Oh man, How Much Bad Luck With Girls Can A Guy Have????? A Little Help Please!!!

[Musicman408]

So, all of you all know that I have ZERO luck with girls. I am shy on the approach but they all say they "love me".

Anyway, I met this girl a couple of weeks ago at her vocal lesson. She was really nice, and when I complimented her on her voice, she would always smile and thank me very sweetly. She seemed to like it.

So I found her on MYSPACE and we started talking. She was very supportive of my back surgery and all. I was hoping I would run into her at school, but no such luck. This being said, I was thinking that it would be awkward seeing her again in "real life" after talking to her online.......

A couple of days later, we had a choral concert. I was in the lobby just chillin' and she walks around the corner and sees me. She seemed really happy to see me. We talked awhile and talked about how I wrote songs and she was telling me that I MUST record my songs and give them to her.........

I talked to her a couple of times on MYSPACE after that but since a few days ago, I haven't heard from her AND NOW it says that she is "in a relationship". I know I didn't know her very well, but we really seemed to get along well and I was hoping that we would be seeing more of each other. But I guess not...... What should I do. It is just SOOO frustrating.:distress:

Much Love,
Ethan

[seeker007nmss]

I get that she changed her my space from "single" to "in a relationship"? (Sorry, I am old and never used my space). I think that is your answer - added to the silence. Save yourself some frustration and move on. She gave you her answer with her actions. If she was really interested, you would know. :sorry:

[goldustsongbird]

Was she supposed to consult you before getting into a relationship? :laugh: You can still be friends with her... can't you?

[Musicman408]

I get that she changed her my space from "single" to "in a relationship"? (Sorry, I am old and never used my space). I think that is your answer - added to the silence. Save yourself some frustration and move on. She gave you her answer with her actions. If she was really interested, you would know. :sorry:

Well, I understand what you are saying, but it had been so hard for me to get over the other girl that I was hoping that she would at least keep me from "going back again"....... Oh well

[Musicman408]

Was she supposed to consult you before getting into a relationship? :laugh: You can still be friends with her... can't you?

I mean, we just met. Have only really talked in person twice...... But we got along really well and she was very sweet.

[seeker007nmss]

Well, I understand what you are saying, but it had been so hard for me to get over the other girl that I was hoping that she would at least keep me from "going back again"....... Oh well

We have all been there. (I know that doesn't help much). And I might not be the right one to respond (I gave up years ago). I think that when the right one comes along, you will know it. Just don't let what happened in the past spoil your future. Remember they are the ones that missed out. And it is their loss, not yours. So, here is a fluff pic, as I get off the old soapbox. :D


"You Otter not let it get you down"

http://i9.photobucket.com/albums/a88/Dreamtimezzz/looking20otter.jpg

[Musicman408]

We have all been there. (I know that doesn't help much). And I might not be the right one to respond (I gave up years ago). I think that when the right one comes along, you will know it. Just don't let what happened in the past spoil your future. Remember they are the ones that missed out. And it is their loss, not yours. So, here is a fluff pic, as I get off the old soapbox. :D


"You Otter not let it get you down"

http://i9.photobucket.com/albums/a88/Dreamtimezzz/looking20otter.jpg

Ha ha, thanks that's really cute. And I know they are the ones missing out because I am going to make something great out of myself and they are going to be missing out, but for the meantime, there's a bit of pain. At least it helps write AMAZING music, and my novel is coming along FANTASTICLLY!!!!:nod:

[Little Nicki]

At least it helps write AMAZING music, and my novel is coming along FANTASTICLLY!!!!:nod:

And so modest.

[JazmenFlowers]

maybe you should lay off myspace for a while. it is evil, you know.

didn't you have a similar, like, way similar, problem with a girl in the past?

[xdreamsunwindx]

And so modest.

*zing!*

I agree with the general sentiment going on over here.. you just met her. It's not like you were going out for a while, and that you talked things out, blah blah blah. She's allowed to make the decision to go out with someone.. it's not like you made a commitment, or anything like that.

& besides, it's ****ing MySpace. If you're taking that site seriously, then come on, dude. It's the internet. Get real.

[sparky]

maybe you should lay off myspace for a while. it is evil, you know.

didn't you have a similar, like, way similar, problem with a girl in the past?

All of the internet is evil.

That sig pic is a pants pisser. I love it when you're snide.

[JazmenFlowers]

All of the internet is evil.
I know, right?
That sig pic is a pants pisser. I love it when you're snide.
I'll have to be snide a little more often then.

[BlackWidow]

I know, right?

I'll have to be snide a little more often then.

..it keeps the know it alls on their toes...:lol: :lol: :lol:

[sparky]

I know, right?

I'll have to be snide a little more often then.

Oh bring it on. Me likey.

[JazmenFlowers]

Oh bring it on. Me likey.
;)

as Beyonce' says...can you keep up?

[sparky]

;)

as Beyonce' says...can you keep up?

I wear out most.
:woohoo:

[JazmenFlowers]

I wear out most.
:woohoo:
oh snap. :]

[sparky]

oh snap. :]

Snap crackle and pop.
:wavey:

[JazmenFlowers]

Snap crackle and pop.
:wavey:
stop.please.
can't.breathe.

(oh ****. I just gave you more material didn't I? :D )

[Gypsy-Rhiannon]

So, all of you all know that I have ZERO luck with girls. I am shy on the approach but they all say they "love me".

Anyway, I met this girl a couple of weeks ago at her vocal lesson. She was really nice, and when I complimented her on her voice, she would always smile and thank me very sweetly. She seemed to like it.

