How long before before you put out?

[BlackWidow]

If you REALLY were attracted to someone - what are your rules on sex when dating?

[JazmenFlowers]

depends on how hot one is.

extremely hot...before the first date even begins (what? :shrug: )
semi-hot...first date
average...a couple dates
below average...when their bank account becomes a topic of conversation

[BlackWidow]

depends on how hot one is.

extremely hot...before the first date even begins (what? :shrug: )
semi-hot...first date
average...a couple dates
below average...when their bank account becomes a topic of conversation

"You're terrible Muriel!":lol:

[michelle2677]

depends on how hot one is.

extremely hot...before the first date even begins (what? :shrug: )
semi-hot...first date
average...a couple dates
below average...when their bank account becomes a topic of conversation

ditto

ditto

:lol:

[BlackWidow]

ditto

ditto

:lol:

vote bitch..:rolleyes:

[strandinthewind]

Imade the current one wait about six months for a kiss - AND they chased me like all get up :cool:

[foxyluva]

I wait longer than a month or longer (usually longer). None of the guys can seem to hack it, and leave :rolleyes:

[BlackWidow]

Imade the current one wait about six months for a kiss - AND they chased me like all get up :cool:

you southern c*ck teaser!:nod:

[michelle2677]

vote bitch..:rolleyes:

I went with 3rd or 4th date :shrug: that seems to be the happy middle ground :nod:

[markolas]

Apparently I don't have any, as I had sex with my boyfriend the second time we met. :laugh:

I dunno...life is short. If you meet somebody and you both really want it, and neither of you is attached, then go for it. Of course, it's probably a good idea to not have any illusions that it's anything more than a roll in the hay. In my case, it did develop into a "relationship," but it could just as easily not have. And honestly, either way would've been fine with me. Actually, I think a "friends with benefits" arrangement is better for me than a "relationship" anyway.

[foxyluva]

Apparently I don't have any, as I had sex with my boyfriend the second time we met. :laugh:

I dunno...life is short. If you meet somebody and you both really want it, and neither of you is attached, then go for it. Of course, it's probably a good idea to not have any illusions that it's anything more than a roll in the hay. In my case, it did develop into a "relationship," but it could just as easily not have. And honestly, either way would've been fine with me. Actually, I think a "friends with benefits" arrangement is better for me than a "relationship" anyway.

Im surprised @ your standpoint, considering you're a buddhist :shrug:

[michelle2677]

I wait longer than a month or longer (usually longer). None of the guys can seem to hack it, and leave :rolleyes:

tease :p

tease :p

[markolas]

Im surprised @ your standpoint, considering you're a buddhist :shrug:

Why? I'm not a monk...

[foxyluva]

tease :p

tease :p

I've heard worse :laugh:

I see it like this - if you are only with me because you want to have sex, then move on. The wait is more of a test to see what they really want out of the relationship...

[estranged4life]

I'm somewhat old fashioned, I wait a week or so, if not longer (I once dated someone for 2 years before we did the deed).

[foxyluva]

Why? I'm not a monk...

:laugh:

I was under the inpression that sex in most forms of buddhism is supposed to be between two people who 'love' or deeply care for each other - how can you love or deeply care for someone two dates in? :shrug:

[markolas]

:laugh:

I was under the inpression that sex in most forms of buddhism is supposed to be between two people who 'love' or deeply care for each other - how can you love or deeply care for someone two dates in? :shrug:

I think that's interpretation rather than actual Buddhist teaching. Which is fine. But I think, and Nichiren Shonin especially taught, that rather than trying to rigidly follow a code of moral conduct, a better approach is to allow the spirit of the precepts to be embodied naturally through the deepening of one's faith.

Anyway. I don't think I've ever posted this much Buddhist stuff on here. I'm sure everyone is enthralled. :laugh:

[foxyluva]

I think that's interpretation rather than actual Buddhist teaching. Which is fine. But I think, and Nichiren Shonin especially taught, that rather than trying to rigidly follow a code of moral conduct, a better approach is to allow the spirit of the precepts to be embodied naturally through the deepening of one's faith.

Anyway. I don't think I've ever posted this much Buddhist stuff on here. I'm sure everyone is enthralled. :laugh:

Well I'm enthralled :laugh:

I see what you are saying, and I agree. I guess its just my view :woohoo:

[markolas]

Well I'm enthralled :laugh:

I see what you are saying, and I agree. I guess its just my view :woohoo:

It's whatever you're most comfortable with. I was actually just starting to really explore this more casual attitude toward sexuality when I got into this relationship. You have to be careful, though, and make sure both people are on the same page; otherwise, things can get nasty. Moreso with women, I think.

[DrummerDeanna]

It really depends, but if its someone I see a real relationship potential then I wait...I'm not one to rush sex at. all.

If it someone I'm attracted to but know it's not really going to go anywhere, I have some fun...

It's all moot thought seeing as I haven't met anyone I'm even remotely attracted to in a looong time.

[estranged4life]

It really depends, but if its someone I see a real relationship potential then I wait...I'm not one to rush sex at. all.

I waited 2 years, I seen serious potential in that girl when we first met, we were together for 3 years (It ended the Spring before I met Debbie).

