How Old Is Too Old To Lose Your Virginity??

[foxyluva]

Hey guys, i had an interesting conversation with my friend about losing your virginity - he said that he lost his at 14, and he was told by friends that that was a really old age to lose it, and alot of them lost it at 11 and 12. Now we are both 19, and im still one :angel: but the only difference is im gay, and he is straight (many of you will know how difficult that can be when growing up) - so my question to you is, what age is still having your virginity kind of weird?? How Old Is Too Old??

[markolas]

I was 22, I think...so you're not too old. :laugh:

[Serendipity]

Guessing the question should probably really be "how young is too young?"!!

All I know, I was pretty average for the people I know but my little sister is that age now, and I would hate to think of her going there! Altho i guess its a bit different because at least I had a long term boyfriend I cared about, and she doesnt.

In short, I dont know the answer to your question. But younger than the age of consent (16 here), is too young, IMO, physcially and emotionally. Other than that, whenever you feel mature enough and "ready" (whatever that means". And take proper precautions, obviously!

You're never too old, its not weird, its just doing whats right for you!!!!

~Nicki

[ontheEdgeof17]

I'm 23 and still a virgin. :angel:

[markolas]

I'm 23 and still a virgin. :angel:

Are not. :lol:

[ryan8472]

I was 14. So I can't really comment. :p Tho I would think that if it hadn't happened after about 30 years, something may be amiss. :laugh:

[wondergirl9847]

I am 29 and am one. :) Waiting until marriage is my whole thing, but I've never even had a real boyfriend, so....like I have a freakin' choice. :laugh:

I don't believe ANY age is too wierd. If you aren't comfortable, then, don't do it. Gay, straight, I don't care. My mom knew May Owen (socialite from Fort Worth) and she told my mom one time that she lived to be in her 90's because she'd never had sex. :laugh:

I will say that 11, 12, 13, 14 is scary. That is WAY too young to even be discussing having sex. I didn't even know what it was until I was like, 12 or
13, but that was in the 80's....ahhh, such a simpler time. LOL!!

[Karlie]

I'm 15 and a virgin, and so are almost all of my friends.

[foxyluva]

Dont get me wrong, im kinda proud of being one, but, it suddenly occured to me that all my friends, and i mean all are no longer virgins, and it seems like im the last horse to cross the finish line :laugh:

It was just a question that i wanted some opinions on, its not like im going threw a personal crisis or anything :laugh:

[markolas]

I am 29 and am one. :) Waiting until marriage is my whole thing, but I've never even had a real boyfriend, so....like I have a freakin' choice. :laugh:

If I waited until marriage, I'd be waiting a loooooooooooong time. :laugh:

I will say that 11, 12, 13, 14 is scary. That is WAY too young to even be discussing having sex. I didn't even know what it was until I was like, 12 or
13, but that was in the 80's....ahhh, such a simpler time. LOL!!

Is it even possible to have sex when you're 11 or 12?? :shrug:

[wondergirl9847]

If I waited until marriage, I'd be waiting a loooooooooooong time. :laugh:



Is it even possible to have sex when you're 11 or 12?? :shrug:

Marriage is NOT a piece of paper, my friend. ;)

I've heard of like, 10 year old girls being pregnant, so yes, at 11,12...they can. :distress:

[foxyluva]

If I waited until marriage, I'd be waiting a loooooooooooong time. :laugh:



Is it even possible to have sex when you're 11 or 12?? :shrug:

I know, i didnt even know what it was until 12, let alone actually doing it :lol:

[BTFLCHLD]

well...there is such a thing as waiting too long
if there arent any marriage material prospects
on the horizon...at least thats what some
woman was moaning about in an article i read...
now the idea of it has her terrified more than anything.
i have a really dumb quesiton to ask...but i wont.
i will research the net for answers ;)

[Jyqm]

Hey guys, i had an interesting conversation with my friend about losing your virginity - he said that he lost his at 14, and he was told by friends that that was a really old age to lose it, and alot of them lost it at 11 and 12. Now we are both 19, and im still one :angel: but the only difference is im gay, and he is straight (many of you will know how difficult that can be when growing up) - so my question to you is, what age is still having your virginity kind of weird?? How Old Is Too Old??

Good lord. I thought this was going to be some comical thread about some fifty-year-old who was just itching to finally lose it but thought maybe it was too late and they ought to just throw in the towel.

14 is a very young age to be having sex, and 11 or 12 is just ridiculous. I don't think I even figured out masturbation until I was 12. I would guess that some of your friend's friends were just flat out lying. Otherwise that's a bit disturbing. I really doubt that many or any 12 or 14 year olds are remotely mature enough to be able to deal with the incredible responsibility - both physical and emotional - that sex entails.

Losing your virginity isn't like getting your voter registration card or buying a pack of cigarettes. There's no pre-set age beyond which you really should have had sex already. You should lose your virginity when you find a person that you care about enough - and who cares about you enough - to want to have that kind of relationship with.

If someone is in their 30s or 40s and are still a virgin, I think what's "weird" isn't that they've never had sex, per se, but that they've never had a mature, serious romantic relationship (of which sex tends to be a part).

Bottom line: There's nothing "weird" about being a 19 year old virgin. There are lots of people in their twenties who are still virgins, many of them by choice. There's actually a growing abstinence (until marriage, of course) movement in the US.

EDIT: Does this post make it seem like I think sex outside the confines of a serious relationship is wrong? I don't really believe that, though I think it's something that is often important for a first experience - it's always easier venturing into unknown waters in the security that a relationship can bring. Beyond that, though, if you're into casual sex, knock yourself out. Not that anybody here really cares what I think or needs me to approve of their sex lives, or vice versa.