So I found her on MYSPACE and we started talking. She was very supportive of my back surgery and all. I was hoping I would run into her at school, but no such luck. This being said, I was thinking that it would be awkward seeing her again in "real life" after talking to her online.......

A couple of days later, we had a choral concert. I was in the lobby just chillin' and she walks around the corner and sees me. She seemed really happy to see me. We talked awhile and talked about how I wrote songs and she was telling me that I MUST record my songs and give them to her.........

I talked to her a couple of times on MYSPACE after that but since a few days ago, I haven't heard from her AND NOW it says that she is "in a relationship". I know I didn't know her very well, but we really seemed to get along well and I was hoping that we would be seeing more of each other. But I guess not...... What should I do. It is just SOOO frustrating.:distress:

Much Love,
Ethan
Just because a girl is friendly and chatty with you doesn't mean she wants to date you. If she is such a nice person then you will have to be happy to be friends with her

[GODDESS6]

We have all been there. (I know that doesn't help much). And I might not be the right one to respond (I gave up years ago). I think that when the right one comes along, you will know it. Just don't let what happened in the past spoil your future. Remember they are the ones that missed out. And it is their loss, not yours. So, here is a fluff pic, as I get off the old soapbox. :D


"You Otter not let it get you down"

http://i9.photobucket.com/albums/a88/Dreamtimezzz/looking20otter.jpg

omg i love that pic!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!~

[gldstwmn]

Hi Ethan. Just remeber that you're young and there are plenty of other girls out there. Cultivate friendships with them, see what they're all about and then see what happens from there.

[Phoenix]

Hi Ethan. Just remeber that you're young and there are plenty of other girls out there. Cultivate friendships with them, see what they're all about and then see what happens from there.

sorry, but FORGET FRIENDSHIPS! :rolleyes: If you give em the "friend" vibe then thats what they'll think of you as. (BELIEVE ME) and stop bieng so nice, when girls get a glimpse of "inner jerk" I know you got in you. :cool: THATS when they'll respond. THEN you can be nice, and they'll think "oh hes so wonderful, hes bieng nice JUST FOR ME. TRUST ME DUDE, ITS THE TRUTH.

I AM SO SORRY FOR EVER POSTING THIS. I AM SO SAD AND UPSET RIGht now. I just meant to not be soo much as a friend that the girl you like just treats you like a door mat, and only ever thinks of you as a friend. I dont condone in any way bieng mean to women or anything like that. I AM SOO SORRY, I have been crying for the last hour I love the lege, but just want to go away, but cant cause this is THE ONLY PLACE IN MY LIFE that i can share my love for stevie. I am sorry. I dont want to offend people. I cant stop crying now.

[BlackWidow]

sorry, but FORGET FRIENDSHIPS! :rolleyes: If you give em the "friend" vibe then thats what they'll think of you as. (BELIEVE ME) and stop bieng so nice, when girls get a glimpse of "inner jerk" I know you got in you. :cool: THATS when they'll respond. THEN you can be nice, and they'll think "oh hes so wonderful, hes bieng nice JUST FOR ME. TRUST ME DUDE, ITS THE TRUTH.

..I love your "inner jerk!" :nod:

[ragandbone]

You know the heartfelt and genuine enthusiasm that leads you to start so many threads? Well, if you approach a girl with that same fervor (even friendly, and complementary fervor) I think most girls would be a little apprehensive and overwhelmed.
I know it is hard to rein that in when you are excited about someone you meet, but just take a breath, and throw more of the energy into your music and novel. There will be someone whose enthusiasm matches yours, I don't think you will have to wonder, but you might have to wait.
Just my opinion...

[estranged4life]

oh snap. :]

as in "around the World horizontal 'Z-snap'"? :lol:

[Musicman408]

:nod: Thanks you all for the advice. I think I have already moved on......

[HomerMcvie]

Oh snap!:rolleyes:











:lol: :lol: :lol:

[sasja]

:laugh: :laugh: :laugh:

Oh you guys this is the best internet place to be. :blob1:

Sasja

[goldustsongbird]

:laugh: :laugh: :laugh:

Oh you guys this is the best internet place to be. :blob1:

Sasja

http://img402.imageshack.us/img402/9311/srsbizck8.png

[JazmenFlowers]

http://img402.imageshack.us/img402/9311/srsbizck8.png
damn:

that.is.hilarious.

[goldustsongbird]

damn:

that.is.hilarious.

My brilliance knows no bounds. :lol: :xoxo:

[mikeschmike]

My brilliance knows no bounds. :lol: :xoxo:

Is brilliance Canadian for modesty? :shrug:

J/K it cracked me up

[sasja]

Perfect! But is it evil enough? :D

Sasja

[goldustsongbird]

Is brilliance Canadian for modesty? :shrug:

J/K it cracked me up

:laugh: *throws back bacon in yo' face*

[carrie721]

http://img402.imageshack.us/img402/9311/srsbizck8.png

o.m.g.

you kill me.

[goldustsongbird]

o.m.g.

you kill me.

:D :D :D

I was gonna :xoxo: but I didn't want you to catch my disease. :laugh:

[carrie721]

:D :D :D

I was gonna :xoxo: but I didn't want you to catch my disease. :laugh:

~zomg i caught canadian~

wait, i just used that joke ... :laugh:

plz make me a tshirt that says "i caught canadian and all i got were these damn snow shoes" :D

[goldustsongbird]

~zomg i caught canadian~

wait, i just used that joke ... :laugh:

plz make me a tshirt that says "i caught canadian and all i got were these damn snow shoes" :D

hahaha. I seriously should.