[DrummerDeanna]

I waited 2 years, I seen serious potential in that girl when we first met, we were together for 3 years (It ended the Spring before I met Debbie).

Awww...I love it when guys are willing to wait...2 years is long...personal choice, or a mix of your choice and hers? And the real question is did you wait with the woman you're now married to ;)

[goldustsongbird]

Sorry, but I keep reading this as How long before you pull out?

[Wild_Heart03]

Sorry, but I keep reading this as How long before you pull out?

you would. :lol:

as for myself I generally wait until the 2nd date, sometimes longer.

[estranged4life]

Awww...I love it when guys are willing to wait...2 years is long...personal choice, or a mix of your choice and hers? And the real question is did you wait with the woman you're now married to ;)

to wait. I have to different than other guys, just a quirk in my personality (Kinda obvious aint it?). I thought Christy was the person I would spend my life with, but we know the outcome with her don't we?

I know this may be TMI, but I made it up to Christy with a 10+ hour hump fest (I had to get up and leave for Tech School - Not a good thing to have ended ones carnal fun :nod: )

As for Deb, uh, well....She helped get me ****faced and I was all hers for the effort & takin', romantic aint it? :rolleyes:

[goldustsongbird]

as for myself I generally wait until the 2nd date, sometimes longer.

My hero. :angel:

[Wild_Heart03]

My hero. :angel:

well Chris and I fooled around a little 2 hours after we met so... :wavey:

[goldustsongbird]

well Chris and I fooled around a little 2 hours after we met so... :wavey:

This is going to turn into such a TMI thread. Thank you for getting the ball rolling :thumbsup:

[carrie721]

This is going to turn into such a TMI thread. Thank you for getting the ball rolling :thumbsup:

um, balls.

(i think)

:lol:

[Wild_Heart03]

This is going to turn into such a TMI thread. Thank you for getting the ball rolling :thumbsup:

Quite welcome, my friend! :lol:

um, balls.

(i think)

:lol:

*giggles* :p

[goldustsongbird]

um, balls.

(i think)

:lol:

Heheh. That reminds me of something stupid that happened today...

[JazmenFlowers]

Sorry, but I keep reading this as How long before you pull out?
lol.

I got two babies by just letting him put the head in. :shrug:

[carrie721]

lol.

I got two babies by just letting him put the head in. :shrug:

oh no you diint.

[Wild_Heart03]

lol.

I got two babies by just letting him put the head in. :shrug:

:eek: :lol:

oh no you diint.

*snaps in a Z for no reason*

[carrie721]

*snaps in a Z for no reason*

honey, there is always good reason for the Z snap.

[JazmenFlowers]

^^^
and I'm still waiting on the child support. lol.


honey, there is always good reason for the Z snap.
either of you read How I Learned To Snap?

of course not. but of course I have. 'tis good and funny as hell.

[estranged4life]

Sorry, but I keep reading this as How long before you pull out?

oops :eek: :rolleyes:











:thumbsup:

[Wild_Heart03]

honey, there is always good reason for the Z snap.

good point!

*does again with sass*

[JazmenFlowers]

I think I'll Z-snap myself.

let's all Z-snap! I think you've started something here Nick! :lol:

[Wild_Heart03]

I think I'll Z-snap myself.

let's all Z-snap! I think you've started something here Nick! :lol:

I started a trend! Yippee! :lol:

[mikeschmike]

I think my average is two. Some have been much longer. Most have been shorter ;)

[carrie721]

I think my average is two. Some have been much longer. Most have been shorter ;)

i'm putting out right now! :angel:

[Wild_Heart03]

i'm putting out right now! :angel:

where did that trapeze appear from? :laugh:

[mikeschmike]

i'm putting out right now! :angel:

I am jealous of your mutitasking. Especially because typing involves so many finger movements.

[JazmenFlowers]

I think my average is two. Some have been much longer. Most have been shorter ;)
longer? shorter?

hmmm...
I am jealous of your mutitasking. Especially because typing involves so many finger movements.
there's always toes. :shrug:

:lol:

[carrie721]

where did that trapeze appear from? :laugh:

:lol: :lol:

I am jealous of your mutitasking. Especially because typing involves so many finger movements.

i'm a lesbian, i've had a lot of practice.

alternate response: it's child's play. (pedophile joke, whoops!)

[goldustsongbird]

there's always toes. :shrug:

:lol:

:eek: :eek: :eek:

[Wild_Heart03]

there's always toes. :shrug:

:lol:

:shocked: there's a foreplay I won't soon be requesting. :lol:

[carrie721]

:shocked: there's a foreplay I won't soon be requesting. :lol:

write it down, folks, nick is not a shrimper!!

*the crowd rejoices*

[JazmenFlowers]

:shocked: there's a foreplay I won't soon be requesting. :lol:
well...remember that little debt you and I discussed.

:lol:

[mikeschmike]

longer? shorter?

hmmm...




Don't even get me started, whitebread. :xoxo::lol:

[carrie721]

well...remember that little debt you and I discussed.

:lol:

ok, write that down too, folks! jazzy IS a shrimper!

