restarted. He looked so very pale laying there, his daughter was crying (Her sister was with her.) & I told her that everything would be OK. They took him by ambulance to another hospital maybe 20 to 25 minutes away. They didn't have the equipment at this hospital to treat him. I followed my stepdaughter there to the other hospital following the staff's directions. They told us to go to the surgery waiting room. It seemed like forever. I could not stop shaking, his daughter & her sister read a book; I listened to Stevie on my iPod & tried to calm down. Finally after an hour, someone took us to another dept. I met his heart doctor who told us that my husband had a clogged artery. It was 99% blocked with 1% of the blood getting through. They put a stent in through his right leg. Took forever to get him in a room. His two brothers came, even the one who hadn't talk to him over some stupid thing. We all took turns going to see him. I was so afraid, but I didn't want his daughter to know. But then he was alert; started to get his color back. Had tubes going everywhere. Yet tomorrow morning, he is going home. And the lesson I've learned is #1 watch what you eat & get exercise. I always told my husband to lay off the junk food. Both his parents had bad hearts; his father actually did die of a heart attack. This now has scared the one brother who wasn't talking to him. He says he's going to take better care of himself. And the #2 lesson is life is short. Don't take anything for granted; it's stupid to fight over petty stuff.

Lee

irishgrl
07-22-2007, 08:54 PM
I hope your husband has a full, speedy recovery and I hope your time together is rich and happy.

Chrislit18
07-22-2007, 09:06 PM
I'm sorry to hear that Lee :(
I hope he gets better, and makes a full recovery. As long as he realizes what he was doing wrong [as you mentioned-changing lifestyle] he should get better
I lost my grandfather to a heart attack last august, and I know how bad it feels. Best wishes to you and him

"I listened to Stevie on my iPod & tried to calm down"
Fleetwoood Mac is what got me through it, they really helped me through that hard time in my life.

GypsySorcerer
07-22-2007, 09:11 PM
All the best to your husband for a speedy recovery. You both take care.

UnwindedDreams
07-22-2007, 09:21 PM
Your husband is in my prayers. Be strong and be calm. God bless you.

gldstwmn
07-22-2007, 10:47 PM
Best wishes to your husband's good health and speedy recovery. Stay strong.

wondergirl9847
07-22-2007, 11:09 PM
Stay strong. My prayers/thoughts are with you. I hope your husband recovers quickly and it's good to hear that his family is reconnecting with him.

catinthedark
07-22-2007, 11:23 PM
oh, lee. so sorry you and your husband had to go through that.
best to you both.

The Catdancer
07-23-2007, 12:15 AM
I'm sorry to hear this, Lee. Hopefully he has a speedy recovery!!!

estranged4life
07-23-2007, 12:18 AM
Glad to hear that he is doing better, just hang in there and take care of him and make sure he gets plenty of rest.

Gypsy-Rhiannon
07-23-2007, 02:47 AM
Sorry to hear about your husband Lee. I hope he makes a speedy recovery

tuigirl
07-23-2007, 05:18 AM
hope he gets better real soon Lee, and all the best to your family.

Musicman408
07-23-2007, 08:24 AM
OMG I am so sorry to hear about this. I wish him and the rest of the family all of the best.:sorry:

kathy1
07-23-2007, 09:00 AM
hi lee your husband will be in my prayers. i hope he comes through it ok.

#1LiddyBuckFan
07-23-2007, 09:16 AM
Many prayers sent your way. :sorry:

BTFLCHLD
07-23-2007, 09:43 AM
I am sorry that happened Lee. There are lessons there. I would say that he is lucky to have at least had the 1% and now with the stent it will be much better for him. That must have been an incredible strain for some time. Sending prayers to you, your husband and your families. Take care.

sasja
07-23-2007, 10:27 AM
I hope for good long quality time left together for you two, Lee. Best wishes during the recovery!

mylittledemon
07-23-2007, 12:19 PM
I'm sorry to hear about your husband Lee. But at least he seems to be ok for now. God be with you, and him.

mylittledemon
07-23-2007, 12:21 PM
And the #2 lesson is life is short. Don't take anything for granted; it's stupid to fight over petty stuff.

Lee


Too bad I learned this AFTER my Daddy died last year. Its SO true. We were on good terms...i am at peace with the way he left this world, and what our last words were. But I'll never get over all the things I could've/should've said and couldve and shouldve done with him.

gretchen
07-23-2007, 03:32 PM
Thoughts and prayers for a full recovery for your husband. Just love him and be there for him doll. All the best.

Lee
07-23-2007, 06:17 PM
for all your well wishes & prayers. He is home now. I am so lucky that he came back to me. :xoxo: It's hard to tell by looking at him that he just had a heart attack on Friday. He still has a ways to go, but I'm glad he is still around. His daughter is really going to need him. He doesn't know it yet, but he's going to be a grandfather. I think he's going to have mixed emotions about this since his daughter isn't married, the baby's father wants her to get rid of it & dumped her. So another chapter begins. . .

Lee :)

jannieC
07-23-2007, 07:21 PM
for all your well wishes & prayers. He is home now. I am so lucky that he came back to me. :xoxo: It's hard to tell by looking at him that he just had a heart attack on Friday. He still has a ways to go, but I'm glad he is still around. His daughter is really going to need him. He doesn't know it yet, but he's going to be a grandfather. I think he's going to have mixed emotions about this since his daughter isn't married, the baby's father wants her to get rid of it & dumped her. So another chapter begins. . .

Lee :)

Best of luck to you and your family, Lee. I hope your husband gets stronger each day and that the news of his newest grandchild brings happiness instead of stress. xo

GODDESS6
07-24-2007, 07:41 AM
good thoughts sent your way for you & your hubby during this scary time & many hopes for a speedy recovery~

DeeGeMe
07-24-2007, 11:42 AM
Good luck and prayers and warm wishes and thoughts to you, the hubby and your entire family.

golddustwoman77
07-30-2007, 10:04 AM
I'm so sorry to hear about your husband. You both are in my thoughts and prayers.:angel:

JazmenFlowers
07-30-2007, 10:09 AM
I am so so sorry to hear this. I have had much experience with this. medical science has come so far and there are some great things that can be done to improve his health. I wish you both the best!