[Wild_Heart03]

http://img402.imageshack.us/img402/9311/srsbizck8.png

:lol: *win*

[goldustsongbird]

:lol: *win*

What do I get? Complementary bottle of wine? :D

[gldstwmn]

sorry, but FORGET FRIENDSHIPS! :rolleyes: If you give em the "friend" vibe then thats what they'll think of you as. (BELIEVE ME) and stop bieng so nice, when girls get a glimpse of "inner jerk" I know you got in you. :cool: THATS when they'll respond. THEN you can be nice, and they'll think "oh hes so wonderful, hes bieng nice JUST FOR ME. TRUST ME DUDE, ITS THE TRUTH.

I'm not a dude. Or maybe you're talking to Ethan? :confused: I don't think he should be encouraged to play games or fukc with people's heads. It's really unhealthy. By the way, judging from your response you don't know jack **** about women. I'm half tempted to kick you in the balls. :)

[Nixxxed]

I'm not a dude. Or maybe you're talking to Ethan? :confused: I don't think he should be encouraged to play games or fukc with people's heads. It's really unhealthy. By the way, judging from your response you don't know jack **** about women. I'm half tempted to kick you in the balls. :)
damn. you're on fire tonight. :thumbsup:

[ragandbone]

I'm not a dude. Or maybe you're talking to Ethan? :confused: I don't think he should be encouraged to play games or fukc with people's heads. It's really unhealthy. By the way, judging from your response you don't know jack **** about women. I'm half tempted to kick you in the balls. :)
Careful, in the picture thread he is about to draw a sword from a stone. It will be like a scene from Crouching Tiger, Hidden Dragon!

[BlackWidow]

I'm not a dude. Or maybe you're talking to Ethan? :confused: I don't think he should be encouraged to play games or fukc with people's heads. It's really unhealthy. By the way, judging from your response you don't know jack **** about women. I'm half tempted to kick you in the balls. :)

start kickin' baby.....:lol:

[gldstwmn]

damn. you're on fire tonight. :thumbsup:

I just wanted Phoenix to see what his inner jerk would bring out from a woman who didn't suffer from low self esteem. ;)

[gldstwmn]

Careful, in the picture thread he is about to draw a sword from a stone. It will be like a scene from Croucging Tiger, Hidden Dragon!

In silence she says Excalibur...:laugh:

[Phoenix]

I'm not a dude. Or maybe you're talking to Ethan? :confused: I don't think he should be encouraged to play games or fukc with people's heads. It's really unhealthy. By the way, judging from your response you don't know jack **** about women. I'm half tempted to kick you in the balls. :)

Ok, calm down. First, I have NEVER called any girl or woman "dude". That was to ethan. Second, I am not encouraging anyone to as you so politley put it "F" with peoples heads. and PLEASE try to remember that the only thing that you know about me at all is that I like stevie nicks. before you start making assumptions about my character, slinging personal insults, or making threats. And you are right that I do not know nearly as much about women as you do, because I am not one. but seriously, I am not a jerk. and you dont know me. But do you know what? I am "THE FRIEND". The friend who is allways there and supportive, and then ends up alone. I am the guy that the girls complain about their boyfriends to. I am the guy who goes to pick up the girl that he cares about at 2am, because shes stranded and upset, and her jerk boyfriends to drunk to care. I am the guy who still opens and holds the doors for a woman when she is entering a room or a building. I even bring flowers when you are down, and actually listen when you talk. and when I compliment and say that their hair looks nice after it is just cut all I ever hear is "are you gay?" I have spent many years having girls that I have felt love for tell me that Im, "the greatest friend" and "just like a brother" and "you'll find someone some day" (meaning someone else). but believe me, I am a good guy and you ndont know me. This is not Dr. Phill save a relationship advice! Ethan is a teenager. and I do know teenagers. I work with Jr. High students at the school that I work at. and Im sorry, but teenage girls tend to like the bad boy. Now, im only 25 so yeah, I got alot to learn, but I have been "the friend" and alone for FAR TOO LONG. and I was just saying that If you put the im your friend vibe out there, that is what she will think of you as.

[Phoenix]

You know the heartfelt and genuine enthusiasm that leads you to start so many threads? Well, if you approach a girl with that same fervor (even friendly, and complementary fervor) I think most girls would be a little apprehensive and overwhelmed.
Just my opinion...

This is what I was trying to say, but I obviously put it very badly. so I am sorry.

[Phoenix]

start kickin' baby.....:lol:

:distress: seriously, I thought you were one of my favorites.:distress:

[Phoenix]

I just wanted Phoenix to see what his inner jerk would bring out from a woman who didn't suffer from low self esteem. ;)

THe "inner jerk" coment was a subtle joke directed at ethan. go back and read the two posts after that, THEY got the joke. and HOW DARE YOU IMPLY THAT I AM A JERK WHO IS A JERK TO WOMEN WITH LOW SELF ESTEEM!!:mad: Just last night, I attended a dance at my church with my little sister who has a physical disability. SHe was beyond depressed about the fact that the only guy that would ask her to dance was her brother. DO NOT TELL ME ABOUT GIRLS WITH "LOW SELFESTEEM!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!:mad: :mad:

[BTFLCHLD]

making assumptions about my character, slinging personal insultswhat is that old saying... good for the goose good for the gander?

[Phoenix]

what is that old saying... good for the goose good for the gander?

What does that mean? I never said anything to her. I was talking to ethan. If we took a poll, on how manny people have said things to Eathan, I would be WAY far down on that list. even so, I said somehting to "him" not to "her". I was making a "bad joke"
Im sorry.
(no, but seriously, what do you mean by that?)

[gldstwmn]

THe "inner jerk" coment was a subtle joke directed at ethan. go back and read the two posts after that, THEY got the joke. and HOW DARE YOU IMPLY THAT I AM A JERK WHO IS A JERK TO WOMEN WITH LOW SELF ESTEEM!!:mad:

I didn't imply you were a jerk. You did. I apologize if I have hurt your feelings.

[BTFLCHLD]

(no, but seriously, what do you mean by that?) Notice your name was left off the quote? I was typing to myself. :wavey:

[ragandbone]

See, I actually did read in your comment a little disappointment and maybe bitterness, as if you had felt burned by being the nice guy. And I guess your explanation below bears that out.
Of course, we don't know how impressionable Ethan is or whether he would get the facetious tone. We *do* know that he says he has moved on, and we are all still talking about it :laugh: Ok, calm down. First, I have NEVER called any girl or woman "dude". That was to ethan. Second, I am not encouraging anyone to as you so politley put it "F" with peoples heads. and PLEASE try to remember that the only thing that you know about me at all is that I like stevie nicks. before you start making assumptions about my character, slinging personal insults, or making threats. And you are right that I do not know nearly as much about women as you do, because I am not one. but seriously, I am not a jerk. and you dont know me. But do you know what? I am "THE FRIEND". The friend who is allways there and supportive, and then ends up alone. I am the guy that the girls complain about their boyfriends to. I am the guy who goes to pick up the girl that he cares about at 2am, because shes stranded and upset, and her jerk boyfriends to drunk to care. I am the guy who still opens and holds the doors for a woman when she is entering a room or a building. I even bring flowers when you are down, and actually listen when you talk. and when I compliment and say that their hair looks nice after it is just cut all I ever hear is "are you gay?" I have spent many years having girls that I have felt love for tell me that Im, "the greatest friend" and "just like a brother" and "you'll find someone some day" (meaning someone else). but believe me, I am a good guy and you ndont know me. This is not Dr. Phill save a relationship advice! Ethan is a teenager. and I do know teenagers. I work with Jr. High students at the school that I work at. and Im sorry, but teenage girls tend to like the bad boy. Now, im only 25 so yeah, I got alot to learn, but I have been "the friend" and alone for FAR TOO LONG. and I was just saying that If you put the im your friend vibe out there, that is what she will think of you as.

[strandinthewind]

In the end, most women like a guy who is a little bad and most guys like a girl with a little mystery. It is just the way of the world for most humans - intellecutal/heady discussions aside, we are all rather wired that way :shrug:

[buckymcnix]

Hi Ethan. Just remeber that you're young and there are plenty of other girls out there. Cultivate friendships with them, see what they're all about and then see what happens from there.

you are young - chill out and see what happens = good advice imo

sorry, but FORGET FRIENDSHIPS! :rolleyes: If you give em the "friend" vibe then thats what they'll think of you as. (BELIEVE ME) and stop bieng so nice, when girls get a glimpse of "inner jerk" I know you got in you. :cool: THATS when they'll respond. THEN you can be nice, and they'll think "oh hes so wonderful, hes bieng nice JUST FOR ME. TRUST ME DUDE, ITS THE TRUTH.

don't put on airs for girls you like . . . be yourself and they will see how you are in life and how you are with them and will admire and like the contrast . . . = also good advice in my opinion - but this advice was tossed in a big ole salad with some humor and a dash or two of snide . . . just for fun - again in my opinion -

- and you quoted gldst's statement and that kinda personalized it so i think she took it as a shot accross her bow - (and what a pretty bow it is - did you see the picture thread?) when you were really not meaning it that way-
we all have "THE INNER JERK" - {"my little demon coming on down . "anyone?> > > we all have ongoing inner fights going on . . . }
it seems phoenix is saying don't wait til you are married to allow someone to see the WHOLE person that also includes an "inner jerk" - let them see the real you - good and bad -

You know the heartfelt and genuine enthusiasm that leads you to start so many threads? Well, if you approach a girl with that same fervor (even friendly, and complementary fervor) I think most girls would be a little apprehensive and overwhelmed.
I know it is hard to rein that in when you are excited about someone you meet, but just take a breath, and throw more of the energy into your music and novel. There will be someone whose enthusiasm matches yours, I don't think you will have to wonder, but you might have to wait.
Just my opinion...

whew - no paraphrase needed really = good advice imo :xoxo:

and then there is this . . .

:nod: Thanks you all for the advice. I think I have already moved on......

but . . .somehow you guys got all toe stepping or something . . . i don't think anyone meant anything harsh - - -

can we get a group hug smiley someone please?????!!!

[ragandbone]

but . . .somehow you guys got all toe stepping or something . . . i don't think anyone meant anything harsh - - -

can we get a group hug smiley someone please?????!!!

Where do we find that smiley? Is it next to the bar brawl smiley?

[Phoenix]

I really am so sorry. I never should have posted. I'm sitting here crying thinking that people out ther have a wrong opinion of who i am and what im like. i just have been if the nice guys finish last rut for some time, and am frustrated. i am so upset about this.i do not believe that women should be degrated or put down in anyway. no one should. i am really sorry if that is how that got interpreted. i only wanted to tell him not to be soo much of a friend, that thats all she ever thinks of you as. i'm sorry.

[gldstwmn]

but . . .somehow you guys got all toe stepping or something . . . i don't think anyone meant anything harsh - - -


Oh honey, welcome to The Ledge. :laugh:

[Phoenix]

See, I actually did read in your comment a little disappointment and maybe bitterness, as if you had felt burned by being the nice guy. And I guess your explanation below bears that out.
Of course, we don't know how impressionable Ethan is or whether he would get the facetious tone. We *do* know that he says he has moved on, and we are all still talking about it :laugh:

thank you. i love you.:xoxo:

[Phoenix]

Oh honey, welcome to The Ledge. :laugh:


:) thats a good way to look at it. that made me smile

[buckymcnix]

I really am so sorry. I never should have posted. I'm sitting here crying thinking that people out ther have a wrong opinion of who i am and what im like. i just have been if the nice guys finish last rut for some time, and am frustrated. i am so upset about this.i do not believe that women should be degrated or put down in anyway. no one should. i am really sorry if that is how that got interpreted. i only wanted to tell him not to be soo much of a friend, that thats all she ever thinks of you as. i'm sorry.

hey bud - relax -
i don't think anyone feels that way about you -
there was some back and forth and you defended yourself against those charges . . . but certainly nothing you should be letting get you so down . . .

i think there was some internets misunderstandings . . .
thats it . . .
typed words just don't have inflection etc . . .that can make the meanin so different

:xoxo i certainly can't speak for everyone but relax - i doubt anyone thinks you are a bad person

[BTFLCHLD]

wrong opinion of who i am and what im like. Phoenix...you are not the first person to mention your thoughts on being "a friend"...in fact I am sure there was discussion of the matter on the "friendtrap" on some reality show last night...I wouldn't think one would gather a negative impression from you from one single post. You have explained your feelings and what you meant...I wouldn't worry/cry on it...ok?

<img src="http://i11.photobucket.com/albums/a152/BTFLCHLD/grouphugg.gif">

[Phoenix]

hey bud - relax -
i don't think anyone feels that way about you -
there was some back and forth and you defended yourself against those charges . . . but certainly nothing you should be letting get you so down . . .

i think there was some internets misunderstandings . . .
thats it . . .
typed words just don't have inflection etc . . .that can make the meanin so different

:xoxo i certainly can't speak for everyone but relax - i doubt anyone thinks you are a bad person

thank you :xoxo:

[ragandbone]

does this mean we don't get the kung fu swordfight I had so hoped for?

Awwww man!

[BTFLCHLD]

Then again, being a jerk to get a girl interested is gameplay that is not cool...as Chris highlighted. :wavey:

[DrummerDeanna]

Phoenix - everyone gets sh*t on or feels sh*t upon on the Ledge at some point in time...so welcome to the club ;)

Your initial post - I totally thought you were being sarcastic, I got a chuckle from it, didn't take it seriously. But sadly what you've said seems to be a real perception guys have that girls like assholes...

Maybe y'all are just hanging around the wrong girls...I have absolutely no tolerance for jerks...and hate the notion that "that's really what girls want" ...those girls need help :laugh:

[buckymcnix]

Then again, being a jerk to get a girl interested is gameplay that is not cool...as Chris highlighted. :wavey:

i guess i took it as "let her see all of you - not just the good parts . . . be yourself . . . " not as a show off your bad parts to mind fcku with her. . . .
- imo

[ragandbone]

Then again, being a jerk to get a girl interested is gameplay that is not cool...as Chris highlighted. :wavey:You're right, though I think any jerks I have encountered weren't putting on any act.
Luckily Chris is ready to defend us with some high kicks, or I guess low kicks.:D

[ragandbone]

i'll thumbwrestle you -
best 3 outta five . . .:angel:
That litle angel is hovering over the unfair boxing match in your sig pic, and I am very afraid:eek:

[Phoenix]

You're right, though I think any jerks I have encountered weren't putting on any act.
Luckily Chris is ready to defend us with some high kicks, or I guess low kicks.:D

:lol: if she gets to kick can i still keep the sword?! (I loved ur comment about my excalibur pic too, thanks) WE WILL FIGHT SIDE BY SIDE DEFENDING THE WORLD FROM JERKS! EVERYEHERE!:thumbsup:

[sasja]

Maybe you sweet, good, strong, reliable guys are attracted to, or friends with, the wrong kind of girls too!

I know it maybe takes some maturity but! Once I was out of my dumb adolescent years -- good, kind, reliable and trustworthy and friendly, good to animals, children, humanity as a whole, etc. guys were the only kinds I dated and eventually, married.

We, the women that value and appreciate you, ARE out there!!

Sasja

[DrummerDeanna]

Maybe you sweet, good, strong, reliable guys are attracted to, or friends with, the wrong kind of girls too!

I know it maybe takes some maturity but! Once I was out of my dumb adolescent years -- good, kind, reliable and trustworthy and friendly, good to animals, children, humanity as a whole, etc. guys were the only kinds I dated and eventually, married.

We, the women that value and appreciate you, ARE out there!!

Sasja

EXACTLY! That's what I was trying to say earlier....

Because from where I stand it seems that many guys (even the nice ones) like the bitchy and whorish girls...so something's getting lost in the mix here lol....

[Phoenix]

Phoenix - everyone gets sh*t on or feels sh*t upon on the Ledge at some point in time...so welcome to the club ;)

Your initial post - I totally thought you were being sarcastic, I got a chuckle from it, didn't take it seriously. But sadly what you've said seems to be a real perception guys have that girls like assholes...

Maybe y'all are just hanging around the wrong girls...I have absolutely no tolerance for jerks...and hate the notion that "that's really what girls want" ...those girls need help :laugh:

Deanna!! its soo good to see you! and your right.i probabally know all the wrong girls. you know, i allways think when im here on the ledge .and your a perfect example im allways like here are a whole bunch of cool, witty, girls (and maybe afew of the guys, i think there werin me down:laugh: )who love stevie nicks, where have you people been all my life...:laugh:

[Phoenix]

Maybe you sweet, good, strong, reliable guys are attracted to, or friends with, the wrong kind of girls too!