[JazmenFlowers]

Don't even get me started, whitebread. :xoxo::lol:
:lol:
ok, write that down too, folks! jazzy IS a shrimper!
:lol:

I will have to write Mikey's name on my left side and Carrie's on my right. cause you both own them. I am laughing too hard.

[carrie721]

:lol:

:lol:

I will have to write Mikey's name on my left side and Carrie's on my right. cause you both own them. I am laughing too hard.

i can't help but notice a lack of denial of the shrimping claim ... :xoxo:

[Wild_Heart03]

well...remember that little debt you and I discussed.

:lol:

boy, don't make me show Chris this!

of course he may just want to join in.... :eek: :lol:

i can't help but notice a lack of denial of the shrimping claim ... :xoxo:

lol! well I for one don't do that, thanks.

[JazmenFlowers]

i can't help but notice a lack of denial of the shrimping claim ... :xoxo:
oh...well let me be official. I don't care for it. doesn't bother me, but doesn't do anything for me.
boy, don't make me show Chris this!

of course he may just want to join in.... :eek: :lol:



lol! well I for one don't do that, thanks.
:lol:

[carrie721]

lol! well I for one don't do that, thanks.

ring ring? hello? oh, hi, it's 5 minutes ago - they want you to know that we already covered that. :p

oh...well let me be official. I don't care for it. doesn't bother me, but doesn't do anything for me.

:lol:

even if i were into it, the term "shrimping" is a total turnoff. hilarious, but a buzzkill. :lol:

[Wild_Heart03]

ring ring? hello? oh, hi, it's 5 minutes ago - they want you to know that we already covered that. :p

*points to 80s-laden last.fm* I like to live in the past, you know. ;) :laugh:

[JazmenFlowers]

even if i were into it, the term "shrimping" is a total turnoff. hilarious, but a buzzkill. :lol:
I know, right?

"hey. you wanna shrimp?"

I mean, how do you ask that? lol.

[foxyluva]

OMG - is shrimping a term for toe-action? :laugh:

[carrie721]

*points to 80s-laden last.fm* I like to live in the past, you know. ;) :laugh:

zing! nice one. :xoxo:

I know, right?

"hey. you wanna shrimp?"

I mean, how do you ask that? lol.

LOL. i dunno, i guess it's the same with felching, snowballing, etc ... "wanna felch?"

"uhhh ..."

:laugh:

[Wild_Heart03]

LOL. i dunno, i guess it's the same with felching, snowballing, etc ... "wanna felch?"

"uhhh ..."

:laugh:

lmao! :laugh: I would be quite scared if someone was so brazen as to come up to me in a bar and ask that. I'd just be like "uh... *backs away slowly*"

[carrie721]

OMG - is shrimping a term for toe-action? :laugh:

you got it, babe!

lmao! :laugh: I would be quite scared if someone was so brazen as to come up to me in a bar and ask that. I'd just be like "uh... *backs away slowly*"

:laugh: seriously. god, that's funny. :lol:

[foxyluva]

you got it, babe!


Ew - that has to be so awkward :laugh:

[mikeschmike]

Ew - that has to be so awkward :laugh:

Not if you take your socks off. :shrug:

[JazmenFlowers]

Not if you take your socks off. :shrug:
I can handle the socks.

my best friend and I say this all the time. we've coined it to mean "I can handle _______ "

whoever can tell me what movie that is from wins a prize from the Jazzvault.

[foxyluva]

Not if you take your socks off. :shrug:

:laugh: What about socks with the indivicual toes? They have an interesting texture :shrug:

[mikeschmike]

:laugh: What about socks with the indivicual toes? They have an interesting texture :shrug:

That's the spirit! :D

[Wild_Heart03]

:laugh: What about socks with the indivicual toes? They have an interesting texture :shrug:

excuse me while I clean the water I just spit everywhere. :lol: :lol:

[foxyluva]

That's the spirit! :D

...When in Rome :laugh:

[markolas]

Wow, you guys are so down on the foot sex. :distress: What about tossing salad? Nipple play? If I can't toss your salad and get my nipples sucked, you might as well just not touch me. :laugh:

[BlackWidow]

lol.

I got two babies by just letting him put the head in. :shrug:

LMFAO!!!!:xoxo:

[BlackWidow]

ring ring? hello? oh, hi, it's 5 minutes ago - they want you to know that we already covered that. :p



even if i were into it, the term "shrimping" is a total turnoff. hilarious, but a buzzkill. :lol:

ok..WTF is SHRIMPING???
This is turning into the new PERV THREAD...:p

[markolas]

ok..WTF is SHRIMPING???
This is turning into the new PERV THREAD...:p

Apparently, it's foot/toe sex. I had no idea what it meant either, until sparky called me a "shrimper" in another thread. :lol:

[BlackWidow]

Wow, you guys are so down on the foot sex. :distress: What about tossing salad? Nipple play? If I can't toss your salad and get my nipples sucked, you might as well just not touch me. :laugh:

OH:eek: MA:eek: GA!

[strandinthewind]

you southern c*ck teaser!:nod:

What you obtain too easily, you esteem too lightly :cool:

[strandinthewind]

Why? I'm not a monk...