[Serendipity]

Personally, and I really do mean its just my view, I couldnt have chosen to wait until marriage. I'm not particularly religious, and well, I'm only human. But I really do think its best to wait until you're with somone you care for and who cares for you. And that you are both willing to accept that its a lot of fun but can and does have consequences. I'm glad I did it when I did, and I have no regrets even if that relationship didnt work out because it was right for me. If that time had come 10 or 15 years later for me, I would still have waited to be in that relationship.

11 or 12? Lord, that just freaks me out. More so because I know it does happen!

~Nicki

On edit - to agree with Jyqm.....nothing to say sex is only ok in a relastionship. To each their own amongst consenting and careful adults. But for a first time...yeah it might be better to wait for that security of a good relationship

[SuzeQuze]

I don't think there's anything weird about being a 19 year old virgin. That is still very young and I'm sure it is normal. People talk a good talk about sex but who knows what the truth is. I know things have gotten much looser lately and it is sad. If I had it to do over again I would wait wait wait!!! When you know who you are as a person and are comfortable with that and have something to share then that may be a good time. I think early sex really messes with your identity. Especially if you pick a sociopath. :lol:

[BTFLCHLD]

well...there is such a thing as waiting too long
if there arent any marriage material prospects
on the horizon...at least thats what some
woman was moaning about in an article i read...
now the idea of it has her terrified more than anything.
i have a really dumb quesiton to ask...but i wont.
i will research the net for answers ;)

IMO anyone under 18 shouldnt be indulging
thats what i would want for my kids anyway
may not be realistic but thats what id like them to strive for
saying that...i dont have kids.

[Nixxxed]

Don't rush it. When it's right, it's right - for YOU, not for anyone else.

Also, don't be hung up on one physical act. There are many ways to experience intimacy and/or pleasure. So, technically, you're a virgin for all those, too.

And I'm not talking about only sex. Have you ever slow-danced with your loved one on a dance floor? How about a romantic picnic? Walked hand-in-hand down the street? Kissed in public? Those types of things can provide just as big a rush, and be just as fulfilling, than anything you could do in bed.

One last suggestion - PLAY SAFE. And good luck, and have fun, on your own terms. :xoxo:

[wondergirl9847]

I think early sex really messes with your identity. Especially if you pick a sociopath. :lol:

Then, I don't really think sex is what you need to be worrying about. :shocked:

LOL

[Karlie]

IMO anyone under 18 shouldnt be indulging
thats what i would want for my kids anyway
may not be realistic but thats what id like them to strive for
saying that...i dont have kids.

OMG your signature is hilarious! I love your icon too.

[SuzeQuze]

Then, I don't really think sex is what you need to be worrying about. :shocked:

LOL

Haha! I was really unlucky and the BF was a lying bastard who had no capacity for empathy or real caring. Isn't that swell?

[wondergirl9847]

Haha! I was really unlucky and the BF was a lying bastard who had no capacity for empathy or real caring. Isn't that swell?

You came to your senses. :)

[CelticGypsy]

Hey guys, i had an interesting conversation with my friend about losing your virginity - he said that he lost his at 14, and he was told by friends that that was a really old age to lose it, and alot of them lost it at 11 and 12. Now we are both 19, and im still one :angel: but the only difference is im gay, and he is straight (many of you will know how difficult that can be when growing up) - so my question to you is, what age is still having your virginity kind of weird?? How Old Is Too Old??


I was 22 and I had been engaged for about six months. What happened, I got pregnant but at least the wedding date had been already been planned three weeks later. Yes, I could have waited but at least I waited for the right man and he was the only one and we are happy after 27 years of marriage. He still makes me tingle:lol:

Better to wait for that right person. I have grown up kids that had sex for first time at ages 16 and 19. Messed up relationships and they would drift from one boyfriend to another. They are older and wiser now and finally have learned that casual sex is not as great as everyone told them it would be. It is better to be in a relationship with somebody you love and respect than have sex with someone you could care less about. Less stress and worries.

[xdreamsunwindx]

Humping on the parking meter's always fun.

*g* nobody gets it yay!

[macfanken]

I'm 23 and still a virgin. :angel:


Lies!!! :lol:

[amber]

Too old is if you feel like you may explode or implode, and then you do. That's how you know you were too old.
Too young is people should wait until they're out of highschool (perhaps specifically for oh, about 10 days, and then maybe 10 days before your 18th birthday. For example) So that no one will know about your sh**, and no one will be talking about it all around school. That was one of my specific reasons/things I wanted to avoid at all costs.

[SortaSavageLike]

126 years.

Hey, I like to be optimistic from time to time! :)

[Brwn_eyes0511]

Call it the Catholic in me...but 14! WTF!!!???

[ryan8472]

Gawd, now I feel like a little hussy. :eek: :lol:

[Stephanie]

I was 15, but it just so happened that I married the guy 10 years after that and we have now been together a total of 15 years!

But I don't even want to think about my future children having sex that young. I would rather a person wait and be happy than be too young and be sorry.

[sara1998]

I would guess that some of your friend's friends were just flat out lying. Otherwise that's a bit disturbing. I really doubt that many or any 12 or 14 year olds are remotely mature enough to be able to deal with the incredible responsibility - both physical and emotional - that sex entails.
I'm here to tell you, 12-14 year old children are in no way capable of handling the emotional or physical aspects of sex. If they have or are having sex at that age, it's peer pressure, or, there's something wrong going on at home. A lot of kids that age say they're doing it, and lying about it, to feel like they're cool. It is disturbing. I'm too embarrassed to tell when I lost mine, but, if you're too young like I was, you'll feel self conscious about it for years to come. I only wish that when I was 19 I could honestly say I was still a virgin. Be proud of yourself you've held out for so long, and don't worry that you are too old. When you find the right one, you'll know when it's time!

