What do you notice FIRST in a man?

[BlackWidow]

:D :D :D :D

Do tell......;)

[foxyluva]

I usually notice their feet first. Don't know why, but I find a man in a good pair of shoes extremely attractive :shrug: :laugh:

On your poll though, I chose smile - cause Im a sucker for a nice smile :o

[carrie721]

the lack of breasts and a vagina.

[BlackWidow]

I usually notice their feet first. Don't know why, but I find a man in a good pair of shoes extremely attractive :shrug: :laugh:

On your poll though, I chose smile - cause Im a sucker for a nice smile :o

Shoes...hmmmm
You are not on the poll..:shrug:

[BlackWidow]

the lack of breasts and a vagina.

:lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:

[foxyluva]

You are not on the poll..:shrug:

Huh? :confused:

[sparky]

cause Im a sucker for a nice smile :o

Someone is gonna say they're a sucker for a nice butt/bulge.


I didn't though.

[carrie721]

Someone is gonna say they're a sucker for a nice butt/bulge.


I didn't though.

it's a ****ing crime that this is an anonymous poll.

[xxxmx]

i notice if he is/isn't jack bauer (kiefer on 24).

if he is, all systems go! sadly, well...

i think i'm dormant right now. :shocked: couldn't care less about guys. you have to find one, get over all of those negative first impressions, figure out if he's a killer, accept things about him just for the sake of maybe bedding him, then things just go downhill from there... or maybe i'm just bitchy :rolleyes:

[strandinthewind]

i notice if he is/isn't jack bauer (kiefer on 24).

if he is, all systems go! sadly, well...

i think i'm dormant right now. :shocked: couldn't care less about guys. you have to find one, get over all of those negative first impressions, figure out if he's a killer, accept things about him just for the sake of maybe bedding him, then things just go downhill from there... or maybe i'm just bitchy :rolleyes:

Oh blow me :p

[sara1998]

i think i'm dormant right now. :shocked: couldn't care less about guys. you have to find one, get over all of those negative first impressions, figure out if he's a killer, accept things about him just for the sake of maybe bedding him, then things just go downhill from there... or maybe i'm just bitchy :rolleyes:

LMAO! Thanks for summing it all up for me!!

[markolas]

Well, it depends. Usually, it's his face. But if he's got nice hands (manly hands) or a nice ass, I might notice that first. I also have a bit of a foot fetish, so if he's barefoot, I'll notice that first...although it's kind of a letdown if the rest of him is hot, but he has ugly feet. My ex-roommate, btw, had the sexiest feet I think I've ever seen. Too bad I never fukced him.

[strandinthewind]

. . . My ex-roommate, btw, had the sexiest feet I think I've ever seen. Too bad I never fukced him.

Wasn't he the one who dikced you over :eek:

[markolas]

Wasn't he the one who dikced you over :eek:

No. Have I mentioned him on here? Him, I wouldn't piss on if he was on fire. Sexy feet (and nipples too, if I may say so) is the one with the cats from hell.

[BlackWidow]

it's a ****ing crime that this is an anonymous poll.

I figured people would be more honest! :laugh:

[strandinthewind]

No. Have I mentioned him on here? Him, I wouldn't piss on if he was on fire. Sexy feet (and nipples too, if I may say so) is the one with the cats from hell.

Ahhhhh - just checking :D

[markolas]

Ahhhhh - just checking :D

And you know what's maddening? There were a couple of times when I totally could've had him, but I didn't see that at the time. Why am I so dense about these things??

[SortaSavageLike]

The fact that he doesn't have boobs.

[strandinthewind]

And you know what's maddening? There were a couple of times when I totally could've had him, but I didn't see that at the time. Why am I so dense about these things??

I am the same way most times - such is life.

[sasja]

Eyes all the way.
The eyes have it, I don't even notice anything else until way later.

[xdreamsunwindx]

I'm an eyes/face/smile kinda girl. I can't judge the ass until I can grab it, and I'm not one to do that upon the first meeting :angel:

[JazmenFlowers]

I'm torn between eyes and smile, but chose smile.

[markolas]

I am the same way most times - such is life.

Well, I'm determined not to keep making the same mistake. I actually seemed to overcome that handicap last year with a friend of mine (who has since moved away :distress: ), and we wound up fukcing in a hot tub. :laugh: See the kind of thing I've been missing out on?

[carrie721]

I'm an eyes/face/smile kinda girl. I can't judge the ass until I can grab it, and I'm not one to do that upon the first meeting :angel:

:laugh: :laugh:

you're one fierce bitch, kate.