Well, you certainly dress like one :wavey: :wavey:

(just joking :cool: )

[ryan8472]

Lately it's been like, the second time I've hung out with someone. :shrug: :laugh: :nod:

[BlackWidow]

Lately it's been like, the second time I've hung out with someone. :shrug: :laugh: :nod:

we need to hang out sometime...:laugh:

[markolas]

OH:eek: MA:eek: GA!

What? That's actually pretty vanilla compared to some people I know.

[BlackWidow]

What? That's actually pretty vanilla compared to some people I know.

:D :D :D :D

[markolas]

:D :D :D :D

I had a certain former roommate in mind when I said that. You name it, he's done it. Except for having sex with a woman. He'll let you fist him with a toilet snake, but he won't go near a cooter.

[carrie721]

He'll let you fist him with a toilet snake, but he won't go near a cooter.

snort. :lol: :lol: :lol:

[Wild_Heart03]

I had a certain former roommate in mind when I said that. You name it, he's done it. Except for having sex with a woman. He'll let you fist him with a toilet snake, but he won't go near a cooter.

there's a grand image to greet the morning with. :lol: :laugh:

[BlackWidow]

I had a certain former roommate in mind when I said that. You name it, he's done it. Except for having sex with a woman. He'll let you fist him with a toilet snake, but he won't go near a cooter.

:laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:

[amber]

lol.

I got two babies by just letting him put the head in. :shrug:

:laugh: :laugh: :laugh: Omigod, I just saw this. BTW, it's not as far fetched as it sounds...:laugh:

He'll let you fist him with a toilet snake, but he won't go near a cooter.

:lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:

rolling....dying....

And my theory about this whole thing is...how can you tell you like them if you don't sleep with them? Also I've never had the problem of the person only wanting to sleep with me once. Usually, in fact, it nets me a boyfriend, good or bad...

[Johnny Stew]

My very first sexual experience was a one-night stand (which is probably a standard gay "rite of passage"). It was physically pleasurable, but emotionally empty, and I decided then and there that I wasn't going to do that again (and never did). I figured if I just needed to get my rocks off, I have my hand.

After that, "third date" became standard. Like Michael said, it helps you eliminate the guys who are just looking to score, from the guys who actually want something more meaningful. Not that the guys who wanted something more meaningful had an automatic "in" -- anyone who was TOO eager for a relationship (talking about "growing old together" after only one date?!? Check, please!) struck out too.

With Joshua and I, we actually knew each other for two years before we fell for each other (it was only long-distance at the time, of course), and it was a little while after that, before the relationship became physical. Hooray for "Frequent Flyer Miles"! ;)

[estranged4life]

With Joshua and I, we actually knew each other for two years before we fell for each other (it was only long-distance at the time, of course), and it was a little while after that, before the relationship became physical. Hooray for "Frequent Flyer Miles"! ;)

I know what y'all gonna be doing soon :rolleyes:















Watching Tom Petty (w/Stevie Nicks) "Live in Gatorville" DVD of course :thumbsup:

[AliceLover]

Id wait for the 3rd or 4th date. Just because I think it would be really awkward after if it was like the 1st encounter.

[estranged4life]

Well, I only had 1 "one night stand" in my life...

Found out that girl was the sister of another girl I was also 'doing' at the time. Small world aint it? (To me the 'small world' cliche happens WAY TOO MUCH!!!)

Never, I mean, NEVER sleep with sisters - Ya end up comparing too much :rolleyes:

[ontheEdgeof17]

I don't put out at all....not even to my bf. Every once in awhile, I give in....:laugh:

[Johnny Stew]

I know what y'all gonna be doing soon :rolleyes:

Watching Tom Petty (w/Stevie Nicks) "Live in Gatorville" DVD of course :thumbsup::laugh:
How'd ya guess? ;)

[sparky]

I guess if I had to average it out, it would be 2 dates. Since a few BFs were essentially sex dates that never ended, those would be first nighters. I'm thinking about trying a different approach sometime here, but hard to say. Too horny for my own good, generally.

[strandinthewind]

^^^

You require knee pads to go to the grocery store :angel:

[sparky]

^^^

You require knee pads to go to the grocery store :angel:

Ha. I rarely pick up anyone in public. And knee pads are for wimps.

[strandinthewind]

Ha. I rarely pick up anyone in public. And knee pads are for wimps.

Of course, if we got together, it would require you wearing sheet rock stilts :D

[CelticGypsy]

I'm married and my hubby and I waited and waited and waited:xoxo: It was worth the wait. 28 years already so far:xoxo: He's a gentleman but it was sometimes difficult to wait but glad I did:lol:

More like 10 months until our wedding. I didn't make him wait 28 years:lol: That's how long we have been married:lol:

[JazmenFlowers]

Of course, if we got together, it would require you wearing sheet rock stilts :D
:eek:

this.is.serious.

:laugh:

[jannieC]

I've been with my husband for 12 years so I'm trying to think back to when I was a loose woman. Let's see, with him, I knew him for a couple of months but definitely put out on our first "date". Our first "date" included the two of us and a bottle of tequila. I have had a one night stand once and I hated it. Any other sex I had always turned into either a boyfriend or a good friend.

