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Enchanted_Stevi
05-08-2006, 09:40 AM
MY HOUSE IS BEING FORECLOSED!!!!! In 2 months I will be homeless!!!!!!! I might have to move with my dad. Which means I wont have a computer I DONT KNO WHAT TO DO!!!!!
:( :( :( :( :( :( :(

BTFLCHLD
05-08-2006, 09:53 AM
MY HOUSE IS BEING FORECLOSED!!!!! In 2 months I will be homeless!!!!!!! I might have to move with my dad. Which means I wont have a computer I DONT KNO WHAT TO DO!!!!!
:( :( :( :( :( :( :(

there isnt a lot you can do doll...
its your mom and step-dads place
and they are responsible for the foreclose on the house..
im sorry this is happening...i am thinking about you and
hope things turnaround for you and your family...
hang in there caitlin...everything will be ok
HUGGGSSSSSSS


by the way...your private message box is full
clear so i can send you a note please

sara1998
05-08-2006, 10:28 AM
I'm sorry to hear about your home. But, please don't ever say it will never get worse, because it can get worse. I always thought it would never be worse then?? and then it did. So, just prepare yourself... life has many suprises.....

Good luck with your situation. I'm sending good karma your way!

dreamongypsydkm
05-08-2006, 10:45 AM
I was going to say, I'm sorry that happened and hope there turns out to be a compromise you can live with but....what kind of a thread title is that?

BTFLCHLD
05-08-2006, 11:12 AM
but....what kind of a thread title is that? probably one a young 16 yo would create... :shrug:

jannieC
05-08-2006, 11:36 AM
probably one a young 16 yo would create... :shrug:
Yes-just what I was thinking.

Try not to panic- at least you have your dad's house and even if you don't have a computer, there are worse things that could happen. I just moved into a new house and I probably won't have the internet for at least a month.

Hang in there and try not to be scared- things can change very quickly. And Maria is right, things could be MUCH worse. I will send good thoughts your way as well. :xoxo:

estranged4life
05-08-2006, 11:49 AM
I'm sorry to hear about your home. But, please don't ever say it will never get worse, because it can get worse. I always thought it would never be worse then?? and then it did. So, just prepare yourself... life has many suprises.....

Good luck with your situation. I'm sending good karma your way!

just hang in there ok? Life does sometimes sucks but when you think it wont get better it usually does indeed get better.

dreamongypsydkm
05-08-2006, 11:51 AM
probably one a young 16 yo would create... :shrug:I understand that and a greater problem doesn't eliminate the reality of a lesser problem, it's all still worthy of attention but I wouldn't believe the age defensive. I've known my fair share of 15 year olds dealing with things no person should have to, infact I've known 10 years olds, 5 year olds and so on who've had to do the same. AGain, no greater problem eliminates a lesser one but the title kind of had me there.

All the best still.

DavidMn
05-08-2006, 11:58 AM
MY HOUSE IS BEING FORECLOSED!!!!! In 2 months I will be homeless!!!!!!! I might have to move with my dad. Which means I wont have a computer I DONT KNO WHAT TO DO!!!!!
:( :( :( :( :( :( :(I'm so sorry to hear about this. I wish there was something that I could say that I know would help, I'll just say my thoughts are with you.:angel:

BTFLCHLD
05-08-2006, 12:01 PM
I understand that and a greater problem doesn't eliminate the reality of a lesser problem, it's all still worthy of attention but I wouldn't believe the age defensive. I've known my fair share of 15 year olds dealing with things no person should have to, infact I've known 10 years olds, 5 year olds and so on who've had to do the same. AGain, no greater problem eliminates a lesser one but the title kind of had me there.

All the best still.
i hope to all the heavens above
that whenever someone gets chit on and shares here
peeps dont throw more chit on word selection/choices
i really do :distress:

WelshWitchPMD
05-08-2006, 12:19 PM
I am very sorry to hear about this Caitlin. I hope that everything works out for you and your family. Sending you some positive energy.