I know it maybe takes some maturity but! Once I was out of my dumb adolescent years -- good, kind, reliable and trustworthy and friendly, good to animals, children, humanity as a whole, etc. guys were the only kinds I dated and eventually, married.

We, the women that value and appreciate you, ARE out there!!

Sasja

THANX! :wavey: I have renewed hope.:)

[gina]

Maybe you sweet, good, strong, reliable guys are attracted to, or friends with, the wrong kind of girls too!

I know it maybe takes some maturity but! Once I was out of my dumb adolescent years -- good, kind, reliable and trustworthy and friendly, good to animals, children, humanity as a whole, etc. guys were the only kinds I dated and eventually, married.

We, the women that value and appreciate you, ARE out there!!

Sasja

Sasja...I was about to write what you just did! Yes..it's these kind of guys that are "the keepers" and with whom you can actually sustain a relationship.

[sara1998]

This thread is the most drama I've had in a while. :lol:

[seeker007nmss]

We, the women that value and appreciate you, ARE out there!!

Sasja


uh huh....sure .....:rolleyes:

"I know I don't believe they exist"
http://i9.photobucket.com/albums/a88/Dreamtimezzz/megan1.jpg

"Yeah and cats can fly!"
http://i9.photobucket.com/albums/a88/Dreamtimezzz/megan2.jpg

"I heard that!"
http://i9.photobucket.com/albums/a88/Dreamtimezzz/cat_dress.jpg

[BTFLCHLD]

uh huh....sure .....:rolleyes:
<img src="http://i11.photobucket.com/albums/a152/BTFLCHLD/-1.jpg">

[seeker007nmss]

"hey Mamma. did you hear what the silly human wrote?"
http://i9.photobucket.com/albums/a88/Dreamtimezzz/babypolarbear.jpg

[BTFLCHLD]

I have been very very bad...daddy
<img src="http://i11.photobucket.com/albums/a152/BTFLCHLD/trouble_1_1.jpg">

[seeker007nmss]

Did you see my new book?


"How to pick up chicks"
http://i9.photobucket.com/albums/a88/Dreamtimezzz/chick.jpg

[seeker007nmss]

I have been very very bad...daddy
<img src="http://i11.photobucket.com/albums/a152/BTFLCHLD/trouble_1_1.jpg">


Nah. Should be....

"I didn't do it!"

[BTFLCHLD]

Nah. Should be...."I didn't do it!" :mad: Leave it to the expert! You are such a BRUT!!

<img src="http://i11.photobucket.com/albums/a152/BTFLCHLD/brut.jpg">

[seeker007nmss]

"Oh Momma, those human women are mean and terrible!"

"I told you not to trust any animal that doesn't have a tail!"

http://i9.photobucket.com/albums/a88/Dreamtimezzz/bbyk.jpg

[Nixxxed]

._,_,_
(=,.,=) ._,_,_
(/_._\) ('')_('')

Poor Bunny. No one told her it was Wabbit Season.

http://www.netside.net/~c3i/elmer1.jpg

;)

[seeker007nmss]

._,_,_
(=,.,=) ._,_,_
(/_._\) ('')_('')

Poor Bunny. No one told her it was Wabbit Season.

http://www.netside.net/~c3i/elmer1.jpg

;)


:lol: :eek: :lol:

Now your going to get it!

http://i9.photobucket.com/albums/a88/Dreamtimezzz/chien_fluffy.jpg

[BTFLCHLD]

Poor Bunny

http://i9.tinypic.com/2eoch7q.jpg

[seeker007nmss]

"I didn't say this was a bad idea, but I still want a helmet."

http://i9.photobucket.com/albums/a88/Dreamtimezzz/baby-bunnies.jpg

[seeker007nmss]

Elmer knows when he's lost!


"If you can't beat them, join them!"

http://i9.photobucket.com/albums/a88/Dreamtimezzz/elmers2.jpg

[skcin]

uh huh....sure .....:rolleyes:

"I know I don't believe they exist"
http://i9.photobucket.com/albums/a88/Dreamtimezzz/megan1.jpg

"Yeah and cats can fly!"
http://i9.photobucket.com/albums/a88/Dreamtimezzz/megan2.jpg



Jim! How dare you use Stevie's backgrounmd Rhiannon unicorns without her permission! :mad:

[Nixxxed]

Google takes me to the strangest places sometimes.

We have knitters here on The Ledge, right?

"Knitting for Psychopaths": http://gallery.andreas.id.au/knitting.html

http://andreas.id.au/images/dead_bunny.jpg

[seeker007nmss]

Jim! How dare you use Stevie's backgrounmd Rhiannon unicorns without her permission! :mad:


Maybe I DID get permission. :eek:

"You want to use what? Sure...go ahead..."

http://i9.photobucket.com/albums/a88/Dreamtimezzz/steviedinner.jpg

[BlackWidow]

:distress: seriously, I thought you were one of my favorites.:distress:

You are one of MINE!!! Please understand me...You are a great guy and I love that you actually shared something not related to Stevie Nicks. As we all joke around ...it is a term of endearment around here...I never at anytime meant to hurt your feelings..I was just being silly...:sorry:
I even perceived Chris to be playing with you too....It's cause we love you and felt comfortable enough to pull your chain. Dude..You totally ROCK!!

[skcin]

Maybe I DID get permission. :eek:

"You want to use what? Sure...go ahead..."

http://i9.photobucket.com/albums/a88/Dreamtimezzz/steviedinner.jpg

Did you get her permission to post a pic of her wearing a color other than black? :eek:

[seeker007nmss]

Google takes me to the strangest places sometimes.

We have knitters here on The Ledge, right?

"Knitting for Psychopaths": http://gallery.andreas.id.au/knitting.html

http://andreas.id.au/images/dead_bunny.jpg

:lol: :D


This is getting out of hand, Time to unleash the "BUNNIES FROM HELL!" (Check out those eyes)

http://i9.photobucket.com/albums/a88/Dreamtimezzz/tcruson9.jpg

[hayley]

Google takes me to the strangest places sometimes.

We have knitters here on The Ledge, right?

"Knitting for Psychopaths": http://gallery.andreas.id.au/knitting.html

http://andreas.id.au/images/dead_bunny.jpg

I think I'm the only one! And those are FANTASTIC. I've never knit anything that weird, unless a stuffed womb/uterus for a friend getting a hysterectomy counts.

[skcin]

I think I'm the only one! And those are FANTASTIC. I've never knit anything that weird, unless a stuffed womb/uterus for a friend getting a hysterectomy counts.

:shocked:



Best.Gift.Ever.



:lol:

[seeker007nmss]

Did you get her permission to post a pic of her wearing a color other than black? :eek:

Her bra was Black. HEY! who said that?! :shocked:



I , for one, am shocked!

http://i9.photobucket.com/albums/a88/Dreamtimezzz/jasmine20baby20photos3.jpg

[Nixxxed]

Maybe I DID get permission. :eek:

"You want to use what? Sure...go ahead..."

http://i9.photobucket.com/albums/a88/Dreamtimezzz/steviedinner.jpg
Judging from wine glasses in that pic, she was obviously drunk when you asked her.

[Phoenix]

You are one of MINE!!! Please understand me...You are a great guy and I love that you actually shared something not related to Stevie Nicks. As we all joke around ...it is a term of endearment around here...I never at anytime meant to hurt your feelings..I was just being silly...:sorry:
I even perceived Chris to be playing with you too....It's cause we love you and felt comfortable enough to pull your chain. Dude..You totally ROCK!!

:) thank you. its all cool now. here, ..............:xoxo:

[Phoenix]

Judging from wine glasses in that pic, she was obviously drunk when you asked her.

If WINE + stevie = RED. then god golly give her some more!!!:lol:

[seeker007nmss]

Judging from wine glasses in that pic, she was obviously drunk when you asked her.


That's colored water, we were dyeing easter eggs.

http://i9.photobucket.com/albums/a88/Dreamtimezzz/eggs_sized.jpg

[Nixxxed]

I think I'm the only one! And those are FANTASTIC. I've never knit anything that weird, unless a stuffed womb/uterus for a friend getting a hysterectomy counts.
:lol:

They almost make me want to take up knitting. I'm confused about this one, though - Barbie bondage wear?

http://gallery.andreas.id.au/photos/knitting/full_image01416.jpg

[seeker007nmss]

:lol:

They almost make me want to take up knitting. I'm confused about this one, though - Barbie bondage wear?

http://gallery.andreas.id.au/photos/knitting/full_image01416.jpg


Now, that's something you don't come across everyday! :lol: :eek: :shocked: :D

[BlackWidow]

be careful . . . lol . . . i got the "inner jerk" market cornered . . . .:blob1:

you are a yummy marshmellow...:]

[BlackWidow]

:) thank you. its all cool now. here, ..............:xoxo:

YAY!! I got a smooch....:laugh: :wavey:

[SuzeQuze]

:lol:

They almost make me want to take up knitting. I'm confused about this one, though - Barbie bondage wear?

http://gallery.andreas.id.au/photos/knitting/full_image01416.jpg

Omigod, that is too much! Look closely at the boots in the corner which share a resemblance with "someone's" boots.

[SuzeQuze]

EXACTLY! That's what I was trying to say earlier....

Because from where I stand it seems that many guys (even the nice ones) like the bitchy and whorish girls...so something's getting lost in the mix here lol....

I keep thinking about this. Guys are always saying we like bad boys. Well hello, you like BITCHES! :lol:

[seeker007nmss]

I keep thinking about this. Guys are always saying we like bad boys. Well hello, you like BITCHES! :lol:


Not all of us. :shrug: (You mean there are still other kinds out there?) j/k

[mikeschmike]

Did you get her permission to post a pic of her wearing a color other than black? :eek:

I bet he was able to get around it by using the "anything is allowed with shoulder pads" clause.

[strandinthewind]

I keep thinking about this. Guys are always saying we like bad boys . . .

But, isn't that true just a little :shrug:

Of course, I fully expect no girl to fess up to that, so I use my own anecgotal evidence :nod:

Love is hunt - always will be :cool:

[gldstwmn]

Look closely at the boots in the corner which share a resemblance with "someone's" boots.

I noticed that as well but was almost afraid to point it out.:o

[ragandbone]

When you guys do this...This flurry of captioned cutie animal pics—
ahh how do I say it? It might be my favorite thing that happens on the Ledge. It's like the dance number in a musical, it's the cheese and fruit course in a banquet, the pasties and a fan in a striptease.
I like it, yessirree!:D


"Oh Momma, those human women are mean and terrible!"

"I told you not to trust any animal that doesn't have a tail!"

http://i9.photobucket.com/albums/a88/Dreamtimezzz/bbyk.jpg

._,_,_
(=,.,=) ._,_,_
(/_._\) ('')_('')

Poor Bunny. No one told her it was Wabbit Season.

http://www.netside.net/~c3i/elmer1.jpg

;)

:mad: Leave it to the expert! You are such a BRUT!!