Toe sex? WTF? And there's a NAME for it? :lol: I don't get it- what's so great about a toe?

[BlackWidow]

Ha. I rarely pick up anyone in public. And knee pads are for wimps.

^^^^
TRUE DAT! :nod:

[estranged4life]

since y'all brought up 'toe sex' has anyone encountered the dredded 'camel toe'?

[michelle2677]

^^I have seen it out in the wild, but I've never had one :shrug:


that I know of :laugh:

now I'm all of a sudden singing camel toe from bob and tom :laugh:

[strandinthewind]

since y'all brought up 'toe sex' has anyone encountered the dredded 'camel toe'?

Ah - my fav.

http://www.cameltoe.org/

CAUTION - BE OVER 18 AND PREPARED FOR A WILDLY FUNNY SITE!!!!

[michelle2677]

Ah - my fav.

http://www.cameltoe.org/

CAUTION - BE OVER 18 AND PREPARED FOR A WILDLY FUNNY SITE!!!!

:eek: I should have never looked at "men's toes" :shocked:

[Musicman408]

Never had a girlfriend, never done the deed.:distress:

[michelle2677]

Never had a girlfriend, never done the deed.:distress:

have you had a boyfriend??

[xdreamsunwindx]

Sorry, but I keep reading this as How long before you pull out?

Same here. Condoms only do so much :shrug:

I'm a firm (lol firm) believer in going with your gut instinct. So, in the words of Sloan, "if it feels good, do it."

[BlackWidow]

have you had a boyfriend??

I can't believe someone finally had the balls to ask the $64,000.00 question!!!!:nod: :nod: :nod:

[michelle2677]

I can't believe someone finally had the balls to ask the $64,000.00 question!!!!:nod: :nod: :nod:

:D :D

I think we've all been waiting for the right opportunity :nod:

[BlackWidow]

:D :D

I think we've all been waiting for the right opportunity :nod:

...could it be any more obvious???? JESH!

[amber]

:D :D

I think we've all been waiting for the right opportunity :nod:

I thought "we" already knew, but were being polite. :shrug: :D

[BlackWidow]

I thought "we" already knew. :shrug: :D

me loves you...:xoxo:

[michelle2677]

I thought "we" already knew. :shrug: :D

but is it official or certified?? :shrug:

[BlackWidow]

but is it official or certified?? :shrug:

..it is now.:lol:

[michelle2677]

..it is now.:lol:

:lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:

[BlackWidow]

:lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:

:wavey: :wavey:

[Johnny Stew]

Personal pet-peeve of mine... I hate, hate, HATE when people "assume" to know a teenager's sexual orientation.
I hated it years ago on the old Ledge, when they did it to Jason (our Jazzy) and to Josh (Josh2003), and, on the current Ledge, to Ryan, Justin, Jimmy and so many others.

Sure, those guys all ultimately came out, but people should be allowed to come to it in their own time -- without speculation and innuendo.

[amber]

^^^^

Yeah, you guys knew he was going to say that, right? He always says that. That's the reason I figured no one had said anything. In order to avoid him saying that again. Well, that is part of why I never said anything. Also, I didn't really care.

[Johnny Stew]

Yeah, you guys knew he was going to say that, right? He always says that. That's the reason I figured no one had said anything. In order to avoid him saying that again.Nah, I don't think anyone refrains from saying certain things, to avoid hearing me repeat myself.
If they did, my moderator job would be SOOOOO much easier. :laugh:

[amber]

Nah, I don't think anyone refrains from saying certain things, to avoid hearing me repeat myself.
If they did, my moderator job would be SOOOOO much easier. :laugh:

Well, looks like Michelle ruined it for all of us on this one....:laugh: :wavey:








R.P.S. - Restless Penis Syndrome.

[michelle2677]

Well, looks like Michelle ruined it for all of us on this one....:laugh: :wavey:


R.P.S. - Restless Penis Syndrome.


:o :o :sorry: :lol:


LOL he said he had never had a girlfriend!!! I asked an honest question!!!

no one came to my rescue when black widow asked if I needed a black dildo to curve my horninesss cravings :shrug: :lol:

[amber]

:o :o :sorry: :lol:


LOL he said he had never had a girlfriend!!! I asked an honest question!!!

no one came to my rescue when black widow asked if I needed a black dildo to curve my horninesss cravings :shrug: :lol:

Why would we? Johnny Stew wouldn't say anything about that. :laugh:

It's true, though, you did just only ask if he had a boyfriend.

[Johnny Stew]

no one came to my rescue when black widow asked if I needed a black dildo to curve my horninesss cravings :shrug: :lol:But doesn't everyone own a dildo?
Well, ok, maybe not if they keep cucumbers handy. :thumbsup:

[amber]

But doesn't everyone own a dildo?
Well, ok, maybe not if they keep cucumbers handy. :thumbsup:

You've just put me off salads. Thanks.