DavidMn
05-08-2006, 12:20 PM
MY HOUSE IS BEING FORECLOSED!!!!! In 2 months I will be homeless!!!!!!! I might have to move with my dad. Which means I wont have a computer I DONT KNO WHAT TO DO!!!!!
:( :( :( :( :( :( :(Let me share another story with you that might help. I thought nothing could get worse than when my great aunt died 2 years ago that I was very close to. I attempted suicide a couple months after because I felt so lost and spent a week in the psych ward. But somehow by the grace of god I'm still here. :angel:

dreamongypsydkm
05-08-2006, 12:44 PM
i hope to all the heavens above
that whenever someone gets chit on and shares here
peeps dont throw more chit on word selection/choices
i really do :distress: Hey I'm not trying to belittle anything she's told us, I just found it slightly on the naive side to say "nothing can get worse than this" and it would only serve to help her if she knew that this really isn't the end of the world. I'd hate to see it turn into a competition but some I know, even some who read this board, have to go through things like being kicked out of their homes by parents as young teenagers, witness a parent trying to kill the other, another witness their one parent hang themselves leaving her orphaned, or being raped by parents from the time they were a toddler, and the list goes on. It seems uncomfortable to have to use examples but the point was that you cannot blame someone for be put off a little by the extreme dramatics because as I said, it can be worse, much worse and I wouldn't wish it upon her. She should know that she will manage, humans are clearly capable of coping with the situation. I don't even know her but I'm sure she will be ok.

DavidMn
05-08-2006, 12:46 PM
Hey I'm not trying to belittle anything she's told us, I just found it slightly on the naive side to say "nothing can get worse than this" and it would only serve to help her if she knew that this really isn't the end of the world. I'd hate to see it turn into a competition but some I know, even some who read this board, have to go through things like being kicked out of their homes by parents as young teenagers, witness a parent trying to kill the other, another witness their one parent hang themselves leaving her orphaned, or being raped by parents from the time they were a toddler, and the list goes on. It seems uncomfortable to have to use examples but the point was that you cannot blame someone for be put off a little by the extreme dramatics because as I said, it can be worse, much worse and I wouldn't wish it upon her. She should know that she will manage, humans are clearly capable of coping with the situation. I don't even know her but I'm sure she will be ok.I'm sure you didnt mean any harm by your comments.:nod: Now can we please let this issue die?

dreamongypsydkm
05-08-2006, 12:51 PM
I'm sure you didnt mean any harm by your comments.:nod: Now can we please let this issue die?I'm done.

What, the message is too short?

BTFLCHLD
05-08-2006, 12:53 PM
Hey I'm not trying to belittle anything she's told us, I just found it slightly on the naive side to say "nothing can get worse than this" and it would only serve to help her if she knew that this really isn't the end of the world. yes we all know that perhaps things can get worse than this...sometimes it is BITCH and unfort for others its mosttimes a BITCH...however life lessons while easy to advise on are also learned the hardway...i doubt you focusing on her word choice will help matters on her end at this time. i took the title of the thread as an expression 'nothing could get worse than this' and im not sure who you youve hung with or hang with but its an expression that is unfort used often when chit happens...when i hear this i imagine ones arms/hands in the air seeking the heavens as to why out of frustration...i suppose they could say 'nothing could get better than this' but that would hardly make sense...no doubt someone somewhere would find that an odd word choice as well.

DavidMn
05-08-2006, 12:55 PM
I'm done.

What, the message is too short?Thank you. :nod:

BTFLCHLD
05-08-2006, 12:56 PM
I'm sure you didnt mean any harm by your comments.:nod: Now can we please let this issue die?
david...youve turned MOD?
we are having a discussion
sharing views only
thanks :rolleyes:

GypsySorcerer
05-08-2006, 01:13 PM
Hang in there, Caitlin. I hope everything works out for you and your family.

jadegypsy
05-08-2006, 03:08 PM
Hey there,
Try not to worry too much I'm sure you will have somewhere to live, and yeah this seems huge right now but always remember the material things in this world can be replaced, it's the immaterial things (people, etc) that can't be and those are the true losses.

A couple quotes for you:

"You have five minutes to wallow in the delicious misery, embrace it, enjoy it, discard it, and proceed" ~Elizabethtown

"What's important in this life, ask the man whose lost his wife" ~Pretenders

"Yes to dance beneath the diamond sky with one hand waving free sillouetted by the sea let me forget about today until tomorrow." ~Dylan

Sahara
05-08-2006, 05:10 PM
Sending prayers your way Caitlin -- hope it all works out for you :nod:

Chester
05-08-2006, 06:39 PM
Maybe life is like a roller coaster, and we only go down so we can have fun coming back up! :D :D

golddustwoman77
05-08-2006, 07:06 PM
I'm really sorry to hear about your situation, and I'm even more sorry that not everyone could say something understanding. :distress: As they say every cloud has a silver lining. Hopefully, something good will come out of all this. I'll keep you in my thoughts. :angel:

Enchanted_Stevi
05-08-2006, 07:37 PM
Thanx everyone for ur prayers...and thanx Niki for sticking up for me :xoxo: I kno my thread title is kinda weird but for a 16 year old who has been through so much having ur house taken away from u SUCKS!!!!! I have bad luck since 1997 and I just hope I get a streak of good luck one day soon. I am just sick of life!!!

Enchanted_Stevi
05-08-2006, 07:42 PM
BTW Niki I emptied my message box thingy....lol

SteveMacD
05-08-2006, 08:58 PM
That does suck. I was unemployed for five months last year, and now I work work with the homeless, so I know all to well. It's very hard going through this, however, you'll get through it. But, you HAVE to be determined that you'll get through it. The people who get out of our system the fastest are the ones who take control of their emotions and focus all of their energies getting out of being homeless. Of course, many, if not most of the people I deal with have a lot of other issues, too, such as alcohol and drug addictions and mental illness. Now, if they can do it, so can you. It is possible.

Sorcerer386
05-09-2006, 12:33 AM
Thanx everyone for ur prayers...and thanx Niki for sticking up for me :xoxo: I kno my thread title is kinda weird but for a 16 year old who has been through so much having ur house taken away from u SUCKS!!!!! I have bad luck since 1997 and I just hope I get a streak of good luck one day soon. I am just sick of life!!!

Caitlin, I don't know you very well...I can't claim to know everything you've gone through, and even if I did I might not be able to say I can relate. However, as someone with a terrible anxiety disorder, I can tell you that this thought pattern is not healthy for you. Now, I don't want this to sound condescending or like I'm talking down to you, but for your own sake, you have to look at some positives in your life, as hard as it may be to remember them. Which, I'm talking about this string of bad luck since 1997, NOT about the foreclosure on the house. You may not realize it because you're young, but these negative thoughts do build up in your subconscious, and I'm scared that one day they will explode like they did with me. I wouldn't wish what happened to me on anyone. I know life for you is hard right now, and again, I don't know you very well, but it still scares me anytime ANYONE says they are sick of life. Take this for what it's worth: you can bash me, tell me to shut up, agree with me, whatever. But, I thought I should offer that advice. Hang in there...sometimes the people with the hardest childhoods end up having the best adult lives.

BTFLCHLD
05-09-2006, 01:11 AM
pearls of wisdom caitlin
we all care about you
friends and family love you
find the positive caitlin
:angel:

paleshadow
05-09-2006, 03:07 AM
Thanx everyone for ur prayers...and thanx Niki for sticking up for me :xoxo: I kno my thread title is kinda weird but for a 16 year old who has been through so much having ur house taken away from u SUCKS!!!!! I have bad luck since 1997 and I just hope I get a streak of good luck one day soon. I am just sick of life!!!

