Rhiannon-Stevie-Lesbian-Dream

[reebokandlace]

I had the weirdest dream last night....I had a dream that I met Rhiannon in this otherworldly place and she told me that Stevie is a lesbian and in a long term relationship with Lori. She said the marriage between Lori and Chris is a farce. She said "isn't it obvious that if Chris were really married to Lori do you think he would be pursuing female fans at concerts?"

Then she went into this whole diatribe about, "sure men cheat on their wives, but his cheating is so public and blatant and you have to admit, Lori is very pretty, why would he need anything else and why would he risk bring a disease home to her? It doesn't matter how "careful" he is, there is always a risk. They are not really married so there is no risk".

Then Rhiannon told me that "Stevie really wanted a baby, but couldn't have one of her own because of some "problems" in the past, then along comes Jessie and that Jessie is a product of Chris and Lori, little part of Lori, little part of Stevie so to speak, nice genetic makeup. Lori and Jessie live in the main house with Stevie, Chris lives out in the guest house. It seems so obvious".

I stood there in my dream kinda shocked and wondering why she was telling me all this??!! It really is none of my business. Then she went on to tell me several other things that "stevie really needs to know", which I would rather not repeat to anyone (other than Stevie herself, which of course in reality (important word!!) I will never have the opportunity to do)... Things about her future and other details about Stevie's life that "only Stevie and a small group should know". What I have typed above doesn't even scratch the surface of the conversation I had with Rhiannon in the dream. It was really intense.

I have been awake for 4 hours and I am still "all affected and freaked out" by my dream. In my dream she told me things I didn't need to know. But she kept stressing how important it was that I DO know these things. I will say it is one of the longest,clearest, most vivid dreams I have ever had in my life. I knew I shouldn't have eaten that pizza right before bed. Freaking weird dreams!!!

[LeighB04]

Not the first time the lesbian thing has come up (dream or real life), so maybe it was somewhere in your subconscious, and that pesky pizza gave you memory reflux.... having researched the behaviour of rock musicians and famous people the last few years for my novel, nothing in your dream would actually surprise me anymore....

[Neal]

Who knew Rhiannon was such a big gossip... :shrug:

[DeeGeMe]

You know, I once dreamed that Stevie had brought the house that was for sale at the end of my block. And from that point on, she was always dropping by borrowing things from me. Turns out, at least in my dream world, that Stevie is a bit of a nuiance. But it was JUST a dream. I'm kinda glad actually--apparently dream Stevie had a real hankering to borrow all of my favorite pairs of earrings.

But if Rhiannon comes back maybe you should just kindly direct her towards Stevie's way and tell her "I don't wanna know"? or something?

[SapphireSister]

Stevie appears in my dreams every so often and occasionally we have a lesbian encounter. I wish I had more! P.S. She's good, very very good :p.

I would really love to know if Stevie has ever been with a woman sexually, perhaps in a 3-way (I'm thinking her, Sara, and Mick)? I know she would never fall in love with a woman but it seems likely she has at least slept with one or had a passionate kiss. Maybe not though...too bad I'll never know.

[skcin]

Dreams can be so weird, can't they? :laugh:

[LeighB04]

Now, now girls - could we please get back to discussing tracking lesbians through the fog??? :p

[reebokandlace]

11 hours later and I am still affected by the dream. I am trying hard to just shake it off....I was so upset this morning I almost walked out of the house with two different shoes on.... :shocked: :laugh:

[Nixxxed]

I've had many freaky Stevie dreams over the years. The worst was after my apt got robbed, and in the dream I had a robotic Stevie head rolling around my place to ward off burglars. Just Stevie's head (with the fierce hairstyle from the I Can't Wait video, of course) screwed onto a rolling metal base. Kinda like those robotic vacumm cleaners you see on late-night infomercials. :laugh:

And last night, I had my first freaky Tori Amos dream. I've dreamt about her before, too, but never like this. It was an erotic dream, where I was in bed with my boyfriend. Then suddenly the door comes crashing in, and there stands Tori in a Hellraiser-style dominatrix outfit, saying something like "OK boys, now we're REALLY gonna get busy." :eek: :shrug:

[LeighB04]

11 hours later and I am still affected by the dream. I am trying hard to just shake it off....I was so upset this morning I almost walked out of the house with two different shoes on.... :shocked: :laugh:


Honey, if most of us on this board had a lesbian dream with Stevie, we'd be walking around with different shoes on!

[UndoingTheLaces]

I've had many freaky Stevie dreams over the years. The worst was after my apt got robbed, and in the dream I had a robotic Stevie head rolling around my place to ward off burglars. Just Stevie's head (with the fierce hairstyle from the I Can't Wait video, of course) screwed onto a rolling metal base. Kinda like those robotic vacumm cleaners you see on late-night infomercials. :laugh:

Okay, I adore Stevie but that's just disturbing. LOL!

[Nixxxed]

Okay, I adore Stevie but that's just disturbing. LOL!
:lol:

Well, my apt never got robbed again, so I guess just invoking Stevie's spirit worked! And now, I wonder how she would have fought off the robbers... Maybe ankle-biting? No, I know: a burglar-skull-exploding Edge scream: AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAHHHHHHHHHH!!!!

[dissention]

Last night I dreamt that I pulled all of my teeth out and couldn't afford dentures. Children taunted me by throwing Jumbones in my direction when I walked the streets. I died homeless, toothless, and penniless under a bridge at the age of 37, with a flask of raspberry schnapps in one hand and a useless toothbrush that I had found at a truck stop in the other. I suppose one could say that I simply could not look a challenge right between the eye.