[michelle2677]

But doesn't everyone own a dildo?
Well, ok, maybe not if they keep cucumbers handy. :thumbsup:

I actually don't :eek:


never needed one :laugh:

[Johnny Stew]

You've just put me off salads. Thanks.Good thing I didn't say anything about pepperoni sticks. ;)

[Johnny Stew]

I actually don't :eek:

never needed one :laugh:Well, they're nothing like the real thing, that's for sure! :laugh: :o

[Musicman408]

Nope, never had a boyfriend. Not gay here, sorry.

[strandinthewind]

I don't put out at all....not even to my bf. Every once in awhile, I give in....:laugh:

VEGAS 05 :wavey:

[strandinthewind]

Personal pet-peeve of mine... I hate, hate, HATE when people "assume" to know a teenager's sexual orientation.
I hated it years ago on the old Ledge, when they did it to Jason (our Jazzy) and to Josh (Josh2003), and, on the current Ledge, to Ryan, Justin, Jimmy and so many others.

Sure, those guys all ultimately came out, but people should be allowed to come to it in their own time -- without speculation and innuendo.

While your point is taken - sometimes smelling the shiiitte is the same as seeing it :shrug:

[michelle2677]

Well, they're nothing like the real thing, that's for sure! :laugh: :o

LOL ditto :laugh:

of course I wouldn't know...I've never used one :shrug:


oookay..where was that TMI thread?? :laugh:

[BlackWidow]

But doesn't everyone own a dildo?
Well, ok, maybe not if they keep cucumbers handy. :thumbsup:

:eek: :eek: :eek: :eek:

[BlackWidow]

Good thing I didn't say anything about pepperoni sticks. ;)

:eek: :eek: :eek: :eek:

You are on FIRE!!!:laugh:

[The Tower]

I hated it years ago on the old Ledge, when they did it to Jason (our Jazzy) and to Josh (Josh2003), and, on the current Ledge, to Ryan, Justin, Jimmy and so many others.

Sure, those guys all ultimately came out.......
:lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:

Yeah, I liked how Brandon was trying the whole "Bi - I've - Got - A - Girlfriend" thing for those three or four months there, too.

Me- I'm a big, ole macho, straight, hetersexual, pussy-eating chiffonhead.

OY! :rolleyes: :rolleyes: :laugh: :laugh:

[BlackWidow]

While your point is taken - sometimes smelling the shiiitte is the same as seeing it :shrug:

...And there changed my life ~ :xoxo:

[Johnny Stew]

Me- I'm a big, ole macho, straight, hetersexual, pussy-eating chiffonhead. :laugh:Me too, brah.

I can't wait for shore-leave so I can get me some f***in' poontang.

[JazmenFlowers]

Good thing I didn't say anything about pepperoni sticks. ;)
don't forget kielbasa! :laugh:

[mikeschmike]

don't forget kielbasa! :laugh:

Your sig is killing me. :laugh: :laugh:

[foxyluva]

Nope, never had a boyfriend. Not gay here, sorry.

Gosh - Im so disapointed

[BlackWidow]

Gosh - Im so disapointed

:distress: :distress: :distress: :laugh:

[BlackWidow]

don't forget kielbasa! :laugh:

:eek: :eek: :eek: :eek:

[gretchen]

It's whatever you're most comfortable with.

I agree!!!!! My fiancee and I knew we were in love before we even told each other. We worked together and things just started with laughing at company functions, talking at staff meetings... I just knew I loved him, he was wonderful on the eyes and so kind...and I felt in my soul he loved me....after about a month of flirting, I couldn't take it anymore, (keeping it to myself that I loved him) I had to tell him. When I did he said he loved me too. Christ, I felt an adrenaline rush and I had a rash on my chest.:laugh: It was like a frickin Supernova the first time we kissed, and after a glass of wine, we made love, not just sex. :xoxo: Eight wonderful years and a beautiful life later, here we are engaged.

Okay though, in college I did have a few one-night stands, but I have always been a very deeply sensitive person who didn't f*kc around casually. Always loved very deeply and intensely. I'm just not a casual person I guess when it comes to sex. But I love hittng it with my Sweetie, I think I'm a perv, wait, I am a perv....oh ya!:D :D

[BlackWidow]

I agree!!!!! My fiancee and I knew we were in love before we even told each other. We worked together and things just started with laughing at company functions, talking at staff meetings... I just knew I loved him, he was wonderful on the eyes and so kind...and I felt in my soul he loved me....after about a month of flirting, I couldn't take it anymore, (keeping it to myself that I loved him) I had to tell him. When I did he said he loved me too. Christ, I felt an adrenaline rush and I had a rash on my chest.:laugh: It was like a frickin Supernova the first time we kissed, and after a glass of wine, we made love, not just sex. :xoxo: Eight wonderful years and a beautiful life later, here we are engaged.

Okay though, in college I did have a few one-night stands, but I have always been a very deeply sensitive person who didn't f*kc around casually. Always loved very deeply and intensely. I'm just not a casual person I guess when it comes to sex. But I love hittng it with my Sweetie, I think I'm a perv, wait, I am a perv....oh ya!:D :D

:lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:

[strandinthewind]

:lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:

Yeah, I liked how Brandon was trying the whole "Bi - I've - Got - A - Girlfriend" thing for those three or four months there, too . . . .

Bless his Coulter lovin heart :D

Also - your new name is Towie the labia licker!

Of course, Towie the vulva vacuum is a close second :wavey:

[BlackWidow]

Bless his Coulter lovin heart :D

Also - your new name is Towie the labia licker!

Of course, Towie the vulva vacuum is a close second :wavey:

:eek: :eek: :eek: :D

[michelle2677]

:lol: :lol: :lol: :lol::distress: :distress: :distress:

:eek: :eek: :eek:

are we going to have to take the smilies away from you??? seriously.

[BlackWidow]

are we going to have to take the smilies away from you??? seriously.

:laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:

[Sarah]

Although there are several exceptions, I put my vote on first date. I really only date people I want to bang, anyway, so why should I wait? It's not like I have morals.

In my current relationship, it was like a Day 2 thing.

[The Tower]

Also - your new name is Towie the labia licker!

Of course, Towie the vulva vacuum is a close second :wavey:
Nazzzzty. <insert pukey icon here>

Never in my life would I ever even come close to doing anything even remotely close to that, Ms. Pattie.

are we going to have to take the smilies away from you??? seriously.
Please do!

[michelle2677]

Please do!


If I had the powers, it would be done already!!!

[ragandbone]

I like to wait until a thread is at least 5 pages long, before I offer anything.



But I never had much willpower if I wanted to sleep with someone; if I made someone wait, I was probably trying to invent some chemistry that wasn't there to begin with.
I have been in a relationship for so many years now—I haven't thought about the question in a long time.

[BlackWidow]

If I had the powers, it would be done already!!!

:eek: :eek: :eek: :laugh:

[michelle2677]

:eek: :eek: :eek: :laugh:

my ****ing point exactly.

[BlackWidow]

my ****ing point exactly.

:thumbsup: :thumbsup: :thumbsup: :shrug:

[mikeschmike]

:thumbsup: :thumbsup: :thumbsup: :shrug:

Seriously...it ain't funny anymore.

[Sarah]

wakka wakka.

[BlackWidow]

Seriously...it ain't funny anymore.

Don't you have a guidance counselor meeting to go to? :cool: :laugh:

[michelle2677]

Don't you have a guidance counselor meeting to go to? :cool: :laugh:

i'm his guidance counselor :wavey: :D


so what was that you were saying?? :laugh:

[BlackWidow]

i'm his guidance counselor :wavey: :D


so what was that you were saying?? :laugh:

touche baby..

[michelle2677]

touche baby..

:p :p :p :p :p

[BlackWidow]

:p :p :p :p :p

tee hee ;)

[mikeschmike]

touche baby..

You should have a better answer then that. This counseling isn't cheap ya know!

[BlackWidow]

You should have a better answer then that. This counseling isn't cheap ya know!

Don't hate the player..hate the game.

I hope you know I was teasing.....:rolleyes:

[mikeschmike]

Don't hate the player..hate the game.

I hope you know I was teasing.....:rolleyes:

Of course! It takes a lot to get me riled up anyway.

[BlackWidow]

Of course! It takes a lot to get me riled up anyway.

;) ;) ;) ;)

[carrie721]

I like to wait until a thread is at least 5 pages long, before I offer anything.

are you saying you're inventing fake chemistry with this thread before you finally give in and sleep with it? er, post in it? ;)

[BlackWidow]

Although there are several exceptions, I put my vote on first date. I really only date people I want to bang, anyway, so why should I wait? It's not like I have morals.

In my current relationship, it was like a Day 2 thing.

We have a new Ho on The Ledge....:blob1: :blob2:

[amber]

are you saying you're inventing fake chemistry with this thread before you finally give in and sleep with it? er, post in it? ;)

:lol: :lol: :lol:

P.S. I hate this thread.

P.P.S. I concur with Ragandbone. And Sarah.

[BlackWidow]

:lol: :lol: :lol:

P.S. I hate this thread.

P.P.S. I concur with Ragandbone. And Sarah.

you love my threads...:nod: ;) :D

[amber]

you love my threads...:nod: ;) :D

No, I don't. I keep wondering why they are resurfacing. Then I see that you did it. But not within reason. :D

[BlackWidow]

No, I don't. I keep wondering why they are resurfacing. Then I see that you did it. But not within reason. :D

Honey..this one is brand spankin' new....
Mine are the ones you are all posting on...:nod:

[amber]

Honey..this one is brand spankin' new....
Mine are the ones you are all posting on...:nod:

No they're not. :confused: No it isn't. :confused:

[BlackWidow]

No they're not. :confused: No it isn't. :confused:

:lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:

[Sarah]

We have a new Ho on The Ledge....:blob1: :blob2:

I'm no ho. I just know what I want and then I go for it!

[BlackWidow]

I'm no ho. I just know what I want and then I go for it!

:xoxo: :xoxo: :xoxo: :xoxo:
I find you refreshing around here...:nod:

[ryan8472]

And BlackWidow continues the tradition of older gay dudes trolling after Ryan. Awesome!1!
It is a long standing tradition. :laugh: :xoxo:

[Sarah]

:xoxo: :xoxo: :xoxo: :xoxo:
I find you refreshing around here...:nod:

Honey, I am totally fresh all the time.