Caitlin,
Hang in there. Just take every day as it comes and do your best. Please don't ever say you are sick of life. What you are going through is rough, but try to find a few moments in your sadness and stress to think of people who have gone through hard things and made it through alright. Be there for your family too. As hard as this is on you, it's got to be harder for them to lose what they worked for. It's probably safe to say that on top of that they feel that they may have failed their children. Be strong for them and take comfort in eachother.

ragandbone
05-09-2006, 03:52 AM
Hi Caitlin, I actually went through this when I was 17. It is scary, and awful I know, and I am really sorry to hear that you are going through this!

For me the hardest thing was that my mother was so stressed, and caught up in the legal problems, that I couldn't lean on her at all when I needed to. I recall that I made a lot of bad decisions at that time, while looking for a feeling of security, and I didn't really look for guidance from adults who were outside my family.

Obviously I don't know the details of your situation, aside from what you posted, but I want to encourage you to find some steady mentor or counselor (school?), teacher, or relative, to talk to while all of this is going on.
I think it is really great that you shared this with us.

Enchanted_Stevi
05-09-2006, 09:24 AM
Caitlin, I don't know you very well...I can't claim to know everything you've gone through, and even if I did I might not be able to say I can relate. However, as someone with a terrible anxiety disorder, I can tell you that this thought pattern is not healthy for you. Now, I don't want this to sound condescending or like I'm talking down to you, but for your own sake, you have to look at some positives in your life, as hard as it may be to remember them. Which, I'm talking about this string of bad luck since 1997, NOT about the foreclosure on the house. You may not realize it because you're young, but these negative thoughts do build up in your subconscious, and I'm scared that one day they will explode like they did with me. I wouldn't wish what happened to me on anyone. I know life for you is hard right now, and again, I don't know you very well, but it still scares me anytime ANYONE says they are sick of life. Take this for what it's worth: you can bash me, tell me to shut up, agree with me, whatever. But, I thought I should offer that advice. Hang in there...sometimes the people with the hardest childhoods end up having the best adult lives.

I totally agree with everything u say. I do have really bad anxiety and depression. I scare myself when I say I am sick of life. I just cant stand it anymore. It seems like everything goes wrong in it. I do really hope I have a great adult hood. I do take medicine for my anxiety and depression but I keep on forgeting to take it...STUPID ME! Thanx again for those words

Enchanted_Stevi
05-09-2006, 09:28 AM
pearls of wisdom caitlin
we all care about you
friends and family love you
find the positive caitlin
:angel:

Thanx Niki I kno That i do have many freinds and family that care about me....I aleays try to find positive stuff

Enchanted_Stevi
05-09-2006, 09:30 AM
Caitlin,
Hang in there. Just take every day as it comes and do your best. Please don't ever say you are sick of life. What you are going through is rough, but try to find a few moments in your sadness and stress to think of people who have gone through hard things and made it through alright. Be there for your family too. As hard as this is on you, it's got to be harder for them to lose what they worked for. It's probably safe to say that on top of that they feel that they may have failed their children. Be strong for them and take comfort in eachother.

Thank You... I really dont like to say i am sick of life but that is my feelings. I try to confort my mom and her boyfreind but its kinda hard to comfort 2 alcoholics...When I come home from school they r already like buzzed

Enchanted_Stevi
05-09-2006, 09:33 AM
Hi Caitlin, I actually went through this when I was 17. It is scary, and awful I know, and I am really sorry to hear that you are going through this!

For me the hardest thing was that my mother was so stressed, and caught up in the legal problems, that I couldn't lean on her at all when I needed to. I recall that I made a lot of bad decisions at that time, while looking for a feeling of security, and I didn't really look for guidance from adults who were outside my family.

Obviously I don't know the details of your situation, aside from what you posted, but I want to encourage you to find some steady mentor or counselor (school?), teacher, or relative, to talk to while all of this is going on.
I think it is really great that you shared this with us.