[ryan8472]

I always notice the face & eyes first. When a guy has really nice eyes, I'm done. He can have me. :laugh: :nod:

[SuzeQuze]

I am the same way most times - such is life.

You are??? So your ego is a cover! ;) :xoxo: You're all that and a bag of chips, hon.

[SuzeQuze]

Okay, when I really think about it the first thing I notice is his face. But really, I don't notice the parts until a few minutes or so have passed. I just take in the whole man at first, the Gestalt of him.

[ryan8472]

Okay, when I really think about it the first thing I notice is his face. But really, I don't notice the parts until a few minutes or so have passed. I just take in the whole man at first, the Gestalt of him.

I do the same too. To steal a quote from American Psycho, I like to dissect boys. Did you know I'm utterly insane? :laugh:

[strandinthewind]

You are??? So your ego is a cover! ;) :xoxo: You're all that and a bag of chips, hon.

I generally cannot tell when someone likes me that way, though I readily admit most should be stunned by my savoir faire, personage, and looks :thumbsup:

[skcin]

i notice if he is/isn't jack bauer (kiefer on 24).

if he is, all systems go! sadly, well...

i think i'm dormant right now. :shocked: couldn't care less about guys. you have to find one, get over all of those negative first impressions, figure out if he's a killer, accept things about him just for the sake of maybe bedding him, then things just go downhill from there... or maybe i'm just bitchy :rolleyes:

Hey whore! :angel: How ya been?


I went with smile, but eyes are a close second. But if someone's walking around without a shirt on & they have nice muscle definition, it might be arms or abs.

[SuzeQuze]

I generally cannot tell when someone likes me that way, though I readily admit most should be stunned by my savoir faire, personage, and looks :thumbsup:

Truly. Are gay men more subtle than straight men? Cuz it's usually abundantly clear when a straight man is interested in me.

[estranged4life]

Couldnt tell ya...

But I notice women notice my long hair and eyes first and foremost.

[gretchen]

Well, it depends. Usually, it's his face. But if he's got nice hands (manly hands) or a nice ass, I might notice that first. I also have a bit of a foot fetish, so if he's barefoot, I'll notice that first...although it's kind of a letdown if the rest of him is hot, but he has ugly feet. My ex-roommate, btw, had the sexiest feet I think I've ever seen. Too bad I never fukced him.

Manly feet, hiyieeeee!!!!:]

[strandinthewind]

Truly. Are gay men more subtle than straight men? Cuz it's usually abundantly clear when a straight man is interested in me.

I do not know. I have not really dated that many people and my really only long term one (10 years) asked five seconds after meeting me in the receiving line - my friend I happened to be with at a black tie deal - how much I cost for the evening. I guess that was kind of a clue :laugh: Also, after ten years and alimony - he found out :D

[HejiraNYC]

I do not know. I have not really dated that many people and my really only long term one (10 years) asked five seconds after meeting me in the receiving line - my friend I happened to be with at a black tie deal - how much I cost for the evening. I guess that was kind of a clue :laugh: Also, after ten years and alimony - he found out :D

So, please, do tell... how much is that strandinthewindow? :p :wavey:

[DrummerDeanna]

Gawd. I'm dormant too :laugh: I've not giving a damn about a guy in over two years now, and frankly it's starting to bug me. I miss crushes. I miss "feeling" period - I've not liked anyone in a looong time.

But meh I put face...though there's not really ONE thing I notice first, if there is I don't know what it is...so I guessed face.

[BlackWidow]

I do the same too. To steal a quote from American Psycho, I like to dissect boys. Did you know I'm utterly insane? :laugh:

I dissect too...:cool: :shrug:

[DavidMn]

I always notice a guys smile first. Always gets me

[BlackWidow]

I always notice a guys smile first. Always gets me

you mean his zipper smile...;)

[rbs3676]

For me, it's the eyes. Always.

rbs

[DavidMn]

you mean his zipper smile...;)Gawd, pervert!:lol:

[Karlie]

Face. I love guys who have cute faces.

But I read somewhere that the first thing women notice in men is their shoulders.

[goldustsongbird]

The fact that he doesn't have boobs.