:laugh:

[BlackWidow]

Oh yeah. Good times growing up and coming out on The Ledge.

Me posting about my teenage love for songs like "Sara" and "Edge." Ryan kissing a duck and twirling to "Stand Back." Gweggah wearing lipgloss. Shout outs to Hillary and Jimmy, too. Am I forgetting anyone?

Brandon was a conservative Christine-lovin' sugar daddy with a penchant for mixing musicals, Anne Miller, high fashion, Judy Garland and Liza Minelli with his Catholicism. Now he's probably out enjoying his gayness more than any of us. And bugging some of those liberal gay dudes. :wavey:

And BlackWidow continues the tradition of older gay dudes trolling after Ryan. Awesome!1!

honey..he would be lucky to score my older 32 yr old ass...:cool:

[AliceLover]

Oh yeah. Good times growing up and coming out on The Ledge.

Me posting about my teenage love for songs like "Sara" and "Edge." Ryan kissing a duck and twirling to "Stand Back." Gweggah wearing lipgloss. Shout outs to Hillary and Jimmy, too. Am I forgetting anyone?

Brandon was a conservative Christine-lovin' sugar daddy with a penchant for mixing musicals, Anne Miller, high fashion, Judy Garland and Liza Minelli with his Catholicism. Now he's probably out enjoying his gayness more than any of us. And bugging some of those liberal gay dudes. :wavey:

And BlackWidow continues the tradition of older gay dudes trolling after Ryan. Awesome!1!


:wavey:

You're awesome!!!

[michelle2677]

honey..he would be lucky to score my older 32 yr old ass...:cool:

:eek: :eek: :eek: :eek:

You're 32?!!!! are you ****ting me? :shocked:

I am..SHOCKED........

[JazmenFlowers]

:eek: :eek: :eek: :eek:

You're 32?!!!! are you ****ting me? :shocked:

I am..SHOCKED........
I'm not sure why, but I'm shocked too. I don't know how old I though his ass was, but that number didn't pop in my head.

[The Tower]

:eek: :eek: :eek: :eek:

You're 32?!!!! are you ****ting me? :shocked:

I am..SHOCKED........
:laugh: :laugh: :laugh:

Yeah, I thought he was in Jason's age-orbit, too....

[JazmenFlowers]

:laugh: :laugh: :laugh:

Yeah, I thought he was in Jason's age-orbit, too....
hey hey!

oh, wait. you mean Jason #2. :lol:

[goldustsongbird]

hey hey!

oh, wait. you mean Jason #2. :lol:

This is like AD, with the two Lucilles... :lol:

[The Tower]

hey hey!

oh, wait. you mean Jason #2. :lol:
Yeah, Honey- if I wuz talkin' trash about y'all, I woulda said, "Yeah, I thought he was in Jizzy's age-orbit, too"

(with the soft Titty Pink color and everything....)

:xoxo:

[JazmenFlowers]

^^^
:laugh:

I feel special. I get color and everything!

[strandinthewind]

^^^
:laugh:

I feel special. I get color and everything!

He referred to your interior - whore :wavey:

[ragandbone]

I'm no ho. I just know what I want and then I go for it!
Yeah, why wait? Dessert first!
Unless the flirting is so intense and fun, that you know the sex will be better after the buildup. That's a gamble, though.

[amber]

That's a gamble, though.

:laugh: :laugh: :laugh:

Yup, you gotta be careful with the expectation buildup. :laugh:

I actually find flirting exhausting and it makes me tense. Like, I just want to skip all that.
But people think I'm flirting when I'm just talking sometimes, so, uh...I forgot my point. Sometimes that leads to uncomfortable situations, like I have to explain that I wasn't flirting.

[michelle2677]

I'm not sure why, but I'm shocked too. I don't know how old I though his ass was, but that number didn't pop in my head.


I was thinking...22 or something....I mean, i guess I should have known from the basket-weaving picture..but still...:shocked: :shocked:

[BTFLCHLD]

I was thinking 12. :eek:


teaz widow :xoxo:

[amber]

I thought he was a Vampire, therefore ageless. Is anyone else 32? I didn't think so. Oh, Sharon.

[BlackWidow]

You ageist bastards...lolololol!!!
I f'ing ROCK at 32! I get everything from 18-50 trying to get with this.
I love you guysssssssssss.....

[BTFLCHLD]

I get everything from 18-50 trying to get with this... jailbait! :shocked:

[BlackWidow]

jailbait! :shocked:

Just sayin'....:laugh: :D

[LikeAWillow]

I never doubted your booty, your beauty, or your relatively young age. Guys older and younger than you have wanted to hop on the ryan8472 train since his Karate Kid days. That's just the way that it is here ~

:)

Justin, you're my hero :laugh:

[BlackWidow]

I never doubted your booty, your beauty, or your relatively young age. Guys older and younger than you have wanted to hop on the ryan8472 train since his Karate Kid days. That's just the way that it is here ~

:)

Ryan and I are buds...we play..it's fun. End of discussion.