<img src="http://i11.photobucket.com/albums/a152/BTFLCHLD/brut.jpg">

"I didn't say this was a bad idea, but I still want a helmet."

http://i9.photobucket.com/albums/a88/Dreamtimezzz/baby-bunnies.jpg

[seeker007nmss]

aw thanks. It sure tires you out trying to keep up sometimes.


http://i9.photobucket.com/albums/a88/Dreamtimezzz/Kitten20on20Mouse.jpg

[SuzeQuze]

But, isn't that true just a little :shrug:

Of course, I fully expect no girl to fess up to that, so I use my own anecgotal evidence :nod:

Love is hunt - always will be :cool:

It is but we learn to like the nice guys. Yeah, it's a hunt. I'm game and no one's stalking. :lol: I was just pointing out that the opposite is also true yet we get the bad rap here.

[BlackWidow]

It is but we learn to like the nice guys. Yeah, it's a hunt. I'm game and no one's stalking. :lol: I was just pointing out that the opposite is also true yet we get the bad rap here.

LOVE IS A BATTLEFIELD!!!

[SuzeQuze]

LOVE IS A BATTLEFIELD!!!

No ****. This guy emails me out of the blue cuz he likes my MySpace pic. But do you think he can carry on a conversation? No. I guess all he wanted to say was "Nice pic." He can't handle more than that. Assh*le.

[goldustsongbird]

No ****. This guy emails me out of the blue cuz he likes my MySpace pic. But do you think he can carry on a conversation? No. I guess all he wanted to say was "Nice pic." He can't handle more than that. Assh*le.

Ah, a Myspace romance. :laugh:

[BlackWidow]

No ****. This guy emails me out of the blue cuz he likes my MySpace pic. But do you think he can carry on a conversation? No. I guess all he wanted to say was "Nice pic." He can't handle more than that. Assh*le.

You are waaaay too unique and special to even let a single thought of him sit in your brain....:p

[The Tower]

I'm so thankful every day that I'm a fag.

Women and men are completely different animals. I couldn't even IMAGINE having to deal with a woman in a romantic relationship. This whole "good guy/bad guy" thing never comes up in a man/man relationship- at least all the ones I know of.

[SuzeQuze]

You are waaaay too unique and special to even let a single thought of him sit in your brain....:p

Thank you. :xoxo:

I showed interest in this guy a looooooooong time ago but he never reciprocated until the other day. But he's still a big fat chicken. Wait, no single thought! Done.

[SuzeQuze]

I'm so thankful every day that I'm a fag.

Women and men are completely different animals. I couldn't even IMAGINE having to deal with a woman in a romantic relationship. This whole "good guy/bad guy" thing never comes up in a man/man relationship- at least all the ones I know of.

We really are so different. You people with the Y chromosome baffle me.

[seeker007nmss]

Ah, a Myspace romance. :laugh:

Might be a Myspace stalker. :shocked:

[SuzeQuze]

Might be a Myspace stalker. :shocked:

He's a friend of a friend. And there is anything BUT romance in the tiny bit of correspondence we've had. Oh well, next!

[carrie721]

He's a friend of a friend. And there is anything BUT romance in the tiny bit of correspondence we've had. Oh well, next!

ha! suzequze: breaking hearts and taking names since 19... uh ... 80? :D

[seeker007nmss]

But he's still a big fat chicken. .

Hey! Hey! Hey! Don't pick on the chickies!
http://i9.photobucket.com/albums/a88/Dreamtimezzz/Chick1.jpg

[carrie721]

Hey! Hey! Hey! Don't pick on the chickies!

holy cow, it looks like a cross between a lhasa apso and a rooster!

[seeker007nmss]

ha! suzequze: breaking hearts and taking names since 19... uh ... 80? :D


Suzequze: The Myspace Mata Hari! :D

[seeker007nmss]

holy cow, it looks like a cross between a lhasa apso and a rooster!

It's a Bantam Chicky. :nod:

[carrie721]

It's a Bantam Chicky. :nod:

does that mean it's a dog/chicken hybrid? :confused: :laugh:

[The Tower]

ha! suzequze: breaking hearts and taking names since 19... uh ... 80? :D
Suze was a late bloomer............


:eek: :p :thumbsup:

[carrie721]

Suze was a late bloomer............


:eek: :p :thumbsup:

no way ... she was rockin' in her cradle fer sher!

[seeker007nmss]

Suze was a late bloomer............


:eek: :p :thumbsup:

She wears Old fashion Bloomers? Well if she wants to , I guess....:p

[SuzeQuze]

She wears Old fashion Bloomers? Well if she wants to , I guess....:p

Oh hell no. And Towie's right, I really didn't like boys until later cuz they were scary. :lol: How did you know? :eek: But I caught up fairly quickly. :lol:

[SuzeQuze]

Hey! Hey! Hey! Don't pick on the chickies!
http://i9.photobucket.com/albums/a88/Dreamtimezzz/Chick1.jpg

That's a rooster. And there's no way he's afraid of anything! :lol:

[seeker007nmss]

That's a rooster. And there's no way he's afraid of anything! :lol:


How about this one instead. He is a frady-cat.

http://i9.photobucket.com/albums/a88/Dreamtimezzz/you20make20kitty20scared.jpg

[SuzeQuze]

How about this one instead. He is a frady-cat.

http://i9.photobucket.com/albums/a88/Dreamtimezzz/you20make20kitty20scared.jpg

:xoxo: I guess so! He'd rather post immature comments on people's pages that aren't available/interested.