[Brwn_eyes0511]

Gawd, now I feel like a little hussy. :eek: :lol:

OH NO! I'm sorry, I didn't mean to imply that...

:sorry:

[sparky]

Ho****. I was very young. But I won't go into that. Also - how do you want to define virginity ?:eek:

Most kids under 18 do not have the emotional maturity to deal with sex under 18, but it doesn't stop them. Didn't stop me. And thankfully I wasn't in the arena to be getting anyone pregnant. It can definitely mess up girls, as they tend to place more of an emotional investment on sex. But too old ? I would say in your 20's is probably pushing it, but if you aren't ready, you aren't ready.
Everyone has different priorites and frankly sex means many different things to different people.

[amber]

Ho****. I was very young. But I won't go into that. Also - how do you want to define virginity ?:eek:

Most kids under 18 do not have the emotional maturity to deal with sex under 18, but it doesn't stop them. Didn't stop me. And thankfully I wasn't in the arena to be getting anyone pregnant. It can definitely mess up girls, as they tend to place more of an emotional investment on sex. But too old ? I would say in your 20's is probably pushing it, but if you aren't ready, you aren't ready.
Everyone has different priorites and frankly sex means many different things to different people.
Speaking of which - you gonna write that manual? :laugh:

[sara1998]

Speaking of which - you gonna write that manual? :laugh:
Too funny!:laugh:

[sparky]

Speaking of which - you gonna write that manual? :laugh:

WHICH ONE ?

[ryan8472]

WHICH ONE ?
The real thick one. :P

[sparky]

The real thick one. :P

SOOO difficult to restrain myself. But I think you know what I am not saying.:wavey:

[amber]

WHICH ONE ?
"How to Seduce Every Boy You Come Across - A thirteen year old's guide to gay conquests"
:lol:
JK.
:wavey:

[dissention]

"How to Seduce Every Boy You Come Across - A thirteen year old's guide to gay conquests"
:lol:
JK.
:wavey:

The wingnuts would start burning books again. :laugh:

[ryan8472]

SOOO difficult to restrain myself. But I think you know what I am not saying.:wavey:
I do. But don't start restraining yourself now. Josh and I never have. :laugh:

[markolas]

Ho****. I was very young. But I won't go into that. Also - how do you want to define virginity ?:eek:

That's an excellent question. And depending on how it's answered you could consider me a virgin until a year and a half ago. :eek: :D

[amber]

The wingnuts would start burning books again. :laugh:
After they wrote down all the good tips. :cool: You know what a high percentage of wingnuts like 13 year old boys, right? :shocked:

[dissention]

After they wrote down all the good tips. :cool: You know what a high percentage of wingnuts like 13 year old boys, right? :shocked:

I'm sure NAMBLA is mostly made up of wingnuts. :laugh:

[sparky]

I do. But don't start restraining yourself now. Josh and I never have. :laugh:

Just to get it off my chest and...outta captivity...

I've got your real thick one right here, buddy.

You like that, don't you ?

:laugh:

[sparky]

"How to Seduce Every Boy You Come Across - A thirteen year old's guide to gay conquests"
:lol:
JK.
:wavey:

You are trashing my rep.:rolleyes:

I was so innocent then.

[amber]

You are trashing my rep.:rolleyes:

I was so innocent then.

Trashing? If that was true, and I'm not saying it is, you would deserve some kind of medal. Or at least a lucrative publishing contract. :cool:

[sparky]

Trashing? If that was true, and I'm not saying it is, you would deserve some kind of medal. Or at least a lucrative publishing contract. :cool:

You need to be my agent.

[amber]

You need to be my agent.

10 percent, baby! *drool*
:D

[Brwn_eyes0511]

10 percent, baby! *drool*
:D

10 percent...

THAT'S IT!? :lol:

[amber]

10 percent...

THAT'S IT!? :lol:
well, I didn't write the book. Standard agent fee.

[Brwn_eyes0511]

well, I didn't write the book. Standard agent fee.

Yea but come on...you gave him the idea! :nod:

[markolas]

Just to get it off my chest and...outta captivity...

I've got your real thick one right here, buddy.

You like that, don't you ?

:laugh:

Where's mine? :p :lol:

[Brwn_eyes0511]

Where's mine? :p :lol:

*Raises hand too* :wavey:


:lol: :laugh:

[BTFLCHLD]

no one will know about your sh**, and no one will be talking about it all around my amber how times have changed! :D







hehe ;)
you know that was funny :xoxo:
spanksmelaterz!

[amber]

my amber how times have changed! :D







hehe ;)
you know that was funny :xoxo:
spanksmelaterz!
:laugh: :laugh:
totally. It's much diff, though. Why? It just is!

[BombaySapphire3]

According to alot of gay queens I've talked to by their defintion of being a virgin I still am one and plan on remaining so for the rest of my days.

[Miss Vicky]

But too old ? I would say in your 20's is probably pushing it.

Thanks for the reassurance there, Sparks. :distress:

24 1/2 year old virgin here.

Anybody wanna help me out with that problem? Anyone? :]

[cliffdweller]

If I had it to do over again I would wait wait wait!!! When you know who you are as a person and are comfortable with that and have something to share then that may be a good time.

I couldn't agree more. I think the first time, when you're a teenager, is usually uncomfortable and awkward because a.) you don't really know what you want or what your partner wants and b.) you both are not sexually mature enough to even really KNOW what pleasures you both :eek:, well, seriously, sex is about enjoyment and pleasure, and an emotional investment (to some, not all) so when you're a teenager (and even in your early 20's) you don't know enough about yourself or your body (or your partner's) to make those judgements or understand what they even mean. Man, I'm about to turn 30 and I'm SOOOO stoked because I'm finally learning these things...man, desire, sexual forthrightness when you're in your late 20's to early 30's means something SOOOOOOO much different than when you're a teenager or early 20's. I like to call it "sexual agency," everyone should strive for it.

[DavidMn]

Well, for me it was very interesting. I didn't until I was 31. I'd never done anything with a woman, and had known for sure I was gay since I was 14. BUt for whatever reason I didnt do anything until 3 years ago. Since then, however......:laugh:

[SuzeQuze]

I couldn't agree more. I think the first time, when you're a teenager, is usually uncomfortable and awkward because a.) you don't really know what you want or what your partner wants and b.) you both are not sexually mature enough to even really KNOW what pleasures you both :eek:, well, seriously, sex is about enjoyment and pleasure, and an emotional investment (to some, not all) so when you're a teenager (and even in your early 20's) you don't know enough about yourself or your body (or your partner's) to make those judgements or understand what they even mean. Man, I'm about to turn 30 and I'm SOOOO stoked because I'm finally learning these things...man, desire, sexual forthrightness when you're in your late 20's to early 30's means something SOOOOOOO much different than when you're a teenager or early 20's. I like to call it "sexual agency," everyone should strive for it.

Right, plus for me it clouded my judgement. I put him before all else. What a dumb thing for a teen to do!

[cliffdweller]

Right, plus for me it clouded my judgement. I put him before all else. What a dumb thing for a teen to do!

:laugh: Don't worry, that's what A LOT of teenage girls do! I think it's in the "how to be an angsty teenage girl" handbook.

[sparky]

Thanks for the reassurance there, Sparks. :distress:



You have my full support. Like I said, people have different needs and experiences. I am sure you will get what you need when you need it, so to speak.

[sparky]

Where's mine? :p :lol:


Well, Ryan asked first. And I think I scared him.:lol:

[markolas]

Well, Ryan asked first. And I think I scared him.:lol:

Not going there. :laugh:

On a slightly unrelated note...I've been curious about something and I want to take a poll, but I wonder if the mods would deem it "inappropriate."

[Nixxxed]

Not going there. :laugh:

On a slightly unrelated note...I've been curious about something and I want to take a poll, but I wonder if the mods would deem it "inappropriate."
You could always do it on The Lewdge...

[markolas]

You could always do it on The Lewdge...

Don't tease. :p :laugh:

[markolas]

If it's the "top or bottom?" pole, Towie did that on the second ledge.
If not, disregard. :D

What is the second ledge????

And no, it isn't that. It's a little less sexually explicit. :D

[sparky]

What is the second ledge????

And no, it isn't that. It's a little less sexually explicit. :D


The seven wonders board.
You didn't see that thread ? It is a hoot and a holler.
I wanna know about this poll ! :blob1:

[The Tower]

Well, Ryan asked first. And I think I scared him.:lol:
Yeah, I think you did too..... :laugh: Once he turns 18 then I'll speak my mind.

My virginity thing? With homo gays the concept of virginity doesn't really apply very well. For me, 13 - 14 - 15 ... by the time I reached 15, I'd done all the "basic" stuff. I still am a Dirty Sanchez virgin, though.

[strandinthewind]

The seven wonders board.
You didn't see that thread ? It is a hoot and a holler.
I wanna know about this poll ! :blob1:

pole -- - - -

[Brwn_eyes0511]

If it's the "top or bottom?" pole, Towie did that on the second ledge.
If not, disregard. :D

I must have missed that one....

:laugh:

[The Tower]

I wanna know about this poll ! :blob1:
Yeah- spill it!!

[markolas]

Yeah, I think you did too..... :laugh: Once he turns 18 then I'll speak my mind.

My virginity thing? With homo gays the concept of virginity doesn't really apply very well. For me, 13 - 14 - 15 ... by the time I reached 15, I'd done all the "basic" stuff. I still am a Dirty Sanchez virgin, though.

Where did you grow up that you found boys to fool around with at 13-15??? It was only years later that I found out about any other gay people I went to school with (and it still isn't that many...and it wasn't that small a school).

And what's a Dirty Sanchez virgin?

[Neal]

My virginity thing? With homo gays the concept of virginity doesn't really apply very well. For me, 13 - 14 - 15 ... by the time I reached 15, I'd done all the "basic" stuff. I still am a Dirty Sanchez virgin, though.

How do you figure the concept doesn't apply to us "homo gays"? :confused:

And what the hell's a "Dirty Sanchez" virgin? :shocked:

[markolas]

Yeah- spill it!!

Well, I was just curious as to whether I was in the minority on something. Nipple sensitivity, specifically. :cool:

[sparky]

My virginity thing? With homo gays the concept of virginity doesn't really apply very well. For me, 13 - 14 - 15 ... by the time I reached 15, I'd done all the "basic" stuff.

Oh man, me too. More like 13 for me. There are a few things I didn't know about until college, but the basics I had mastered by high school. :lol:

I still am a Dirty Sanchez virgin, though.

THANK GOD FOR THAT !

[mylittledemon]

My first time was the summer before I turned 18. It was great. Looking back, I didnt know what the hell I was doing...but at the time it was "awesome." I had had oral sex several times before that, but the first time there was some poke-age was summer of 97'. Great times.

[mylittledemon]

And what the hell's a "Dirty Sanchez" virgin? :shocked:


Oh my god you guys are NASTY. HAHAHA! Thats sick. Dirty Sanchez is probably worse than "The Walrus" which I've been told is more often possible than you'd think.

[Neal]

Oh my god you guys are NASTY. HAHAHA! Thats sick. Dirty Sanchez is probably worse than "The Walrus" which I've been told is more often possible than you'd think.

What in god's name are you people talking about??? :(

And here I thouht I was fairly well versed in all things smutty... *sigh*

[skcin]

You queens aren't going to make the straight married lady tell them what a Dirty Sanchez is, are you? :p BTW - I'm a Dirty Sanchez virgin too. :laugh:



I was 16, he was 21. I stayed with the guy until I was almost 19 - then he asked me to marry him. :shocked: Um..........no, dude, I want to go to school & stuff. Oh, and I don't want to spend the rest of my life with you. 'Kay?

Mark & I started dating 3 months later. :)


Markolas - is you poll about how many partners people have had? :shrug:

[strandinthewind]

My first time was the summer before I turned 18. It was great. Looking back, I didnt know what the hell I was doing...but at the time it was "awesome." I had had oral sex several times before that, but the first time there was some poke-age was summer of 97'. Great times.

I think most guys are that old or younger. I think far more guys are willing and able than girls allow themselves to be, at when I was in school. I mean each class had the one or two loose girls that like 30 of the guys had allegedly been with :laugh:

[The Tower]

Where did you grow up that you found boys to fool around with at 13-15??? It was only years later that I found out about any other gay people I went to school with (and it still isn't that many...and it wasn't that small a school).
I sought them out like a bee looks for honey, baby. I had peers that were interested in getting it on, so I did.

And what's a Dirty Sanchez virgin?
:laugh: :laugh: :laugh:

How do you figure the concept doesn't apply to us "homo gays"?
Traditionally, "virginity" has always been related to heterosexual vaginal intercourse. With we homo gays, there's all kinds of levels of "virginity". *** I like saying homo gay- it reminds of Mango ***

And what the hell's a "Dirty Sanchez" virgin? :shocked:
:laugh: :laugh: :laugh:

Read the "pervs" thread- or ask 17 year old Ryan, he knows....

Well, I was just curious as to whether I was in the minority on something. Nipple sensitivity, specifically.
That stuff does nothing for me.

THANK GOD FOR THAT !
:lol: :lol: :lol:

[skcin]

I forgot to add that I don't think any age is too old, really. :wavey:

[Brwn_eyes0511]

What in god's name are you people talking about??? :(

And here I thouht I was fairly well versed in all things smutty... *sigh*

So DID I!

WTF are they talking about?

[strandinthewind]

I sought them out like a bee looks for honey, baby. I had peers that were interested in getting it on, so I did.

. . . .


Again, don't you think guys are just predisposed to wanting sex far more than women at that age. Maybe it is a sociological thing, but all I know is the guys I knew and I would have put it in anywhere at that age, unlike any girl I knew save for the few floosies.

[dissention]

I still am a Dirty Sanchez virgin, though.

Most respectable people are.

[sparky]

I sought them out like a bee looks for honey, baby. I had peers that were interested in getting it on, so I did.

Indeed. Like Sparky says, a six pack and a Bon Jovi tape. That's how.

That stuff does nothing for me.

I barely knew I had nipples until about 3 years ago. I was introduced to them by a gentleman to whom I will always be thankful. They woke up and haven' gone to sleep since. Kinda fun.


And what the hell is a Walrus ? That's what I call fat old gay guys who look like Wilford Brimley.

[Neal]

Traditionally, "virginity" has always been related to heterosexual vaginal intercourse. With we homo gays, there's all kinds of levels of "virginity". *** I like saying homo gay- it reminds of Mango ***


:laugh: :laugh: :laugh:

Read the "pervs" thread- or ask 17 year old Ryan, he knows....


Maybe it's just me, but if one or both parties busts a nut, it's sex. :shrug:
I'm not sure I get the "levels of virginity" concept...

As for the dirty sanchez thing, I give up. I'm going to assume it has something to do with sh*t; in which case I'm better off not knowing. :woohoo:

[strandinthewind]

Maybe it's just me, but if one or both parties busts a nut, it's sex. :shrug:
I'm not sure I get the "levels of virginity" concept...

As for the dirty sanchez thing, I give up. I'm going to assume it has something to do with sh*t; in which case I'm better off not knowing. :woohoo:

google it - sniff sniff around and you might find it :wavey:

[Neal]

google it - sniff sniff around and you might find it :wavey:

Ugh. I knew I'd be sorry... :distress:

[markolas]

Ugh. I knew I'd be sorry... :distress:

http://www.subgenius.com/updates/5-99news/X0027_the_dirty_sanchez_et.html

Good lord, who comes up this stuff??? :distress:

[markolas]

Okay, I posted my poll at the other site. Go answer it!! ;) :p

[macfanken]

Ugh. I knew I'd be sorry... :distress:

http://www.subgenius.com/updates/5-99news/X0027_the_dirty_sanchez_et.html


I heard a slightly different, equally disgusting version of this.

[strandinthewind]

Maybe it's precisely because of perceptions like this, that the males indulging were normal and the females who did were "loose" or whatever "floosies" are. There are labels for girls which males never have to worry about. Oh and incidentally, I'm "disturbing", "freaky" and whatever else was used, there's nothing a Ledge thread can't do to put the sting in the shame.


I agree that the sexes were treated differently. I often wonder though whether on average boys just are inherently hornier at that age than girls or if it is a sociological thing as the names you mentioned suggest.

[sparky]

DAMMIT, WHAT'S A WALRUS ?

:laugh:

[GateandGarden]

Maybe it's precisely because of perceptions like this, that the males indulging were normal and the females who did were "loose" or whatever "floosies" are. There are labels for girls which males never have to worry about. Oh and incidentally, I'm "disturbing", "freaky" and whatever else was used, there's nothing a Ledge thread can't do to put the sting in the shame.I agree that those perceptions have had a way of setting the stage for unfair judgement of many.

