I am single

[iamstevienicks]

After 4 years 2 months and 3 days with my boyfriend it is officially over!!

I am sad but I am happy too!

I can be single again! is that good or bad though?

I will miss him alot but we will still be friends (i think) which is all we have seemingly been for the last few months anyway!!

:( :)

[BTFLCHLD]

I am sad but I am happy too!
:( :) It will get better...sucks at first. I tried the friend bit with a long-term and it didn't work well...bunch of one-sided clingy bullchit not meant to linger...when it's over call it over. Good Luck. :wavey:

[sara1998]

I have been single for 3 years, 2 months, and 5 days. You get used to it. It does suck sometimes, though. :( Good luck, sweetie.

[bretonbanquet]

I've been single for a looooooong time - it sucks less as time goes on. By the time you've been single as long as I have, it doesn't suck at all :woohoo:

Actually, I don't advocate being single as long as I have, but being single in general isn't so bad. At least till the next special person comes along :)

[DavidMn]

After 4 years 2 months and 3 days with my boyfriend it is officially over!!

I am sad but I am happy too!

I can be single again! is that good or bad though?

I will miss him alot but we will still be friends (i think) which is all we have seemingly been for the last few months anyway!!

:( :)I may be behind you shortly. More to follow on that. Hopefully your happier for it.:)

[amber]

After 4 years 2 months and 3 days with my boyfriend it is officially over!!

I am sad but I am happy too!

I can be single again! is that good or bad though?

I will miss him alot but we will still be friends (i think) which is all we have seemingly been for the last few months anyway!!

:( :)

Suck! Anything is better than being with someone you don't get along with, though.
As far as I can tell, the first 4-6 weeks you miss sex a lot. But then it wears off, it's like you forget what it is like, and then being single isn't that bad. But then if you have sex again, it will take that much time to wear off again. (assuming you only get to have it once, or whatever.).
Good luck.

[seeker007nmss]

Welcome to the club! Single here for eons. :nod:

[DrummerDeanna]

A good friend of mine and I were just lamenting singledom. But I'd rather stay single forever than settle or stay with someone I know is wrong for me.

Hope you guys stay friends (if that's what you want)! Being single after being relationshipped for a couple of years is hard...hang in there!

[wondergirl9847]

I've been single for 30 years. Beat that, ya'll. :laugh:

[Patti]

I've been single for 4 1/2 years after having been married for 19 years. It sucked at first, but now I gotta say, I really love it!

[estranged4life]

I would do if I became single now, Except probably go insane....Wait, too late for that :lol:

[DavidMn]

I've been single for 4 1/2 years after having been married for 19 years. It sucked at first, but now I gotta say, I really love it!Good for you Patti! Glad youre a happier person for it!:nod:

[Patti]

Good for you Patti! Glad youre a happier person for it!:nod:

Thanks sweetie, I really am! Never thought I would get there, but so happy I did! How are you doing?

[iamstevienicks]

Now I want him back :(

[DestinyRules]

I've been single for over a decade now. It suits me.

[amber]

Now I want him back :(
No, you don't. Remember how crappy it was? Remember how you were "just friends" at the end of your relationship? Just give it a few weeks, the feeling will pass.
If you can, get someone new right away, that helps ease the pain. :laugh:

[iamstevienicks]

LOL thanks for the advice :)