Some do. :shrug:

[catinthedark]

Gawd. I'm dormant too :laugh: I've not giving a damn about a guy in over two years now, and frankly it's starting to bug me. I miss crushes. I miss "feeling" period - I've not liked anyone in a looong time.



geez. what is that like? i am the biggest flirt in the world - it's like an addiction. i have a very long distance boyfriend - across an ocean - with no firm, firm commitment (therefore, freedom!) - but i also have a huge, crazy, huge crush on someone middle distance away, who i've had said crush on now for almost 18 months!! sigh. i love him. and i met someone yesterday, and was like, hmmmm..... :o he was married :p but seriously, i am so attracted to so many men - most of them about 10-15 years older than me. the BF across the ocean is my age, and we may actually wind up married one day. but that doesn't mean i don't notice every other guy around. too much fun! :laugh:

so what do i notice first? so hard to define. i am quick to fall for a true gentleman, sophisticated looking (a little grey is always good), well groomed, with a smile that just transforms his whole face... and makes me swoon.

[michelle2677]

i'm putting face I guess

it breaks down to: nose, smile then eyes I think


I'm a nose girl. Weird, i know.

[GardenStateGirlie]

to me, the eyes have it -- followed by the smile.

[goldustsongbird]

i'm putting face I guess

it breaks down to: nose, smile then eyes I think


I'm a nose girl. Weird, i know.

I love noses! :laugh:

Hmm, okay, I guess if I notice a guy at all, I look at their arms. I love a guy in a dress shirt (can't just be a plain shirt) with the sleeves rolled up. Swooon.

[BlackWidow]

Some do. :shrug:

:laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:

[GardenStateGirlie]

I love noses! :laugh:

Hmm, okay, I guess if I notice a guy at all, I look at their arms. I love a guy in a dress shirt (can't just be a plain shirt) with the sleeves rolled up. Swooon.

i've always had a thing for guys in business suits. i don't know why. i just think it's extremely hot :cool:

[BlackWidow]

i've always had a thing for guys in business suits. i don't know why. i just think it's extremely hot :cool:

I just bought a light grey pin stripped suit from Banana Republic...:D

[michelle2677]

I love noses! :laugh:

Hmm, okay, I guess if I notice a guy at all, I look at their arms. I love a guy in a dress shirt (can't just be a plain shirt) with the sleeves rolled up. Swooon.

I have to say-this is one fabulous f*cking nose. I like big noses :o I can't explain it...lol



http://i15.photobucket.com/albums/a395/Michelle2677/Stevie%20nicks%20and%20fleetwood%20mac/LBuckBV07tn.jpg

[BlackWidow]

I have to say-this is one fabulous f*cking nose. I like big noses :o I can't explain it...lol



http://i15.photobucket.com/albums/a395/Michelle2677/Stevie%20nicks%20and%20fleetwood%20mac/LBuckBV07tn.jpg

you like BIG EVERYTHING!!! 0========% :nod:

[GardenStateGirlie]

I just bought a light grey pin stripped suit from Banana Republic...:D

niiiice :D

[goldustsongbird]

I have to say-this is one fabulous f*cking nose. I like big noses :o I can't explain it...lol



http://i15.photobucket.com/albums/a395/Michelle2677/Stevie%20nicks%20and%20fleetwood%20mac/LBuckBV07tn.jpg

i've never noticed his nose before... But I guess it is quite nice. lol. Alan Rickman has one of the best noses ever. Truefactz.

[BlackWidow]

niiiice :D

I'll post a pic....;) :D

[BTFLCHLD]

1 was the lonliest number :D

[GardenStateGirlie]

I'll post a pic....;) :D

woooot.

are you one of those guys that's a bit of a risk taker in terms of ties, shirts, etc. to go with said suit? cause i'm down with that too :nod: :laugh:

[michelle2677]

i've never noticed his nose before... But I guess it is quite nice. lol. Alan Rickman has one of the best noses ever. Truefactz.


I love lindsey's nose. lemme check out alan's....

o.k saw alan's. dug it.
bono is the reason i started liking noses. I think he's kinda hot, but I know a lot of other people don't :shrug: but there is no denying this nose


http://defeatpoverty.com/uploaded_images/bono-788019.jpg




you like BIG EVERYTHING!!! 0========% :nod:

and?? :shrug:


:lol:

[goldustsongbird]

^ Are you kidding?! Everyone and their ****in' cat thinks Bono is hot. Not me, I have a bird. :lol: Srsly, I don't find him (or his nose, sorry!) attractive.

Alan is the king of noses, though. :nod:

[michelle2677]

^ Are you kidding?! Everyone and their ****in' cat thinks Bono is hot. Not me, I have a bird. :lol: Srsly, I don't find him (or his nose, sorry!) attractive.