[GateandGarden]

Wow. If I had an "Rhiannon tells all" dream then I would have a hard time shaking that off, too! :laugh: Crazy. I suspect that Stevie may have been with a woman at some point. But it's just speculation. Who knows? :shrug:

[ryan8472]

Last night I dreamt that I pulled all of my teeth out and couldn't afford dentures. Children taunted me by throwing Jumbones in my direction when I walked the streets. I died homeless, toothless, and penniless under a bridge at the age of 37, with a flask of raspberry schnapps in one hand and a useless toothbrush that I had found at a truck stop in the other. I suppose one could say that I simply could not look a challenge right between the eye.
:lol:

You know, I had a dream a couple of days ago where you, Greg, Kate, Jimmy, and I started some strange band that did bad Beatles and Blondie covers. :shrug: :laugh: I do remember Octopus's Garden and Live It Up (I have those on my favorites list) being done, and wondering WTF? :confused: :laugh:

[tlssln]

[QUOTE=reebokandlace][FONT=Arial]I had the weirdest dream last night....I had a dream that I met Rhiannon in this otherworldly place and she told me that Stevie is a lesbian and in a long term relationship with Lori. She said the marriage between Lori and Chris is a farce. She said "isn't it obvious that if Chris were really married to Lori do you think he would be pursuing female fans at concerts?"


That's occurred to me before. Maybe it's just me imagining myself in Lori's position. LOL.

[tlssln]

Stevie appears in my dreams every so often and occasionally we have a lesbian encounter. I wish I had more! P.S. She's good, very very good :p.

I would really love to know if Stevie has ever been with a woman sexually, perhaps in a 3-way (I'm thinking her, Sara, and Mick)? I know she would never fall in love with a woman but it seems likely she has at least slept with one or had a passionate kiss. Maybe not though...too bad I'll never know.


LOL. What about some of her photo sessions with that Mary chick? There's one where Stevie's like touching her boob. I find it quite funny. I bet her and Robin used to practice kissing on each other.

[tynan88]

I thought Stevie has said before she isn't interested in women because because she loves men too much.

Anyway I think you should really document your dream, I think they often have a way of coming true...at least maybe some of the things that you won't tell us you should write down.

[lagringader&r]

Your dream rocks. I'm sure Stevie must have had at least one or two lesbian experiences, even if it was just kissing. I've always thought there was a lot of chemistry between her and Sharon. No shame in that. She sure was curious when it came to men (see other thread about Stevie's men) so why not chicks? Just makes sense.

[lagringader&r]

I thought Stevie has said before she isn't interested in women because because she loves men too much.

I thought the quote was more like she couldn't be a lesbian coz she was too into guys. Not being interested and not being a lesbian are two different things. I might have that quote wrong but I wouldn't be surprised if she didn't switch teams a time or two.

[tynan88]

I thought the quote was more like she couldn't be a lesbian coz she was too into guys. Not being interested and not being a lesbian are two different things. I might have that quote wrong but I wouldn't be surprised if she didn't switch teams a time or two.

I stand corrected :)

[chiffon head]

:lol:

Well, my apt never got robbed again, so I guess just invoking Stevie's spirit worked! And now, I wonder how she would have fought off the robbers... Maybe ankle-biting? No, I know: a burglar-skull-exploding Edge scream: AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAHHHHHHHHHH!!!!


:lol: :lol: :lol:


Renee

[ELIUD]

...I might have that quote wrong but I wouldn't be surprised if she didn't switch teams a time or two.

I wouldn't be surprised about that either, but I would be surprised if Stevie herself ever admits it in an interview or that autiobiography she'll never write. Lesbian Stevie stories probably won't be made public until after she dies and some big mouth writes a tell all book about her that we'll all discount completely but run to Borders to buy.

[amber]

I wouldn't be surprised about that either, but I would be surprised if Stevie herself ever admits it in an interview or that autiobiography she'll never write. Lesbian Stevie stories probably won't be made public until after she dies and some big mouth writes a tell all book about her that we'll all discount completely but run to Borders to buy.
:lol:
yeah, sounds about right. That's what I was thinking, too.
Stevie would never, ever, ever say that if it were true.

[reebokandlace]

I wouldn't be surprised about that either, but I would be surprised if Stevie herself ever admits it in an interview or that autiobiography she'll never write. Lesbian Stevie stories probably won't be made public until after she dies and some big mouth writes a tell all book about her that we'll all discount completely but run to Borders to buy.


"You could count on your left hand how many people know the truth, or at least "credible" people and they will go to their graves with the secrets they know."

At least that is what I was told in my crazy dream.

And I will go to my grave with the things I was told.

[skcin]

"You could count on your left hand how many people know the truth, or at least "credible" people and they will go to their graves with the secrets they know."

At least that is what I was told in my crazy dream.

And I will go to my grave with the things I was told.


STOP! WAIT! Did Rhiannon tell you when Stevie's next album will come out?!?!














:D

[ELIUD]

I don't think it's the dream that's crazy.

[reebokandlace]

I don't think it's the dream that's crazy.


Hey-- lighten up! I SAID I had a series of bizarre DREAMS ---- I DID NOT say I was standing on a mountain top and Rhiannon appeared to me in broad daylight (at that point I would put myself in a straight jacket :laugh: ) -- THEY WERE DREAMS -- there is no need to call me crazy -- not that you know me, but I am very down-to-earth nice person-- I was affected for days over those stupid dreams.

Now I will sit down and shut up.

[tynan88]

Hey-- lighten up! I SAID I had a series of bizarre DREAMS ---- I DID NOT say I was standing on a mountain top and Rhiannon appeared to me in broad daylight (at that point I would put myself in a straight jacket :laugh: ) -- THEY WERE DREAMS -- there is no need to call me crazy -- not that you know me, but I am very down-to-earth nice person-- I was affected for days over those stupid dreams.

Now I will sit down and shut up.

Hi I would just like to say again to you...that even though you might not share them with us...I think you should write your experiences down...I don't think you are crazy at all.

[LeighB04]

I don't think it's the dream that's crazy.


I thought this comment was made tongue-in-cheek and was supposed to be taken lightly....?

[reebokandlace]

Hi I would just like to say again to you...that even though you might not share them with us...I think you should write your experiences down...I don't think you are crazy at all.

I was told to NEVER write down what was said so that no one would ever find it....(there I go sounding crazy again)!! I will remember the details of those conversations for the rest of my life. They will never become "foggy". Those dreams had the most profound effect on me. Besides, in reality, what does it matter? I have no one to share any of this with, or at least no one in my life who cares about Stevie...

.....and if the things I was told ever do come to fruition I would NEVER say "hey I had a dream about that, look I wrote it in my journal" because who the hell would believe me anyway??!!