Thanx...I am glad i am not the only one who has went through this! I HATE to see my mom cry and I try to comfort her but I start crying and its just so hard to be strong when ur whole family is stressed and try to lean on eachother and we cant. I do have people I talk to about this tuff like Niki(BTFLCHLD) and my frind Ally

jannieC
05-09-2006, 10:58 AM
Caitlin, sometimes things that seem totally ****ty happen for a reason. Maybe you need to get away from your mom and her boyfriend for a little while if they're buzzed when you come home from school? You *will* get through all this, and it will make you a stronger adult. I had a lot of hardships at your age too- my father died suddenly when I was 17- and I made horrible choices. I ended up raped and left for dead in when I was 21. Try to stay strong and focused and as someone said earlier- find a <i>stable</i> adult (school counselor, etc) to help you through this process. The adults on this board are here for you too, but you definitely need someone in "real" life in your corner, helping you make decisions. Hang in there and please try to make it a priority to remember to take your meds. Things will seem unbearable if you don't. :xoxo:

Enchanted_Stevi
05-09-2006, 11:57 AM
Caitlin, sometimes things that seem totally ****ty happen for a reason. Maybe you need to get away from your mom and her boyfriend for a little while if they're buzzed when you come home from school? You *will* get through all this, and it will make you a stronger adult. I had a lot of hardships at your age too- my father died suddenly when I was 17- and I made horrible choices. I ended up raped and left for dead in when I was 21. Try to stay strong and focused and as someone said earlier- find a <i>stable</i> adult (school counselor, etc) to help you through this process. The adults on this board are here for you too, but you definitely need someone in "real" life in your corner, helping you make decisions. Hang in there and please try to make it a priority to remember to take your meds. Things will seem unbearable if you don't. :xoxo:

I have been telling myself that I need to get away for a while for a month or 2....I REALLY need a vacation!!!!!! I will be strong...I AM related to my mom....lol...I am actually in this thing at school which 3 of my freinds r in with me and we talk about our parents drinking and doing drugs...it helps me cope

BTFLCHLD
05-09-2006, 12:03 PM
...I am actually in this thing at school which 3 of my freinds r in with me and we talk about our parents drinking and doing drugs...it helps me cope and you know how pleased i am you have become a part of this group...
talking about your shared experiences in a structured enviornment will become a positive direction for you...
as ive said it is not good to keep things in honey...
i am very very proud of you :angel:

keep it up caitlin...moving forward...
youve so much to look forward to sweetgirl :nod:
life is sweet...always remember you are loved :xoxo:

ragandbone
05-09-2006, 01:05 PM
I am actually in this thing at school which 3 of my freinds r in with me and we talk about our parents drinking and doing drugs...it helps me cope
I am really glad you have that group, and I am glad to hear that you have some other adult support, including Niki.

I wanted to quickly respond to dreamongypsydkm
's post to say that I can check off some of the horribles listed,and some not listed like many other Ledgies, and just like so many adults, (alcoholic parent, watching a parent try to kill the other, date rape, and on) and I do count the house foreclosure as traumatic and difficult. I don't even think I could rate awful events as being more or less horrible, what can be the most difficult is the cumulative effect of these events. Some people are more resilient, and better equipped for adversity than others.

It is hard to have perspective when you are in the spin cycle, and I often find myself wishing now that I could go back and tell me teenage self about all of the amazing adventures I would have in life, and that there would be more "bad luck" and but also a lot of good and so many opportunities. And, I wish I could have known how much control and power I already had over my own life.

Sorceror386 brought up an important point: watch out for the negative loop that can happen when you feel overwhelmed, and keep talking to your friends and advisors! This is a great time to plan where you want to be in a few years and make it happen.

DavidMn
05-09-2006, 04:03 PM
david...youve turned MOD?
we are having a discussion
sharing views only
thanks :rolleyes:I wasnt coming after you dear. sorry.

Enchanted_Stevi
05-09-2006, 07:07 PM
and you know how pleased i am you have become a part of this group...
talking about your shared experiences in a structured enviornment will become a positive direction for you...
as ive said it is not good to keep things in honey...
i am very very proud of you :angel:

keep it up caitlin...moving forward...
youve so much to look forward to sweetgirl :nod:
life is sweet...always remember you are loved :xoxo:

Niki I am so glad u are proud of me!!!!!!!:xoxo:

BTFLCHLD
05-09-2006, 09:10 PM
:xoxo:
and youve something else to share with us, dont you younglady? :nod:
we all want to hear about the p/t phonework you begin
friday with your mom...youre so
'jazzed' about that and so am i!!! youre going to be
very good @ it as you shown with your trail-run today!
excellent news caitlin! keep finding the positive :angel:

Sorcerer386
05-09-2006, 10:18 PM
I totally agree with everything u say. I do have really bad anxiety and depression. I scare myself when I say I am sick of life. I just cant stand it anymore. It seems like everything goes wrong in it. I do really hope I have a great adult hood. I do take medicine for my anxiety and depression but I keep on forgeting to take it...STUPID ME! Thanx again for those words

Oh you are very welcome hon. I'm just glad that you took it as I meant it and not as something derrogatory. As far as your adulthood, now, I know I might be getting into rather far-fetched things, but whenever I can, I watch Montel on Wednesdays because Sylvia Browne, the psychic, is on every Wednesday. I remember her saying on one episode that everyone has some point of extreme roughness in their lives, either early on, in the middle, or near the end. She apparently had a rough life early on, and she said she was glad that she did because she got it over with. So, hopefully it'll be the same for you. :)

GODDESS6
05-09-2006, 10:31 PM
MY HOUSE IS BEING FORECLOSED!!!!! In 2 months I will be homeless!!!!!!! I might have to move with my dad. Which means I wont have a computer I DONT KNO WHAT TO DO!!!!!
:( :( :( :( :( :( :(
i am very sorry to hear this, but things could get worse, when i was your age my father passed away suddenly, i would give any house just to have him back~

don't worry things will look up~

BTFLCHLD
05-11-2006, 02:12 PM
hi caitlin
how are you doing?

irishgrl
05-11-2006, 03:27 PM
Caitlin, I dont know you but I can relate. I lost ALL my belongings when my husband deserted me. I was pregnant with a 4yr old and in a new town. didnt know anyone, didnt have a car or phone, didnt know anyone and my family all lived somewhere else. its tough. But, you will survive. you WILL.

Im there for you. believe it.

JazmenFlowers
05-11-2006, 03:30 PM
But, you will survive. you WILL.

Im there for you. believe it.
amen. I've been kind of following this and we're all here for you. it will get better.

xdreamsunwindx
05-11-2006, 04:34 PM
I'm sorry to hear this, but remember, you do have your dad to live with, even if it means being without the internet. Not a lot of kids can say that. If internet access is that important to you, go to a library or something. Personally, I'd rather have somewhere to stay than not have a computer to use.

irishgrl
05-11-2006, 05:09 PM
I'm sorry to hear this, but remember, you do have your dad to live with, even if it means being without the internet. Not a lot of kids can say that. If internet access is that important to you, go to a library or something. Personally, I'd rather have somewhere to stay than not have a computer to use.

Is that the ONLY reason she's not looking forward to living with her dad?
maybe there's more to this than meets the eye?

xdreamsunwindx
05-11-2006, 05:20 PM
Is that the ONLY reason she's not looking forward to living with her dad?

Well, she mentioned it as if it were really important, so I'm just saying that it's not the end of the world, she has options, etc.

maybe there's more to this than meets the eye?

Maybe, probably, who knows. I'm just looking at what she's mentioned, and that's the impression I got. I stopped looking deeper into things a long time ago, especially internet postings.

irishgrl
05-11-2006, 05:29 PM
Well, she mentioned it as if it were really important, so I'm just saying that it's not the end of the world, she has options, etc.



Maybe, probably, who knows. I'm just looking at what she's mentioned, and that's the impression I got. I stopped looking deeper into things a long time ago, especially internet postings.


You may have a point....Ive just been a child advocate for too long I guess....
I hope everything is hunky dory.

and btw: if the internet is your ONLY social outlet, by GAWD it IS important. The lack of a computer to connect with cyber friends (who may also be real life friends we dont know) can be very devastating. I know that I go thru withdrawals when my phone line is not functioning....(pre-DSL) not being snarky. just saying....

Enchanted_Stevi
05-11-2006, 07:03 PM
and youve something else to share with us, dont you younglady? :nod:
we all want to hear about the p/t phonework you begin
friday with your mom...youre so
'jazzed' about that and so am i!!! youre going to be
very good @ it as you shown with your trail-run today!
excellent news caitlin! keep finding the positive :angel:

I trid to post it at my freind house but it wasnt working...ANYWAY

I got a job at my mom's work Answering phone and answering the door.....I pick up the phone and say "Good Afternoon" and they ask for who ever and I say "Please hold"(If they are there) and I use the intercom and and say "Insert name you have a call on line one" and thats it and if the person is not there I take a message....it actually really fun and I get to dress up and I get paid $6.75 an hour. ALSO, my first day is Friday and I work also on Tuesday and Thursday enxt week:thumbsup:

Enchanted_Stevi
05-11-2006, 07:05 PM
Oh you are very welcome hon. I'm just glad that you took it as I meant it and not as something derrogatory. As far as your adulthood, now, I know I might be getting into rather far-fetched things, but whenever I can, I watch Montel on Wednesdays because Sylvia Browne, the psychic, is on every Wednesday. I remember her saying on one episode that everyone has some point of extreme roughness in their lives, either early on, in the middle, or near the end. She apparently had a rough life early on, and she said she was glad that she did because she got it over with. So, hopefully it'll be the same for you. :)



I LOVE watching Sylivia Brown! But I never kno when she is Montel. Yes , Hopefully I will get over it tooo

Enchanted_Stevi
05-11-2006, 07:06 PM
i am very sorry to hear this, but things could get worse, when i was your age my father passed away suddenly, i would give any house just to have him back~

don't worry things will look up~


I am so sorry baout ur dad! I do really hope things will look up!!!

Enchanted_Stevi
05-11-2006, 07:08 PM
Caitlin, I dont know you but I can relate. I lost ALL my belongings when my husband deserted me. I was pregnant with a 4yr old and in a new town. didnt know anyone, didnt have a car or phone, didnt know anyone and my family all lived somewhere else. its tough. But, you will survive. you WILL.

Im there for you. believe it.


WOW! I am so sorry!!!! I kno other ppl have had worse problems then me but this has neve rhappened to me before. I AM realted to my mom so i will survive

irishgrl
05-11-2006, 07:25 PM
WOW! I am so sorry!!!! I kno other ppl have had worse problems then me but this has neve rhappened to me before. I AM realted to my mom so i will surviveDont worry sweetheart! all will be well........

BTFLCHLD
05-17-2006, 09:43 PM
Originally Posted by dreamongypsydkm
Hey I'm not trying to belittle anything she's told us, I just found it slightly on the naive side to say "nothing can get worse than this" and it would only serve to help her if she knew that this really isn't the end of the world.

Originally Posted by BTFLCHLD yes we all know that perhaps things can get worse than this...sometimes it is BITCH and unfort for others its mosttimes a BITCH...however life lessons while easy to advise on are also learned the hardway...i doubt you focusing on her word choice will help matters on her end at this time. i took the title of the thread as an expression 'nothing could get worse than this' and im not sure who you youve hung with or hang with but its an expression that is unfort used often when chit happens...when i hear this i imagine ones arms/hands in the air seeking the heavens as to why out of frustration...i suppose they could say 'nothing could get better than this' but that would hardly make sense...no doubt someone somewhere would find that an odd word choice as well.
I'm done. What, the message is too short?

IRONY? You haven't shut-up since!

xdreamsunwindx
05-17-2006, 09:45 PM
IRONY? You haven't shut-up since!

Christ on a cracker.

I thought we were done with this already?

Johnny Stew
05-17-2006, 09:56 PM
Yeah, ladies, I think it's time to drop it.