Alan is the king of noses, though. :nod:

really?? I've never met one person who thinks he's hot. other than me of course. but does that count as "meeting"?? I don't think so...:shrug:

[goldustsongbird]

really?? I've never met one person who thinks he's hot. other than me of course. but does that count as "meeting"?? I don't think so...:shrug:

That's because you're from Kentucky. :shrug: :D That's weird. I know so many people who are all, OMGZ I LOVE U2 AND BONO IS TEH HAWT.

[michelle2677]

That's because you're from Kentucky. :shrug: :D That's weird. I know so many people who are all, OMGZ I LOVE U2 AND BONO IS TEH HAWT.


well, true. these people have no taste :laugh:

[amber]

Bono is a hoser.
The first thing I notice in a man is if he's hitting on me. Then his whole vibe. Then if he's too skinny or not. Then his level of smartitude/cleverness. Then his weiner. Pretty much in that order, with varying degrees of care-ness about each quality, depending on my mooditude. Attitude + mood = Mooditude.
Sadly, I like nice funny boys. Really nice. It's sad because looks are often a back seat. But I guess I'm not sad about that, just "the public" would be.

[michelle2677]

Bono is a hoser.

exactly.

see?? :shrug: :laugh:


but in my defense, I'm mostly only intersted in his nose :angel:





(side note-I swear i posted this already, but it's not coming up. so either it got deleted, the ledge is acting up again, or i'm losing my mind.

[goldustsongbird]

Bono is a hoser.
The first thing I notice in a man is if he's hitting on me. Then his whole vibe. Then if he's too skinny or not. Then his level of smartitude/cleverness. Then his weiner. Pretty much in that order, with varying degrees of care-ness about each quality, depending on my mooditude. Attitude + mood = Mooditude.
Sadly, I like nice funny boys. Really nice. It's sad because looks are often a back seat. But I guess I'm not sad about that, just "the public" would be.

:laugh: Now I wish I'd kept my Bob & Doug sig...

I like funny guys. I like funny anyone. If you can make me laugh, I'll put out on the first date.

... okay, okay, I'll have to get their last name and health info first...

[trackaghost]

Hmmm, I don't see the option "His wallet"

[carrie721]

Hmmm, I don't see the option "His wallet"

:lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:

[markolas]

i'm putting face I guess

it breaks down to: nose, smile then eyes I think

I'm a nose girl. Weird, i know.

It's the Roman nose. Very, very hot.

i've always had a thing for guys in business suits. i don't know why. i just think it's extremely hot :cool:

Yes, I have this fetish as well. I used to spend hours watching the Weather Channel alone in my room. :D :nod:

[shackin'up]

Hmmm, I don't see the option "His wallet"
I count that as Butt/bulge.
you naughty girl.

[xdreamsunwindx]

:laugh: :laugh:

you're one fierce bitch, kate.

What can I say, I need a handful before I can judge.

& I would do Bono. Seriously.

[michelle2677]

What can I say, I need a handful before I can judge.

& I would do Bono. Seriously.

THANK you!!! :xoxo: I think he needs to get rid of those glasses though. I hate those things.

we need to have a poll: would you do bono-yes or no :lol:

[xdreamsunwindx]

THANK you!!! :xoxo: I think he needs to get rid of those glasses though. I hate those things.

we need to have a poll: would you do bono-yes or no :lol:

Even with the glasses, I'd be all over him. He's just a thing of beauty. I nearly died when I saw U2 right up front back in 2005, he was just so amazing. I'm STILL not over it, and that was almost two years ago! And that voice, ohhh my godddddd.

& yeah, that would be a great poll :lol:

[michelle2677]

Even with the glasses, I'd be all over him. He's just a thing of beauty. I nearly died when I saw U2 right up front back in 2005, he was just so amazing. I'm STILL not over it, and that was almost two years ago! And that voice, ohhh my godddddd.

& yeah, that would be a great poll :lol:

I've never seen them in concert, but would love to :nod: Else, I probably wouldn't be over it either:eek:

I'll see what I can do :angel:

[DrummerDeanna]

geez. what is that like? i am the biggest flirt in the world - it's like an addiction. i have a very long distance boyfriend - across an ocean - with no firm, firm commitment (therefore, freedom!) - but i also have a huge, crazy, huge crush on someone middle distance away, who i've had said crush on now for almost 18 months!! sigh. i love him. and i met someone yesterday, and was like, hmmmm..... :o he was married :p but seriously, i am so attracted to so many men - most of them about 10-15 years older than me. the BF across the ocean is my age, and we may actually wind up married one day. but that doesn't mean i don't notice every other guy around. too much fun! :laugh:



It's AWFUL! I used to be much like you described - I'd get crushes often and they were intense. I so miss that.