But those words were not intended for you. I just have to say that, though I know that knowing that does not make things less hurtful, as I have also learned here.

I wish that the shame you speak of did not exist.

[Neal]

I heard a slightly different, equally disgusting version of this.

Really? How could it get worse?! :eek: :rolleyes:

[dissention]

DAMMIT, WHAT'S A WALRUS ?

:laugh:

Check your PM's, pervert.

[sparky]

Maybe it's precisely because of perceptions like this, that the males indulging were normal and the females who did were "loose" or whatever "floosies" are. There are labels for girls which males never have to worry about. Oh and incidentally, I'm "disturbing", "freaky" and whatever else was used, there's nothing a Ledge thread can't do to put the sting in the shame.

What shame ? Please explain, somebody.

[GypsySorcerer]

Check your PM's, pervert.
I don't know what it is, either. :confused:

[Neal]

Check your PM's, pervert.

If you could please forward that PM sparky...? :wavey:

[ryan8472]

Read the "pervs" thread- or ask 17 year old Ryan, he knows....
Oh.My.God. :lol: :lol: :lol:

Disclaimer: NOT THAT I'VE DONE IT. BECAUSE I HAVEN'T. :p













Why am I so tainted? :laugh:

[Neal]

Call me conservative and a joke-spoiler or whatever but is it appropriate to link to a site that gives instructions on basically how to rape and/or assault women? I know it's not being endorsed but it's still offensive to some. Meh, I looked anyway, I suppose it doesn't matter anymore. I should just leave this thread.

I just reviewed the link more thoroughly and you're right; that was probably not appropriate. When I first posted I had just scanned for the one specific description. I've edited the post and I do apologize to you and anyone else who might have been offended. :sorry:

[mylittledemon]

DAMMIT, WHAT'S A WALRUS ?

:laugh:


Thats when you're getting head and them you cum in the person's mouth and as they are swallowing "it' you bop them on the top of the head as hard as you can, then the said fluid comes out their nose. The Walrus.

....Wow now its awfully quiet in here. I guess everyone is in shock. Dirty sanchez??? Also known as the Sh*t-mustache. I'll let your imaginations figure out how you get one.

[Brwn_eyes0511]

Thats when you're getting head and them you cum in the person's mouth and as they are swallowing "it' you bop them on the top of the head as hard as you can, then the said fluid comes out their nose. The Walrus.

WTF!?

Ok the first part is all fine and good....but then the "bop them on the head" is when it goes wrong!

[mylittledemon]

WTF!?

Ok the first part is all fine and good....but then the "bop them on the head" is when it goes wrong!

Yeah its a violent act. Funny, but not too erotic.

[Brwn_eyes0511]

Yeah its a violent act. Funny, but not too erotic.

Nothing erotic about that!

Who is going to hit somebody who has your d*ck in their mouth, over the head? ARE THEY STUPID?!? :lol:

[mylittledemon]

Nothing erotic about that!

Who is going to hit somebody who has your d*ck in their mouth, over the head? ARE THEY STUPID?!? :lol:



Ooops! Left the "pull yer wang out" part out of the description. Yeah, you gotta pull out bro. Then the head bop. I've heard punching them on top of the head is the way to go.

[Brwn_eyes0511]

Ooops! Left the "pull yer wang out" part out of the description. Yeah, you gotta pull out bro. Then the head bop. I've heard punching them on top of the head is the way to go.

You let some f*cker hit me on the top of the head....

they will no longer have their manhood! :D

[BTFLCHLD]

Ooops! Left the "pull yer wang out" part out of the description. Yeah, you gotta pull out bro. Then the head bop. I've heard punching them on top of the head is the way to go. ok what have you done with brandon?! :shocked:

[strandinthewind]

ok what have you done with brandon?! :shocked:

Now now - let's not get in a jealous rage - there is more than enough of Ponyboy to go around :eek:

[mylittledemon]

ok what have you done with brandon?! :shocked:


HAHAH! You guys have to KNOW this is just the type of disgusting stuff that I've heard. I don't know of anyone who's actually done it. Although I hear "The Walrus" happened to a buddy of mine, but he didnt have to hit her, she laughed and it came out on its own.

At any rate...most of these sickening stories from what I recall, were told over several bong hits, at various times over the years.

[BTFLCHLD]

Now now - let's not get in a jealous rage - there is more than enough of Ponyboy to go around :eek: :lol: so ive heard ;)

[Brwn_eyes0511]

:lol: so ive heard ;)

Is there something ponyboy is not sharing....???

[mylittledemon]

er......well.....no I think I've shared it all. haha

I'm a 1-on-1 type of guy. None of this hoopla about multiples in the sack with the old Ponyroo. Well, at least not anymore. Damn, I need a drink.

[BTFLCHLD]

from what I recall, were told over several bong hits, at various times over the years. oh! and during these bongfests a performance of THE WALRUS wasnt attempted?
if not, you my friend need the kind :nod:

[BTFLCHLD]

None of this hoopla about multiples in the sack with the old Ponyroo. Well, at least not anymore. Damn, I need a drink.
:p
and by anymore, you mean as of a few days ago!
yes get yourself a drink :cool:

[mylittledemon]

Haha...you know me too well Niki! No I never attempted the Walrus, although I think its hilarious.

[Brwn_eyes0511]

Haha...you know me too well Niki! No I never attempted the Walrus, although I think its hilarious.

You better not be doing that stuff ponyboy! :p

You better be lucky the girl even agrees to swallow...most girls aren't into that...


However I can't understand why...:shocked: Too much info...right? :laugh:

[markolas]

I totally don't get how people come up with this stuff. It would never enter my head to do some of these things!!

[BTFLCHLD]

Haha...you know me too well Niki! No I never attempted the Walrus, although I think its hilarious. lets see if we timed it just right the head bop would be about
goo goo g'goo g'goo goo g'joob goo
smoke pot smoke pot everybody smoke pot


did you get that drink? ;)

[mylittledemon]

I totally don't get how people come up with this stuff. It would never enter my head to do some of these things!!

I find it really bizarre too, but grossly funny. I guess some men/women are just willing to do anything to get their rocks off.

[mylittledemon]

lets see if we timed it just right the head bop would be about
goo goo g'goo g'goo goo g'joob goo
smoke pot smoke pot everybody smoke pot


did you get that drink? ;)


jack-n-coke all the way my puddin!

[Brwn_eyes0511]

jack-n-coke all the way my puddin!

I love that! Except....diet cock instead...I MEAN COKE! Diet COKE!











Where is my mind.......someone knows! ;) :lol:

[BTFLCHLD]

jack-n-coke all the way my puddin!
have you heard the one where the chick
twists her legs to vice and breaks his neck? :o

[markolas]

I love that! Except....diet cock instead...I MEAN COKE! Diet COKE!











Where is my mind.......someone knows! ;) :lol:

You poor, poor child. :laugh:

[Brwn_eyes0511]

You poor, poor child. :laugh:

:lol:

I didn't even mean to type that at first...I went back to delete it...and then figured...what the hell...

[markolas]

:lol:

I didn't even mean to type that at first...I went back to delete it...and then figured...what the hell...

You certainly don't have to explain yourself to me. :D

[Brwn_eyes0511]

You certainly don't have to explain yourself to me. :D

Well my mind IS there right now...so....

But I like both C words are great! Diet Coke and C*ck!

[mylittledemon]

have you heard the one where the chick
twists her legs to vice and breaks his neck? :o

huh? that dont make no sense

[mylittledemon]

Why does the rooster crow when he sees a cat fall into a swimming pool?

[BTFLCHLD]

huh? that dont make no sense
of course not!

just offering the female version
of the headbop...turnabout is fair play

[markolas]

Well my mind IS there right now...so....

But I like both C words are great! Diet Coke and C*ck!

I'm not so much on the Diet Coke.

[BTFLCHLD]

Why does the rooster crow when he sees a cat fall into a swimming pool? his pussys wet?

[mylittledemon]

of course not!

just offering the female version
of the headbop...turnabout is fair play

ahh! yes...one ill turn deserves another

[mylittledemon]

his pussys wet?


HAHA...you got it.

"A c*ck always gets excited when a p*ssy gets wet." I heard that one the other day and spit my drink everywhere.

[BTFLCHLD]

ahh! yes...one ill turn deserves another yes, careful how you manhandle me :xoxo:

[mylittledemon]

yes, careful how you manhandle me :xoxo:


aww...never baby. Slow and easy w/you I'd be (did I just talk like Yoda?)... then later fast and....ahh nevermind.

[Brwn_eyes0511]

aww...never baby. Slow and easy w/you I'd be (did I just talk like Yoda?)... then later fast and....ahh nevermind.

Yoda is getting fresh with ladies! :lol:

[BTFLCHLD]

aww...never baby. Slow and easy w/you I'd be (did I just talk like Yoda?)... then later fast and....ahh nevermind.
cockadoodledooooo!
:o your pussys wet!

hey i see in another thread
there are many awaiting
your come vid...did you
get the usb yet? huh?
did ya? did ya? huh?

[macfanken]

aww...never baby. Slow and easy w/you I'd be (did I just talk like Yoda?)... then later fast and....ahh nevermind.


It's about time we have some straight flirting around here... it's always gay gay gay!! :lol:

[Brwn_eyes0511]

It's about time we have some straight flirting around here... it's always gay gay gay!! :lol:

Oh shut up...you like the gay gay gay! ;) :lol:

[Brwn_eyes0511]

cockadoodledooooo!
:o your pussys wet!

hey i see in another thread
there are many awaiting
your come vid...did you
get the usb yet? huh?
did ya? did ya? huh?

OMG!

The ledge is officially the smut board of the net!


AND I LOVE IT!

[strandinthewind]

aww...never baby. Slow and easy w/you I'd be (did I just talk like Yoda?)... then later fast and....ahh nevermind.

If you two ever meet, I wanna be there to document this on film :cool:

the meeting that is

[BTFLCHLD]

It's about time we have some straight flirting around here... it's always gay gay gay!! :lol:
wow i feel a sudden pressure to perform lildemon :xoxo:
<img src="http://i11.photobucket.com/albums/a152/BTFLCHLD/loveshower.gif" alt="Image hosted by Photobucket.com"> <img src="http://i11.photobucket.com/albums/a152/BTFLCHLD/loveshower.gif" alt="Image hosted by Photobucket.com"> <img src="http://i11.photobucket.com/albums/a152/BTFLCHLD/loveshower.gif" alt="Image hosted by Photobucket.com"> <img src="http://i11.photobucket.com/albums/a152/BTFLCHLD/loveshower.gif" alt="Image hosted by Photobucket.com"> <img src="http://i11.photobucket.com/albums/a152/BTFLCHLD/loveshower.gif" alt="Image hosted by Photobucket.com"> <img src="http://i11.photobucket.com/albums/a152/BTFLCHLD/loveshower.gif" alt="Image hosted by Photobucket.com"> <img src="http://i11.photobucket.com/albums/a152/BTFLCHLD/loveshower.gif" alt="Image hosted by Photobucket.com">

[BTFLCHLD]

jack-n-coke
why oh why did i ever suggest a drink?
gnite sweets [insert major POUT here]

[Brwn_eyes0511]

why oh why did i ever suggest a drink?
gnite sweets [insert major POUT here]

Why isn't there a POUT smilie! I NEED ONE!

I pout a lot....

[BTFLCHLD]

aww...never baby. Slow and easy w/you I'd be (did I just talk like Yoda?)... then later fast and....ahh nevermind.
OMG ive been WALRUSED!
slo...fast...then KABOOM!!
just wait til i get my hands on you lildemon!

:blob1:
:]

[Brwn_eyes0511]

OMG ive been WALRUSED!
slo...fast...then KABOOM!!
just wait til i get my hands on you lildemon!

:blob1:
:]

OH LORD! haha

[GypsySorcerer]

This thread has certainly run the gamut....... from virginity to dirty sanchezes. :laugh:

[Brwn_eyes0511]

This thread has certainly run the gamut....... from virginity to dirty sanchezes. :laugh:

We are a very dirty bunch....what can we say! ;) :laugh:

[GypsySorcerer]

We are a very dirty bunch....what can we say! ;) :laugh:
I love me some dirtiness, just not in the form of a sanchez. :laugh:

[Brwn_eyes0511]

I love me some dirtiness, just not in the form of a sanchez. :laugh:

Ewww...no that is nasty.

[sparky]

HAHA...you got it.

"A c*ck always gets excited when a p*ssy gets wet." I heard that one the other day and spit my drink everywhere.

Blech. Not mine !:laugh:

But I suppose it is time that the straight people get in on the action.

[Brwn_eyes0511]

Blech. Not mine !:laugh:

But I suppose it is time that the straight people get in on the action.

I think they are the only straight people here...

:lol:

[GypsySorcerer]

Blech. Not mine !:laugh:

But I suppose it is time that the straight people get in on the action.
All six of us? ;) :D

[Brwn_eyes0511]

All six of us? ;) :D

Ohhh...there is more than 2...lol

[Brwn_eyes0511]

All the girls are straight (cept Hill and Sapph), it's just that we, in theory, would have to share that one boy between all of us.

haha! :lol:

[GateandGarden]

All the girls are straight (cept Hill and Sapph)...There are other girls on here who aren't as prominent who are bi, and then there's Mari who is prominent and bi.

[Mari]

there are even more lesbian ledgies around here than just two, actually :shocked: ;)

They're everywhere! :eek:

[Gypsy-Rhiannon]

Hey guys, i had an interesting conversation with my friend about losing your virginity - he said that he lost his at 14, and he was told by friends that that was a really old age to lose it, and alot of them lost it at 11 and 12. Now we are both 19, and im still one :angel: but the only difference is im gay, and he is straight (many of you will know how difficult that can be when growing up) - so my question to you is, what age is still having your virginity kind of weird?? How Old Is Too Old??
Bloody hell! As a mother myself I find it shocking that someone thinks 14 is old to be losing your virginity. 11 and 12?? Holy crap! :eek:

[Brwn_eyes0511]

You are all....


DARK SIDED!


:lol: :laugh: :xoxo:

[LikeAWillow]

There are other girls on here who aren't as prominent who are bi, and then there's Mari who is prominent and bi.

:wavey: Mmmhmm

[GateandGarden]

:wavey: MmmhmmWell, that was ambiguous! :laugh: :confused: :shrug: :o

[LikeAWillow]

Well, that was ambiguous! :laugh: :confused: :shrug: :o

*LMAO*, k Hill, I'll try harder for clarity...

Bi and proud here! :blob1: :laugh:

[GateandGarden]

I know. I just didn't want to name everyone and their mother.So it is genetic? :laugh:

Sorry. That was just lousy.

[ryan8472]

Well, that was ambiguous! :laugh: :confused: :shrug: :o
:laugh: :p

[GateandGarden]

*LMAO*, k Hill, I'll try harder for clarity...

Bi and proud here! :blob1: :laugh:I had no idea! It never crossed my mind. ......

:) :) :)

[LikeAWillow]

I had no idea! It never crossed my mind. ......

:) :) :)


Damn, I haven't mentioned it in my journal? Wow, I need to update to say the least...PM me :laugh:

[ryan8472]

I had no idea! It never crossed my mind. ......

:) :) :)
I didn't either! Cool! :D :xoxo:

[LikeAWillow]

I didn't either! Cool! :D :xoxo:

Haha, glad you approve Ry. Now you just need to see my drop dead gorgeous girlfriend and you really would! :xoxo:

[ryan8472]

Haha, glad you approve Ry. Now you just need to see my drop dead gorgeous girlfriend and you really would! :xoxo:
Teehee. :D I'm sure I would ;) :p

[GateandGarden]

Haha, glad you approve Ry. Now you just need to see my drop dead gorgeous girlfriend and you really would! :xoxo::laugh: :laugh:

I tried to reply to you but you have to clean out your pm inbox. :wavey:

[LikeAWillow]

:laugh: :laugh:

I tried to reply to you but you have to clean out your pm inbox. :wavey:


Just got your message :)

[SuzeQuze]

Teehee. :D I'm sure I would ;) :p

Ryan, your avatar is bloody awful! Eww ick yuck!

Maybe I am bi and I don't know it. :wavey: :lol:

[ryan8472]

Ryan, your avatar is bloody awful! Eww ick yuck!
Hehe. I'll change it then. :p

[SuzeQuze]

Hehe. I'll change it then. :p

Phew, thanks! :lol:

[estranged4life]

I waited til I was in a steady relationship for over 2+ years before my ex-fiancee Christy & I 'did the deed'...Btw, I intentionally waited til I was in my 20's.