But I would feel pretty bad because I never got the chance to tell Stevie....and I won't even try because the last thing I want is to look crazy in front of Stevie... :distress: ...so I will quietly live with it....

[Lee]

I had the weirdest dream last night....I had a dream that I met Rhiannon in this otherworldly place and she told me that Stevie is a lesbian and in a long term relationship with Lori. She said the marriage between Lori and Chris is a farce. She said "isn't it obvious that if Chris were really married to Lori do you think he would be pursuing female fans at concerts?"

Then she went into this whole diatribe about, "sure men cheat on their wives, but his cheating is so public and blatant and you have to admit, Lori is very pretty, why would he need anything else and why would he risk bring a disease home to her? It doesn't matter how "careful" he is, there is always a risk. They are not really married so there is no risk".

Then Rhiannon told me that "Stevie really wanted a baby, but couldn't have one of her own because of some "problems" in the past, then along comes Jessie and that Jessie is a product of Chris and Lori, little part of Lori, little part of Stevie so to speak, nice genetic makeup. Lori and Jessie live in the main house with Stevie, Chris lives out in the guest house. It seems so obvious".

I stood there in my dream kinda shocked and wondering why she was telling me all this??!! It really is none of my business. Then she went on to tell me several other things that "stevie really needs to know", which I would rather not repeat to anyone (other than Stevie herself, which of course in reality (important word!!) I will never have the opportunity to do)... Things about her future and other details about Stevie's life that "only Stevie and a small group should know". What I have typed above doesn't even scratch the surface of the conversation I had with Rhiannon in the dream. It was really intense.

I have been awake for 4 hours and I am still "all affected and freaked out" by my dream. In my dream she told me things I didn't need to know. But she kept stressing how important it was that I DO know these things. I will say it is one of the longest,clearest, most vivid dreams I have ever had in my life. I knew I shouldn't have eaten that pizza right before bed. Freaking weird dreams!!!

Wow, & I thought I dreamt weird stuff. :laugh: They always say that there's a meaning to what you dream, but I'm not sure what this means. I do know that dreaming of a celebrity means relief from a current situation, but you didn't see Stevie, did you? I don't know if "Rhiannon" qualifies as a celebrity. :laugh:

Lee :)

[reebokandlace]

They always say that there's a meaning to what you dream, but I'm not sure what this means. I do know that dreaming of a celebrity means relief from a current situation, but you didn't see Stevie, did you?
Lee :)

Kind of…In the dream I looked through this circle thing that was a porthole to “my world” and it showed me everything she was telling me. So yes, in essence I did see Stevie in the dreams.

The thing I looked through kinda looked like this:

http://www.designtoscano.com/images/us/local/products/detail/DB1000_dt.jpg

[DavidMn]

Boy you women have all the fun..... :rolleyes: :p ;) :woohoo:

[ELIUD]

I thought this comment was made tongue-in-cheek and was supposed to be taken lightly....?

Yeah it was kinda. But for the most part, I think dreams should never be taken seriously or as premonitions of events to follow. I understand being freaked out by images from nightmares because they were too horrible to imagine, such as death and violence. But to consider those dreams as secrets revealed that one must take to their death...that's more crazy than honorable.

[Wildflower]

Reebokandlace ~~~ please check your Private Messages ~~~

[LeighB04]

Yeah it was kinda. But for the most part, I think dreams should never be taken seriously or as premonitions of events to follow. I understand being freaked out by images from nightmares because they were too horrible to imagine, such as death and violence. But to consider those dreams as secrets revealed that one must take to their death...that's more crazy than honorable.

I agree, but I think Reebok took the suggestion that he/she is crazy to heart, and I for one didn't read it as such, so I was hoping to make it clear that nobody here REALLY thought Reebok is anything other than a normal, sweetheart (kinda like the rest of us nutjobs... ;) )

[reebokandlace]

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Thanks....

[Karlie]

Hmm... I don't think I've ever dreamed about Stevie. I've had some pretty weird Lindsey dreams, though.

[LongBlackScarf]

Honey, if most of us on this board had a lesbian dream with Stevie, we'd be walking around with different shoes on!

:lol: I've had plenty. *looks at one brown sandal and a pink flip-flop* :rolleyes: :laugh:

[GateandGarden]

Stevie would never, ever, ever say that if it were true.I think so, too. But why is that? She admits to so many other things that could be judged as "immoral" by others, so why would she hesitate with that? I didn't think she was concerned with having a squeaky clean, family-friendly image. Or is it her age, like if you're her age you remember a time when homosexuality was considered a mental illness and you simply don't want to joke about it or risk having yourself labeled as a homosexual even though you think yourself to be completely open-minded about it?

[reebokandlace]

Or is it her age, like if you're her age you remember a time when homosexuality was considered a mental illness and you simply don't want to joke about it or risk having yourself labeled as a homosexual even though you think yourself to be completely open-minded about it?


I would have to agree with that. I think in the 80's it was still considered information that was a career killer for women. Stevie has a lot of straight guys who love her and if she admitted she was with Robin or Lori or whomever those straight male fans would drop like flies. She was "....anyones fantasy..." and she probably wanted to keep it that way....I don't blame her for that...better to give the illusion of being straight and keep the whole gaggle of fans than alienate some....

[GateandGarden]

I would have to agree with that. I think in the 80's it was still considered information that was a career killer for women. Stevie has a lot of straight guys who love her and if she admitted she was with Robin or Lori or whomever those straight male fans would drop like flies. She was "....anyones fantasy..." and she probably wanted to keep it that way....I don't blame her for that...better to give the illusion of being straight and keep the whole gaggle of fans than alienate some....Yes, but she's got so many fans, anyway. She's got such a fanbase that she could share a little with each of the other members of FM; they could use them, I'm thinking. My attitude would be that if I lost fans over that, then they were fans I didn't need to begin with. Besides, what happened to all the straight guys who find two chicks having sex to be hot? :laugh:

[reebokandlace]

Ever been to a Melissa Etheridge or KD Lang concert? 98% women. And the few guys that are there look lost or that they have been dragged there by their girlfriends. :laugh: :laugh:

ALOT of straight men attend Stevie concerts. It would be a major loss in ticket/album sales to lose them. They adore her.

That whole "guys are into two women" thing--it's a fantasy they have that when it ACTUALLY does happen "it wasn't what they expected" - the ones I know who have been with two women--- walk away from the experience disheartened and feeling inadequate and would never put themselves in that situation again. Often the women will enjoy each other more and the guy gets neglected.....or so I have heard.... ;)

[GateandGarden]

Ever been to a Mellisa Etheridge or KD Lang concert? 98% women. And the few guys that are there look lost or that they have been dragged there by their girlfriends. :laugh: :laugh: I've never been to either one of their concerts but I don't doubt that there are more women their than men, by far. But just because Stevie admits to having a few lesbian encounters wouldn't mean she would be anywhere near the equivalent to those chicks. The lady will still love her men! Even if she were bi, I'm sure she would be mostly interested in men.

That whole "guys are into two women" thing--it's a fantasy they have that when it ACTUALLY does happen "it wasn't what they expected" - the ones I know who have been with two women--- walk away from the experience disheartened and feeling inadequate and would never put themselves in that situation again. Often the women will enjoy each other more and the guy gets neglected.....or so I have heard.... ;):laugh: I certainly wouldn't know but I can imagine! :laugh:

[reebokandlace]

I've never been to either one of their concerts but I don't doubt that there are more women their than men, by far. But just because Stevie admits to having a few lesbian encounters wouldn't mean she would be anywhere near the equivalent to those chicks. The lady will still love her men! Even if she were bi, I'm sure she would be mostly interested in men.

[COLOR=Indigo]

I think she gave up sleeping with men when Lori Perry became Lori Nicks. ;)

[Mari]

She might be bisexual, but, bisexuality isn't a separate identity in everyone's eyes. She might be one of those who thinks of herself as 'more or less' straight with a bisexual encounter (or love affair) now and then. And then there wouldn't be anything to come out of the closet about.

[GateandGarden]

She might be bisexual, but, bisexuality isn't a separate identity in everyone's eyes. She might be one of those who thinks of herself as 'more or less' straight with a bisexual encounter (or love affair) now and then. And then there wouldn't be anything to come out of the closet about.I think it's a slam on bisexuals when people act like it isn't an orientation separate from the others. I don't mean to say I think you're wrong with that observation; I just think looking at it that way is wrong. But I guess we would agree on that so I'm just preaching to the choir.

I'm still wishing we could discover that she and Christine had a thing together. :blob2: :blob2:

[Mari]

I think it's a slam on bisexuals when people act like it isn't an orientation separate from the others. I don't mean to say I think you're wrong with that observation; I just think looking at it that way is wrong. But I guess we would agree on that so I'm just preaching to the choir.

I'm still wishing we could discover that she and Christine had a thing together. :blob2: :blob2:

:] :] :] *fans self* :D


About bisexuality and identity.. I don't know, I used to feel much like you, but really, I think the labelling itself (whether you take the 'straight' label or any other) is just artificial business.
It's a slam when people who use the straight or gay labels would say that bi isn't real, sure. Let's preach to that choir and let 'em sing ;)

[reebokandlace]

I think a polite label for Stevie would be an "Undercover Ladylover".

[rhiannon948]

I think a polite label for Stevie would be an "Undercover Ladylover".

:laugh: :laugh: :laugh:

[GateandGarden]

About bisexuality and identity.. I don't know, I used to feel much like you, but really, I think the labelling itself (whether you take the 'straight' label or any other) is just artificial business. Really? Do you think a lot of people would feel the same way if society were completely accepting of that viewpoint? I don't think I would feel that way because I can't help but think of myself as virtually exclusively gay. :shrug:

[LeighB04]

Really? Do you think a lot of people would feel the same way if society were completely accepting of that viewpoint? I don't think I would feel that way because I can't help but think of myself as virtually exclusively gay. :shrug:



"Virtually exclusively" :laugh: :xoxo:

[Mari]

Really? Do you think a lot of people would feel the same way if society were completely accepting of that viewpoint? I don't think I would feel that way because I can't help but think of myself as virtually exclusively gay. :shrug:


That's mixing two things up: your preferences on the one hand and on the other hand, the need of society to put a big heavy label on it. It's the latter that bothers me, maybe more so because that bi-label I use for myself, hah, is so vague. Means no more than not gay or straight, doesn't it, but what IS it then? Maybe it isn't all that important in the end? Some people like apples, some prefer oranges, (got a Jeanette Winterson reference in there, lol) some change preference, some like both, but it's only one of many characteristics of a person, isn't it.

Ah bollocks, I think my brain's mush after work and I can't really remember what I meant exactly.

Anyway, I wouldn't mind having me one of those lezzie Stevie dreams :angel:

[GateandGarden]

Anyway, I wouldn't mind having me one of those lezzie Stevie dreams :angel:Yeah, all the philosophical stuff aside, I'd just like to have a Stevie lesbo dream, please. :D :nod:

[53yearoldpixie]

I'm just gonna sneak into this conversation! Hi everyone! Anyway, I've never had a Lesbian Stevie dream... but I did have this one where Lindsey went to Stevie's dressing room after a concert. It was... uh... VERY interesting, to say the least. Christ, my very first post on the the Ledge is naughty. Oh well. :blob1:


~*~Gina~*~

[Dreammms]

welcome to the ledge gina.

i have a dream like that sometimes but stevie is not there...it's just me and lindsey :nod:

I'm just gonna sneak into this conversation! Hi everyone! Anyway, I've never had a Lesbian Stevie dream... but I did have this one where Lindsey went to Stevie's dressing room after a concert. It was... uh... VERY interesting, to say the least. Christ, my very first post on the the Ledge is naughty. Oh well. :blob1:


~*~Gina~*~

[GateandGarden]

I'm just gonna sneak into this conversation! Hi everyone! Anyway, I've never had a Lesbian Stevie dream... but I did have this one where Lindsey went to Stevie's dressing room after a concert. It was... uh... VERY interesting, to say the least. Christ, my very first post on the the Ledge is naughty. Oh well. :blob1:


~*~Gina~*~Welcome to the Ledge, Gina! :wavey:

[catinthedark]

I'm just gonna sneak into this conversation! Hi everyone! Anyway, I've never had a Lesbian Stevie dream... but I did have this one where Lindsey went to Stevie's dressing room after a concert. It was... uh... VERY interesting, to say the least. Christ, my very first post on the the Ledge is naughty. Oh well. :blob1:


~*~Gina~*~

Tee hee. Since we've expanded to other kinds of Stevie dreams... I had one where Lindsey and Stevie were totally together and hiding from Kristen, and it was backstage after a show, and then in the hallway of their hotel, etc, and then Kristen came in with the kids and the nanny, and Linds was all like, it doesn't matter, I love you not her - but the weirdest thing by far is thatI was Stevie - so I was feeling everything that I imagined her feeling. It was really, really weird. SO realistic - and I woke up going, whoa. What the hell was that??? :laugh:

[Karlie]

I'm just gonna sneak into this conversation! Hi everyone! Anyway, I've never had a Lesbian Stevie dream... but I did have this one where Lindsey went to Stevie's dressing room after a concert. It was... uh... VERY interesting, to say the least. Christ, my very first post on the the Ledge is naughty. Oh well. :blob1:


~*~Gina~*~

Welcome, Gina! I'm kind of a newbie too!

[LongBlackScarf]

So here's an interesting question for us heterosexual ladies on the board.

Why do we sometimes have lesbian dreams, with Stevie or without?

I'll say almost all my lesbian activity has been confined to flirting with, and kissing, Stevie backstage. ((In my dreams, of course!)) Would I act on this in real life? I don't think so. I am afraid I am more a gay man in a woman's body! But I do love the Stevie dreams. I hope in writing this, I will have one tonight. They say you can dream about anything you want simply by thinking about it a while before bed. Wish me luck!!! :laugh: :thumbsup:

[Dreammms]

So here's an interesting question for us heterosexual ladies on the board.

Why do we sometimes have lesbian dreams, with Stevie or without?

I'll say almost all my lesbian activity has been confined to flirting with, and kissing, Stevie backstage. ((In my dreams, of course!)) Would I act on this in real life? I don't think so. I am afraid I am more a gay man in a woman's body! But I do love the Stevie dreams. I hope in writing this, I will have one tonight. They say you can dream about anything you want simply by thinking about it a while before bed. Wish me luck!!! :laugh: :thumbsup:


:lol: :lol: good luck

stevie is very attractive i guess that's why we have those dreams. i however have them with sharon too :)

[reebokandlace]

So here's an interesting question for us heterosexual ladies on the board.

Why do we sometimes have lesbian dreams, with Stevie or without?

I'll say almost all my lesbian activity has been confined to flirting with, and kissing, Stevie backstage. ((In my dreams, of course!)) Would I act on this in real life? I don't think so. I am afraid I am more a gay man in a woman's body! But I do love the Stevie dreams. I hope in writing this, I will have one tonight. They say you can dream about anything you want simply by thinking about it a while before bed. Wish me luck!!! :laugh: :thumbsup:


Seem to me your subconsciousness is "bi-curious".

[reebokandlace]

stevie is very attractive i guess that's why we have those dreams. i however have them with sharon too :)

http://cybergifs.com/faces/dancing.gif

[53yearoldpixie]

Oh, you are all so sweet! Thanks for the warm welcomes. :) Well, I must say, though I'm straight, I find Stevie to be very attractive also. Who knows what goes on in our heads sometimes? On the opposite end of the spectrum, one of my guy friends is gay, and he's had at least three sexual dreams about Stevie. :thumbsup: I guess that means she's just HOT! :nod:


~*~ Gina ~*~

[reebokandlace]

Oh, you are all so sweet! Thanks for the warm welcomes. :) Well, I must say, though I'm straight, I find Stevie to be very attractive also. Who knows what goes on in our heads sometimes? On the opposite end of the spectrum, one of my guy friends is gay, and he's had at least three sexual dreams about Stevie. :thumbsup: I guess that means she's just HOT! :nod:


~*~ Gina ~*~

Welcome to the Ledge! :wavey:

[53yearoldpixie]

^^ Thanks! :)


~*~Gina~*~

[reebokandlace]

Well, I must say, though I'm straight, I find Stevie to be very attractive also. Who knows what goes on in our heads sometimes? :nod:


~*~ Gina ~*~

Hee hee -- you and Sheryl Crow think the same way.....

[53yearoldpixie]

^^^

:lol: :nod:

Wait... is that a bad thing? :o


~*~ Gina ~*~

[reebokandlace]

^^^

:lol: :nod:

Wait... is that a bad thing? :o


~*~ Gina ~*~


Not a bad thing at all! I snicker every time I hear Sheryl & Stevie singing Your Not the One (lyrics below)

It was obviously written about their relationship (and that was the last song they ever did together)--my thought is -- Sheryl figured she'd give it a try, and who better to give it try with than Stevie??!! Maybe Sheryl fell in love and wanted more than Stevie could give (because of Stevie's relationship with Lori).....just a thought.....


Late last night
I told you
I cannot do this,
I cannot hold you
I'm about to be gone
There is no choice now
It cannot be done
'Cause you're not the one
(You're not the one)

I wish I could change the way I feel
I wish I could just get real
I wish I could love you
The way you love me
But it cannot be done
'Cause you're not the one

No baby, I never lied
You're not the one
Undecided and mystified
You're not the one
Out of control,
I cannot deny
You're not the one
No baby, I never lied
(Please accept my apology)

I never meant for you to see this
I never meant for you to fall in love
(You're not the one)
No I never meant for you to fall in love
'Cause you're not the one
(You're not the one)

No baby, I never lied
You're not the one
Undecided and mysified
You're not the one
Out of control,
There is no denying
You're not the one
Ooh baby, I never lied
You're not the one

Tread softly, I never could
Just not the one
Keep listening, I thought I did
You're not the one
"I love you" I never said
I cannot pretend
You're not the one
You're not the one
(Please accept my apology)
You're not the one
You're just not the one

Baby last night I told you
I can not do this
I can not hold you
I wish I could change the way I feel
But I cannot pretend
No, no

Baby, last night I told you
I can't do this, I can't hold you
I wish I could change
All of this
But I cannot deny

You're not the one
Tread softly, I never could
Keep listening, I thought I did
You're not the one
"I love you" I never said
I cannot pretend
You're not the one

[AliceLover]

http://cybergifs.com/faces/dancing.gif


:laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:

Haven't seen that one before!

[SapphireSister]

So here's an interesting question for us heterosexual ladies on the board.

Why do we sometimes have lesbian dreams, with Stevie or without?

I'll say almost all my lesbian activity has been confined to flirting with, and kissing, Stevie backstage. ((In my dreams, of course!)) Would I act on this in real life? I don't think so. I am afraid I am more a gay man in a woman's body! But I do love the Stevie dreams. I hope in writing this, I will have one tonight. They say you can dream about anything you want simply by thinking about it a while before bed. Wish me luck!!! :laugh: :thumbsup:

I'm not a heterosexual lady and I'm still answering... :nod:
Just because you have a lesbian oriented dream it does not by any means mean you are gay or even bi-curious. Sexuality is very complex and can seem confusing when it's revealed in our subconcious (dreams). For example you could have a sex dream about someone and still not be attracted to them in real life (I once had a very vivid sex dream about a former boss and trust me there was NO attraction there). I'm sure Stevie represents a lot of things you admire in a woman and I'm sure you find her beautiful so it's not surprising you would experience some kind of sexuality in regards to her. Perhaps a way of getting close to her?

Now if you start fantasizing and taking things a step further you may be leaning towards the bi-curious side lol.

[53yearoldpixie]

"You're Not The One"... love it!! At least, I think so, since I only heard it a few times. I hadn't ever thought of it being about the whole Sheryl/Stevie thing, but it could be now that you mention it.




~*~ Gina ~*~

[SapphireSister]

"You're Not The One"... love it!! At least, I think so, since I only heard it a few times. I hadn't ever thought of it being about the whole Sheryl/Stevie thing, but it could be now that you mention it.




~*~ Gina ~*~

Oh Dear God if Stevie ever considered having a lesbian lover PLEASE say it wasn't Sheryl Crow! :distress:

[SapphireSister]

"You're Not The One"... love it!! At least, I think so, since I only heard it a few times. I hadn't ever thought of it being about the whole Sheryl/Stevie thing, but it could be now that you mention it.




~*~ Gina ~*~

I am soooo loving your Gwen avatar. That's my girl! :nod:
Did you see her on that Fashion Rocks show? *swoon*

[53yearoldpixie]

I am soooo loving your Gwen avatar.

Thanks! Yeah, Gwen is awesome. She was great at Fashion Rocks! I love just about every song she's ever written. She's got the coolest clothes, too. Well, Stevie has the coolest clothes, but Gwen comes in second.


~*~ Gina ~*~

[reebokandlace]

Oh Dear God if Stevie ever considered having a lesbian lover PLEASE say it wasn't Sheryl Crow! :distress:


Why?


---oh wait you must have seen the naked pictures of Sheryl that the paparazzi shot----

No seriously though -- why?

[SapphireSister]

Why?


---oh wait you must have seen the naked pictures of Sheryl that the paparazzi shot----

No seriously though -- why?

I personally do not find Sheryl Crow attactive and I'm not a fan of her music therefore I would not pick her to be Stevie's lesbian lover. No offense if you like her, she's just not my cup of tea :). I'm not sure if you've ever seen the pictures of Stevie and Sara Fleetwood together - now THAT'S hawt :-p.

[53yearoldpixie]

I really like Sheryl. Although, I can see why you might not. But I dunno, Stevie being with a girl just seems kinda funny, because she's been with so many men. Then again, it could totally have happened.

I just realized how much I contradict myself. :lol:


~*~ Gina ~*~

[SapphireSister]

I really like Sheryl. Although, I can see why you might not. But I dunno, Stevie being with a girl just seems kinda funny, because she's been with so many men. Then again, it could totally have happened.

I just realized how much I contradict myself. :lol:


~*~ Gina ~*~

I honestly don't believe Stevie has ever been with a woman (although I wish I were wrong :p). Maybe she has had a passionate kiss but I would say even that's unlikely. She's totally straight and loves men way too much but it makes for great conversation.

[LeighB04]

I honestly don't believe Stevie has ever been with a woman (although I wish I were wrong :p). Maybe she has had a passionate kiss but I would say even that's unlikely. She's totally straight and loves men way too much but it makes for great conversation.

Well, you know that could describe me too - way too straight and loves men too much - BUT I have met at least one woman who could change all that (and one came really close), so one never knows what might happen (esp if it was back in the days of the mist covered memories)...now where's Angelina's phone number darnit???

[SapphireSister]

Well, you know that could describe me too - way too straight and loves men too much - BUT I have met at least one woman who could change all that (and one came really close), so one never knows what might happen (esp if it was back in the days of the mist covered memories)...now where's Angelina's phone number darnit???

Oh no Angelina Jolie will forever go down in history as the woman of every straight girl's dreams. Aren't there any other female celebrities straight girls fantasize about? :laugh:.

I think if it was going to happen for Stevie it would have happened already, although you never know. Ahhh if only I had met her 20 years earlier and I wouldn't have been 8 years old. ;)

[Dreammms]

Oh no Angelina Jolie will forever go down in history as the woman of every straight girl's dreams

NO thanks...

[reebokandlace]

Oh no Angelina Jolie will forever go down in history as the woman of every straight girl's dreams. ;)


I thought her behavior with Billy-Bob on the red carpet was disgusting...they talked about how they f---'d on the way over to the red carpet and they were being interviewed and kissing in a way you do not kiss in public. It was gross.

Back on topic though....
I still think Lori and Stevie have been lovers since before Lori changed her name from Perry to Nicks. I do not think Stevie has been with any men for a very long time. Sure she has given the illusion that she has, but I think it is all smoke and mirrors. Someone mentioned on another thread that she was with Johnny Starbuck and Glen Parrish. Not true. Both of those men were admitted platonic friends. Glen was dating a blonde---ummm cant remember her name---the whole time he was friends with Stevie and after the Tango tour he ended up marrying that girl and living happily ever after. Johnny Starbuck was also a platonic friend. As far as the rest of the men....they were poets and yet they were priests of nothing....yet they were violins (whoops, I mean) legends. http://www.websmileys.com/sm/fam/fam12.gif

[Dreammms]

I thought her behavior with Billy-Bob on the red carpet was disgusting...they talked about how they f---'d on the way over to the red carpet and they were being interviewed and kissing in a way you do not kiss in public. It was gross.

Eww. Not only that but she is alittle bit too close to her brother! Nasty.

[nicksnut]

So here's an interesting question for us heterosexual ladies on the board.

Why do we sometimes have lesbian dreams, with Stevie or without?

I'll say almost all my lesbian activity has been confined to flirting with, and kissing, Stevie backstage. ((In my dreams, of course!)) Would I act on this in real life? I don't think so. I am afraid I am more a gay man in a woman's body! But I do love the Stevie dreams. I hope in writing this, I will have one tonight. They say you can dream about anything you want simply by thinking about it a while before bed. Wish me luck!!! :laugh: :thumbsup:


Dreams with Stevie in them?? because she is the sexiest goddess-like bitch alive!
(Unlike Sharon, who for some reason reminds me of a vampiress.)

[Macfanforever]

I've havn't had one of these dreams yet. but I will see what will come in dreamland.hahaha I will stay tune.

[tlssln]

Oh Dear God if Stevie ever considered having a lesbian lover PLEASE say it wasn't Sheryl Crow! :distress:

That's an interesting theory about Stevie and Sheryl but I doubt Stevie would write lyrics like "you're not the one" and then have that person sing it with her (except for Lindsey, of course). LOL.

[tlssln]

Dreams with Stevie in them?? because she is the sexiest goddess-like bitch alive!
(Unlike Sharon, who for some reason reminds me of a vampiress.)

I know. Sharon is looking very Elvira-ish these days. Not flattering at all. Stevie, on the other hand, is sizzling!

[SapphireSister]

Back on topic though....
I still think Lori and Stevie have been lovers since before Lori changed her name from Perry to Nicks.

Wow so you think Lori and Stevie are lovers and the whole marriage thing with Chris is a cover up? I heard that rumour recently but didn't think anyone actually believed it.

[Mari]

If there are any articles online about the Lori-Stevie thing, I'd love to see those :D So I can add them to my "lesbian Stevie rumours" filesection, of course :cool:
(http://home.tiscali.nl/thenicksfiles) (there's something about Sheryl-Stevie in there already, btw!)

[SapphireSister]

If there are any articles online about the Lori-Stevie thing, I'd love to see those :D So I can add them to my "lesbian Stevie rumours" filesection, of course :cool:
(http://www.home.tiscali.nl/thenicksfiles) (there's something about Sheryl-Stevie in there already, btw!)


Mari I can't open the link! I want to see the lesbian files :).

[Kelly]

I thought some of the rumours on the BN board were crazy. :eek

Stevie has been with men in recent years. Lori has been with men in recent years. (uh, Vegas?) Her marriage may be a sham for something but it certainly isn't to cover up some lesbian affair between herself and La Nicks.
Stevie obviously likes men. She writes about her feelings for men all the time. Her chemistry with men is pretty undeniable. Just because she is more private nowadays, doesn't mean there aren't men around. :D
Stevie addressed the issue anyway..she said she has no problem with it but she likes men too much to ever go down that road. :nod: Stevie might have had an encounter or two in her crazy days but a long, hidden love affair with Lori? No way. :angel:

BTW...I used to think Karen was a lesbian but after hearing some things about her from people who have actually met her, I think she is on the boy team too.

[Kelly]

Someone mentioned Glen Parrish being married a few posts back. Does he have a son named Glen with his wife?

[reebokandlace]

There are a lot of lesbians who for whatever reason would never admit to being a lesbian.

I have a friend who would never admit to being a lesbian. She "looks" and "acts" straight. She has men her around who she calls her boyfriends. Long term platonic relationships, that to others look like a serious love affairs. People who have known her her whole life (her family included) would swear she was straight. If anyone was to ever even suggest she is a lesbian it would be impossible to believe. IMPOSSIBLE! For professional and social reasons she could never come out, nor does she want to. She has not "been with" a man in 25 years. Her girlfriend(s) through out the years have been very understanding about the role the men in her life play.

If you looked at the illusion she has created around herself you would never know it wasn't real.

Things are not always what they seem.

[53yearoldpixie]

It would suck to have to hide who you really are from everyone. I doubt Stevie's a lesbian, but if she is, then I feel sorry that she's had to keep it hidden all these years... but I think she's way straight. :nod: Who knows, though? Unless Stevie tells us (which she most likely never will) all we have are these very interesting speculations. :blob1:



~*~ Gina ~*~

[Mari]

Mari I can't open the link! I want to see the lesbian files :).

Sorry :o It's fixed now!
once again (shameless selfpromotion)

http://home.tiscali.nl/thenicksfiles

disclaimer: not for the faint-hearted :D

[Mari]

I thought some of the rumours on the BN board were crazy. :eek

Stevie has been with men in recent years. Lori has been with men in recent years. (uh, Vegas?) Her marriage may be a sham for something but it certainly isn't to cover up some lesbian affair between herself and La Nicks.
Stevie obviously likes men. She writes about her feelings for men all the time. Her chemistry with men is pretty undeniable. Just because she is more private nowadays, doesn't mean there aren't men around. :D
Stevie addressed the issue anyway..she said she has no problem with it but she likes men too much to ever go down that road. :nod: ..

I used to interprete that line "I like men too much" differently, but I googled for the exact interview, and you seem to be right.

Details: Rumor number three: In her act, Sandra Bernhard envisions a chiffon scarf fantasy with you. Is the feeling mutual?

Stevie Nicks: Sandra's a comedian--she’s gonna make up stuff like that. But truthfully--no, I'm not bisexual. I like men too much.
source: http://ledge.fleetwoodmac.net/showthread.php?t=20363&page=1&pp=15

But hey, there's nothing wrong with dreaming ;)

[reebokandlace]

It would suck to have to hide who you really are from everyone. . :blob1:


Why would it suck? I'm curious why people tend to think that. I mean, it just seems that sex is very private to begin with so who one is having sex with can be just as private. I have never been able to understand why some people feel they MUST tell the world what their sexual orientation is or else they feel they are "hiding from who they really are" and therefore it is somehow tragic.

What is sad is when someone is gay and hides it from themselves. They get married and have children and supress those feelings and urges. It is sad because they are not being truthful with themselves. But to choose not to annouce to the world who they are sleeping with, I don't see anything wrong with it.

[53yearoldpixie]

Well, I think it would suck because if I'm with someone I love, I don't want to have to constantly worry about people seeing us together, or acting like a couple or whatever. It's not necessarily about the sex part, it's about the love part, y'know? What you said about sex being private, I totally agree, but it just seems too stressful to have to worry about people finding out.
Just my opinion, however. :shrug: :D

Being in denial about being gay is different than hiding it from others. That would be miserable. Of course, it really isn't for me to say, since I've never had to go through something of this nature.



~*~ Gina ~*~

[SapphireSister]

Why would it suck? I'm curious why people tend to think that. I mean, it just seems that sex is very private to begin with so who one is having sex with can be just as private. I have never been able to understand why some people feel they MUST tell the world what their sexual orientation is or else they feel they are "hiding from who they really are" and therefore it is somehow tragic.


It would suck for exactly the reason you said - she has created an illusion to the world and completely misrepresents who she really is. There is so much more to a person than just their sexuality but at the same time it is still a large part of who she is. According to your orginal post this girl is not just "having sex" with women - she is involved in romantic relationships and there is a lot more to being in a relationship with someone than just sex. I actually felt bad for the girl when I read what you wrote about her. See you're right - your sex life is a private thing but being in an emotionally involved, romantic relationship with someone is more than just sex. It is the person you are sharing your life with and your best friend and if you are not able to share that with the world I feel bad for you.

Now I completely understand that for professional reasons she may not want to be open about her sexuality (and I'm not saying she she wear I t-shirt that says "I love dykes") but to lead people who are very close to her into believing she is straight is just sad. Yes she is being honest with herself but she is creating an illusion to the rest of the world. You can still be a lesbian and be discreet about it but what she is doing lacks integrity IMO. Then again to each is own so if she's happy and the person she is with is fine with the arrangement more power to her!

[Wildflower]

Stevie obviously likes men. She writes about her feelings for men all the time. Her chemistry with men is pretty undeniable.

Keep in mind, it's not very difficult to change a pronoun when one is writing lyrics or giving an interview.

Chemistry CAN be faked.....and, if you are really good friends with someone, there is still chemistry. Doesn't mean you're jumping into bed with them....

Isn't Stevie's entire "persona" all about illusion and mystery? "I keep my visions to myself."

[reebokandlace]

Keep in mind, it's not very difficult to change a pronoun when one is writing lyrics or giving an interview.

Chemistry CAN be faked.....and, if you are really good friends with someone, there is still chemistry. Doesn't mean you're jumping into bed with them....

Isn't Stevie's entire "persona" all about illusion and mystery? "I keep my visions to myself."

I agree Wildflower. The whole "Landslide with Linds chemistry" was SO fake. I think the sentimental chemistry was there for the Dance show because that was a turning moment for the band. Everyone loved the "touching moment" so much they decided to stage it night after night after night after night.

He comments about Waddy being her husband and Carlos as the man in her life....all I could think of was: "....methinks thou doth protest too much..."

[ELIUD]

I think the staging of the landslide kiss was there for the enjoyment of the fans. Not to fight off lesbian-rumours or keep up appearances of a hetero-Nicks.

[reebokandlace]

she has created an illusion to the world and completely misrepresents who she really is.

I do not think it is misrepresentation. Does everyone wear their life on their sleeve for their friends and family to see? No. Everyone has some part of them that they keep hidden. For some, it is their sexuality.

To quote Mark Twain,

"What a wee little part of a person's life are his acts and words! His real life is led in his head, and is known to none but himself. All day long, and every day, the mill of his brain is grinding, and his thoughts, not those other things, are his history. His acts and his words are merely the visible, thin crust of his world, with it's scattered snow summits and it's vacant wastes of water—and they are so trifling part of his bulk! a mere skin enveloping it. The mass of him is hidden—it and its volcanic fires that toss and boil, and never rest, night or day. These are his life, and they are not written, and cannot be written." —

[Wildflower]

It would suck for exactly the reason you said - she has created an illusion to the world and completely misrepresents who she really is. .... It is the person you are sharing your life with and your best friend and if you are not able to share that with the world I feel bad for you.
.....Yes she is being honest with herself but she is creating an illusion to the rest of the world. !

We don't owe "the world" or even the people around us an open invitation into details of our lives -- even famous people have a right to privacy. Tell me you've never lied to your family or best friends or that you haven't kept intimate details or secrets from them.....

Some people don't have a need to "announce" who their partner is. They are comfortable with the knowledge of the love they have between them. That doesn't completely misrepresent who they are -- the feelings and actions are the same, just the "who" or the pronoun is different.

As long as you are true to yourself and to the person(s) with whom you choose to spend your life, that's all that really matters.

BTW, what's wrong with a little illusion? Isn't that what fascinates a lot of Stevie's fans -- her illusions and mystery?

[skcin]

Funny how every time this thread is about to die off, someone chimes in again. Hmmmm...

[reebokandlace]

Hey-- there is nothing wrong with this thread NOT dying off --- I think Stevie's potential lesbianism makes for facinating discussion!!!

:wavey:

[ELIUD]

::spays a can of "DIE THREAD DIE" all over this crap::

[reebokandlace]

::spays a can of "DIE THREAD DIE" all over this crap::


There are none so blind as those who refuse to see.

http://boards.soapcentral.com/images/smilies/yahoo/pout.gif

[BTFLCHLD]

Funny how every time this thread is about to die off, someone chimes in again. Hmmmm... :wavey:

hey..i was chatting with a co-worker this morning...telling her that i hit the snooze 7 times this morning to go back to a dream (i do continue them but probably not the same outcome had i slept straight through) and she said she had the freakiest dream...i thought of this thread and blurted "was it a lesbian dream?" she said yes. question...if one dreams in this way do you suppose they are subconsciously curious?