The last one was in DC, he was about 15 years older than me (I also like them older) and good GOD that was intense...but oh so much fun! I guess after that something in me died :laugh:

I really don't know - but since then I've not met one person male or female who really "melts my butter" :distress:

[michelle2677]

It's AWFUL! I used to be much like you described - I'd get crushes often and they were intense. I so miss that.

The last one was in DC, he was about 15 years older than me (I also like them older) and good GOD that was intense...but oh so much fun! I guess after that something in me died :laugh:

I really don't know - but since then I've not met one person male or female who really "melts my butter" :distress:

me too :nod: I'm not saying I wouldn't make an exception, but I don't think I've ever dated anyone younger than me.
they would have to be either really hot, or really rich :lol:

[DrummerDeanna]

me too :nod: I'm not saying I wouldn't make an exception, but I don't think I've ever dated anyone younger than me.
they would have to be either really hot, or really rich :lol:

Oh oddly enough though I've always been wildly attracted to older men the one guy I dated the longest (about three years) was younger than me, though only a year...but still...I look back with a big fat "what the hell was I thinking"...sigh.

And at this point hell I'd like to notice and be attracted to anyone...because my complete lack of interest is starting to worry me.

[BlackWidow]

I count that as Butt/bulge.
you naughty girl.

:nod: :nod: :nod: :nod:

[GardenStateGirlie]

Yes, I have this fetish as well. I used to spend hours watching the Weather Channel alone in my room. :D :nod:

it's not the weather channel, but this may turn you off :lol: ...

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[carrie721]

god. he makes so much more money than i do. :laugh:

[BlackWidow]

it's not the weather channel, but this may turn you off :lol: ...

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^^
Another good reason for remote controls...:laugh:

[markolas]

it's not the weather channel, but this may turn you off :lol: ...

OMG, who is this guy? :laugh: There's a story here, and I wanna know what it is.

[GardenStateGirlie]

OMG, who is this guy? :laugh: There's a story here, and I wanna know what it is.

his name is mark mathis and up until two years ago or so, he was the weatherman on the charlotte, nc fox 9 station. merf used to talk about him and then he showed up as a youtube clip. he's apparently an alcoholic. according to merf, they put him in a "less stressful" market elsewhere in the country :laugh: he's clearly insane.

[markolas]

he's apparently an alcoholic.

That was my first guess. :laugh: Hilarious, though.

[michelle2677]

for deanna.


and my nose fetish :laugh:

http://i15.photobucket.com/albums/a395/Michelle2677/chris%20noth/sexychrisnoth.jpg

[BlackWidow]

for deanna.


and my nose fetish :laugh:

http://i15.photobucket.com/albums/a395/Michelle2677/chris%20noth/sexychrisnoth.jpg

MR BIG!!!:thumbsup:

[michelle2677]

^^^ aaahh yes... and now I am smiling :nod: :thumbsup: :cool:

[BlackWidow]

I think the 3 Butt/Bulgers should identify themselves..PERVS!

[CelticGypsy]

Been so long since I am an older married lady:rolleyes:

Hmmm...... the last time a man flirted with me I did notice he had a nice face and bright blue eyes and no it was not Lindsey:rolleyes:

[CelticGypsy]

Huh? :confused:


That photo!!!!

I love her!!! Hyacinth Bucket. Great show!!!

[BTFLCHLD]

three peas in the pod :D

[gretchen]

I love her!!! Hyacinth Bucket. Great show!!!

I love that show too...It's not Bucket, it Bouquet:lol: , "Elizabeth, would you like some tea Dear..."

[BlackWidow]

three peas in the pod :D

I KNEW IT!:laugh:

[MissyWiggy]

Hmmm, I don't see the option "His wallet"

PFFT! HA! i like your style!
I was torn. eyes. smile. eyes. smile. I went with eyes - i guess the important thing is that they make you smile

*sigh* one day my prince will come..... he's just a lil lost at the moment - and is too stubborn to ask for directions. That's men for ya lol

[BlackWidow]

PFFT! HA! i like your style!
I was torn. eyes. smile. eyes. smile. I went with eyes - i guess the important thing is that they make you smile

*sigh* one day my prince will come..... he's just a lil lost at the moment - and is too stubborn to ask for directions. That's men for ya lol

:nod: :nod: :nod: :nod: